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She
Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 37
0 miles · Seattle

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Sure. It's one of the ways I test to see I think other people might like them. A lot of what I write comes from my own fantasies, but a whole bunch of it also comes from academic interest in something I have never experienced or even things I've never been interested in, so if I get aroused by those things it tells me that I'm at least potentially writing it well. The next step should really be conferring with my partners and close friends, but most often I just rush to the final editing and submitting phase with stuff that winds up here. You know, because waiting for the emotional validation of strangers round the globe enjoying my words is hard.
I have a higher pain tolerance during sex than anyone I've ever spoken with on the subject or have ever slept with, but even I have limits. Long before my limit though, I have to put aside the sexual pleasure and enjoy the pain and the process of enduring and getting through it, which can then throw a lot of fuel on the fire that is my sexual enjoyment. I'm usually bored by any pain that's less than a 4, and between a 6 and 7 is where I am likely to need to switch gears and focus on the pain. I'd agree with others who've said that 8 is more or less the point where I have to stop altogether.

I'm into pretty much whatever tools my partner (whomever that may be in this case) is. Sometimes nipple clamps can be a bit much for me, but they've only ever been unmanageable the time some asshole put alligator clips on my nipples when I didn't strictly know better. Floggers are probably my favorite where impact is concerned. I don't like paddles, cricket bats, or slippers, but that's all purely based in the imagery associated with it. Legitimate whips, cats o'nine tails, and similar are wonderful as long as whomever is holding them knows how to cause me sufficient pain without injuring me. I can be tied to myself, tied to a pole, or locked in some medieval/renaissance style stocks.

Just because the title of this thread does ask about "subs' views" It may be worth noting that I'm about as switchy as it gets, so I'm perfectly happy to be on the other side of things as well.
Giving Liz Phair's older albums a re-listen. I'm on Whitechocalatespaceegg now.
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"Lelo are great. I've had amazing use out of this, though it takes a while to charge up now!"


Just means it's well loved. Mine too. I've also got the one intended for anal use, but it's ultimately kind of supurfluous. Definitely charges better than the other, though.
Sure. Probably not without someone who knew the ropes to accompany me, though. Maybe if feeling adventurous and energetic on the same night one of my partners was, even if they were not necessarily well versed.
Yep. It's weirdly right a lot of the time, but I try not to read too much into that.

Have you ever accidentally had sex with someone you thought was someone else?
YES. I fetishize cum to a kind of unreasonable extent, actually. Could rant about that for a long while, but... I'm technically at work right now.
If she and whomever she was fucking were into that, definitely.
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Say, just out of curiosity, does anyone know if the men have ever won this?