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She
Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 38
0 miles · Seattle
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Marx Sister
Quote by sprite
"the number one thing is communication. talk to her about what she wants, what she is comfortable with, what YOU are comfortable with. she might just be looking for a get together where you just take the lead, as you said. there is no one thing that subs need/want. it's like any sexual partner - everyone has unique tastes."
What she said. I would add that D/S dynamics take trust, so I highly recommend that you get to know a potential play partner as a person independent of their kink before diving into that dynamic. In fact, I highly recommend having some closer-to-vanilla sex before anything that might fall under D/S occurs – that way you can get to know each other's bodies a little, before adding another layer to it.
