At first, I didn't...I cybered with people and went along with it but didn't get off while cybering...sometimes I'd get off afterwards when I was replaying it in my head....now there's a guy who I cyber with regularly and get off every single time, usually multiple times per chat and I make sure to get him off as well....it definitely depends on the person and how good he/she is with his/her words and his/her ability to paint a picture with those words
