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Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 37
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Marx Sister
Wildly opposed. There are exceptions to every rule, but in this case the challenge would be akin to that of finding a Republican to vote for without vomiting or wanting to kill myself – a near impossibility. The reason I use that comparison is that I think that in most cases I would feel really gross if I slept with a virgin. The possible exception I can see is if I knew the person really well, they were age appropriate for me to sleep with in the first place, and we had both been harboring romantic interest for a while. So, you know, extremely unlikely.
The reason I would not under most circumstances sleep with a virgin is (ignoring the very likely and problematic age difference for the moment) is that I am not comfortable being someone's guide into the world of sex and sexual enjoyment, and it's very possible an attachment would form after the event itself. This applies much more to male identified virgins in my experience (especially those who are old enough that I'd consider them a sexually viable candidate). That said, even if no such attachment formed, I would always be wondering if I had done harm in some way by something I did or didn't do.
In summation, it's a "no", but a complex one.
The reason I would not under most circumstances sleep with a virgin is (ignoring the very likely and problematic age difference for the moment) is that I am not comfortable being someone's guide into the world of sex and sexual enjoyment, and it's very possible an attachment would form after the event itself. This applies much more to male identified virgins in my experience (especially those who are old enough that I'd consider them a sexually viable candidate). That said, even if no such attachment formed, I would always be wondering if I had done harm in some way by something I did or didn't do.
In summation, it's a "no", but a complex one.
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Marx Sister
Verily. I have these manic laughing fits from time to time that burn the majority of my available serotonin and then sob for a while. I usually wind up on the floor when I am struck by this phenomenon.
Have you ever directly asked for a raise because you thought you deserved it?
Have you ever directly asked for a raise because you thought you deserved it?
Marx Sister
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"I recently finished reading a book of collected essays by James Baldwin, and he says writing a play was so much more difficult for him when he started than writing novels. Did you have similar feelings when you got into stageplays?"
I didn't actually. I find screenwriting more challenging, but I suspect that's because I haven't worked on an actual film project. By the time I started seriously writing plays I'd acted, directed, stage managed, run tech positions, assisted in the design and construction of sets, managed props, and functioned as dramaturg. That said, I haven't done it in years and I'm sure I'd find it to be a new set of challenges now.
Marx Sister
Depends on what's going on in my life. Right now I'm working intermittently on what I'd describe as an atypical high sci-fantasy novel. It isn't erotic fiction per se, but there's a fair amount of sex and romance in it. I just don't spend 500+ words describing a single orgasm. There's also a couple of temporarily shelved novels, one of which is periodically autobiographical, but if you were looking at those events through the lens of powerful hallucinogens and/or psychosis (this subject has been researched thoroughly including interviews, as a note). I've also written a number of stageplays and had a few produced. I wrote a feature-length screenplay once but I never pushed to get it produced. I might try and rebuild it one day, but I'd be doing so from the ground up. Lots of other things too, but those are generally considered the highlights by people who've read my work.
