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Shylass

Over 90 days ago

Straight Female

United Kingdom

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28 Sep 2013

Nothing can substitute actually being together, able to read facial and body language, physical intimacy (of whatever nature), and simply spending time in each other's company without worrying if the other isn't talking because they're bored, not just because you're Being Quiet Together. Even webcams cannot truly bring in the dimension that being in each other's physical airspace can.

However, when words are your only communication, there is both safety and vulnerability. We are more likely to open up and be truly honest without fear of seeing rejection and condemnation in the eyes of our companion.

But we also have to work harder at the tone of our written "voice" in case it is read wrong. We must learn to question calmly where we are offended or hurt, as the fault may be in our own misunderstanding of an innocent remark. We can bare our souls a little more comfortably, in most cases, and truly learn to love the heart of each other, whether we are just friends, or something more.

But we are wide open to hurt and pain, because measured words are not always truth. Any insult can be a thousand times more hurtful if one has dared to strip one's heart of barriers, and found out that their friend/lover has been lying to them all along. This is true in real life, but just as, if not more, cutting in cyberspace. Cyberspace has its own timescale. Minutes are hours online, days are weeks. Those who have experienced it know what I mean. We can fall harder and faster online than ever we would dare in real life.

We must be cautious, slow to act and discerning. But we must also be reckless, daring and confident. I have friends and family who have found their life partners through being penpals or building online relationships. It can happen, and be wonderful. I have met some very close, wonderful friends this way, as well as some very nasty people. Just like real life.

And the amount of waffle I have just splashed across the post is why I don't chat much. Sorry. Embarassed

Embarassed

27 Sep 2013

To be covered in a waste product is not my idea of sexy at all. Personally, I think peeing (and pooing) should only ever be deposited in the toilet (or behind a rock on the beach, etc, if there's no facilities) and done as privately as it can be. Yuck! Some things I try to keep an open mind about, but not that.

26 Sep 2013

I have a little vibrator (I have a story in me somewhere about buying and using it for the first time, if I can bring myself to write it).

However, I don't like it, and I've used it on only about three or four occasions. My fingers do the job much better, and they don't make me sore! I don't like how hard it is, or the buzzing it leaves in my body afterwards. I can't get it inside, and it's a horrible shade of pearly, bleurghy pink. I feel grossed out by just the thought of it, as I'm sure everybody else does now, too. tard

tard

26 Sep 2013

Not such a fucking big man now, are you?! He would have pounded your fucking scummy little shitty ass into the pavement if I'd told him. Yeah, that's right, look away when I stare you down, you chavvy little weasel. I hope your two Burberry hags with the nicotine fingers give you syphilis if you haven't already got it. And herpes, and any other knob-rot that exists, in the hope that it removes that limp little dick from your forehead.

And most of all, I hope that one day soon, you will get your head knocked off for flapping your gob, and remember it was me who stared you down. I see you and your cowardly, crappy, dirty little soul, and I hope you feel as much pain and more, inside and out. You little turd.

25 Sep 2013

Quote by sprite

how come you haven't submitted this, Alan? seriously, it's way better then umm... your... i mean, some stuff i read... (for those who don't know it, DM is actually a well regarded published author of poetry, and we're sort of proud of him, even tho some of us will never admit it - oh, and he has a book out. i've heard it's good).

It is very funny ( aside) but as far as I was aware, wasn't allowed in the poetry category, nor in the forums (sorry, DM, I love you loads). Has this changed now?

24 Sep 2013

Quote by nicola
Just so people are aware, he's signing up via various free wifi spots, places we haven't banned yet, and has taken to spamming his comments on people's stories, claiming votes are rigged.
Why on earth would site staff rig votes on any story? This sad little fella is more delusional than even I'd anticipated

Maybe he's just not a pussy lover.

sunny

23 Sep 2013

Quote by Magical_felix

See, OP... I didn't even say anything dirty and this lush broad is flipping out. Can you imagine if I did?

I'm saving my best lines for somebody who gives a shit. clown

clown

23 Sep 2013

Quote by Magical_felix

...

See what I mean?

Fuck off, you little bitch-troll whore boy.

sunny

sunny

23 Sep 2013

Quote by trinket

I like being called "baby"

Most people, who aren't me, do. *shudder* I don't mind "love", "darling", "sweetheart", "sweets", "sweetie" and "lass". Even "hon" and "honey" are acceptable. But "babe" and "baby" in a sexual moment are just... puke

puke

tard

It's about on a level with "cunt" for me. confused1

confused1

Even non-sexually, it makes me cringe.

23 Sep 2013

Quote by MasterJonathan
Personally, I believe "dirty talk" develops as you get to know each other. You start off with the tame stuff -"How do you like that, baby?"

puke

That word right there is an even bigger turn-off than "bitch" ever was. No wonder I'm single! evil4

evil4

23 Sep 2013

Unless I'm actually being a bitch, and deserve it, then no. It's not okay. And he'd better find a more suitable word or turn of phrase than that to confront me with, as well. I wouldn't call him a name like that if I was confronting him about something, or as a term of endearment, unless he requested it.

23 Sep 2013

Quote by Magical_felix
I think the fun girls that like dirty names are busy being told to take it like the filthy little whores they are. Not posting on lush. Just sayin.

Yep. All the not-fun girls are currently here. You'll have to wait for the fun ones to recharge before they turn up.

This not-fun girl doesn't want to be called mean names at all. I find "dirty talk" to be something that I am uncomfortable with, embarassed about, and something I want to run away from. I've been called those sorts of names in a non-sexual way so much that they make me ashamed of who I am and what I look like. Nobody ever did it in a sexual way to me except one, and he was assaulting me at the time.

So no, I can't give you examples of how I would like them to be used regarding me, because I don't think it will ever happen. As for general dirty talk, I haven't been in the position (arf arf) to know if I like that or not. The way my mindset works currently, I'd hate to hear it. However, from the way my story writing has developed, I would be likely to use it myself if I could see the lad liked it.

23 Sep 2013

Quote by SereneProdigy

Quite a powerful tool, really.

kekekegay

22 Sep 2013

Quote by nicola

Both.

The comments are usually along the lines that the story has been stolen, or that it doesn't deserve the number of votes / score it's received.

Sometimes he delights authors with personal notes along the same lines, trying to cause disharmony.

I know the owners of some other sites which have similar lunatics, it happens everywhere.

They are a nuisance to society, online and off. I feel sorry for him most of all.

Ah, I just reported one, sorry, and sent a Contact Us message in saying I wasn't sure if I should have. I'm so fick that I wasn't actually sure what he was trying to say. kekekegay

kekekegay

But I understand now.

Illness is a terrible thing, but there are also limits. I truly hope he gets the help he needs, before the "help" he might find doled out is given. It's sad but true that cases like this often don't end happily.

22 Sep 2013

lol

22 Sep 2013

Out of interest, does this guy leave comments, too? Or just the scores?

22 Sep 2013

Quote by Coco

Holy smokes, that's just ONE wipe?

And I thought I needed to get out more! kekekegay

kekekegay

22 Sep 2013

Quote by amber

The oddest thing happened today.

I was checking our thermal curtains to see if it was time for their annual trip to the cleaners. Nothing special at all, just having a look to see. Moving around I felt like the shorts I was wearing was kind of rubbing a bit pleasurably. I felt like I was turned on.

I had a feel and I was wet. Not damp, moist, but WET.

I thought what the hell! Since when did checking out whether curtains needed cleaning get me hot!

After some consideration I remembered that the last few days, my boyfriend and I had been getting home about the same time, which was not common for us, and that we had been having some damn good stress relieving sex shortly after. And it was around that time that I had been messing with the curtains.

I wonder, can arousal come around a certain time just because sexual activity had been happening then the last few days then?

pavlov's pussy?

Has this happened to any of you?
A) Found yourself aroused when nothing sexual is going on? and

B) If so, has it sometimes happened when maybe you have been doing something sexual at around that time before?

We can train our brains to certain habits. Self-discipline, such as an exercise routine, is simply that, in its latter stages, because we are forcing ourselves to learn a new habit, and our body and mind come to expect it.

Your shorts rubbing you could have had something to do with it, too, even if you didn't notice for a while. But you are now clearly making a link with your curtains and great sex, so that will play a part in future.

Sometimes, when I'm going fishing on my own, I can get very excited. I think it's the adrenalin of knowing I'm going out alone, to sit in nature before the crashing sea and breath in the fresh air, whilst "hunting" of a sort. It makes me happy, and obviously my body gets ready for that too.

I don't get turned on by the fish, though, or the bait. I refuse to touch anything without double-gloving. Yuck!

22 Sep 2013

Quote by SereneProdigy
What is your opinion about men who sometimes display a childish behavior?

I'm not talking about immature men who can't take care of themselves or invest in a relationship, but random acts of childness.

I just looked back at the birthday wishes I sent to Sprite, and I must admit I do appear childish myself at times... well Sprite does bring out the child in me, actually.

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postsm1328441_Happy-Birthday-Her-Royal-Spriteness.aspx#1328441

Although I'm often quite serious and mature, and can surely stand my ground agaisnt other men, I do enjoy feeling like a child at times ; playing video games on Sunday morning, watching animated movies, talking to my cats, sending cute little emoticons... all of which being performed with a goofy smile on my face. I guess I just appreciate the feeling of allowing myself to be totally joyful about simple things, and put all my concerns aside for a brief period of time.

I surely won't expose that side of me publicly though, especially at work or with other men. My ex-girlfriends also never minded it, but were equally childish and playful themselves.

What's your opinion about this? Are childish men a complete turn-off, or a turn-on?

Do you make any assumptions about a man who's childish at times? Does it make him less manly to you?

Thanks for answering. Also, please provide an honest feedback. I can handle criticism, don't worry... I won't cry like a child.

To me, there is a difference between being childish and child-like. Childish means negativity, immaturity, tantrums and uncontrolled selfishness. A childish man has only himself and his unleashed me-now-me-now vision always in place.

Child-like means finding wonder in small things, simplicity, light-heartedness, trump jokes, and a joyful respect for the litle things in life. A man who is child-like knows where to draw the line, but does not lose the ability to be amused by playing keepsy-uppy with a balloon and blowing bubbles with me.

Why shouldn't grown men climb trees and playfight? Or fill in a colouring book or buy sweets? To lose one's inhibitions and enjoy life in such a way is both child-like and full of adult wisdom, in my opinion. It's what makes a Real Man. All of what you said you did fits in this category for me.

If I was lucky enough to meet somebody that I wanted to be with, and who wanted to be with me, he'd better be able to giggle when either of us trumped, and understand my deep passion for helium balloons and blowing raspberries! Because to know that little things are part of "life's rich tapestry", is to prove that tapestry worth making.

21 Sep 2013

21 Sep 2013

Three thousand people, and not a single one of you can walk over to a collapsed man and ask him if he needs help?! What the fuck is wrong with you all?!

And yes, he will flail about and need restraining if eight of you in uniform surround him! What the fuck did you think would happen?! And who puts a group of five first aiders without radios all in the same crammed place across the barriered road so nobody can fucking reach them and get their help? Fucking hell, even the poor guy on the ground could have organised it better! A lad on leave has to go searching for help whilst you all stand around and do fuck-all? Fucking disgrace, you are!

You lot fucking suck (not in the fun way).

21 Sep 2013

Quote by SereneProdigy

Let's face it : penises often look like monstrous worm-like creatures.

Not only do they look 'bizarre' on their own, but being often submitted to shrinkage/expansion, manipulation and friction, they are also very prone to loose skin, rough texture and discoloration, more so than any other body part.

So, are they simply meant to look ugly?

To you ladies who find them attractive, is it only for their sexual purpose/connotation, yet still think they look gross somehow?

Do you also consider that such 'ugliness' is what actually makes them attractive, displaying some form of 'nasty manliness'? In that case, do you think that rough/veiny cocks are more attractive than smooth ones?

Please discuss! Also feel free to mention what you find beautiful/ugly in a penis. Rough/smooth skin? Blue veins? Loose skin?

Aesthetically, a penis can look funny to me, but that doesn't mean unattractive. Quite the opposite, in fact, if it belongs to a man I fancy. I find his willy attractive, exciting, fascinating and amusing. It's not just because of what it is, but what it does to him if I play with it. sunny

sunny

I don't look at them for fun, and I find images of them both eye-watering and embarassing. But if it's attached to a close friend and in my hand, it's a wonderful appendage indeed!

On the flip side, I find girly bits extremely unattractive and ugly. I don't find pleasure in looking at them at all, nor have any desire to play with any except my own. I think it's great when men say they are beautiful, because I just don't think like that. Perhaps if I was a man, I would feel that way about a penis. dontknow

dontknow

20 Sep 2013

Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
Thanks everyone for the comments and advice.

We are talking tonight.

Big Hugs

Good luck! Remember, you're only responsible for you and your own actions/behaviour, not hers.

20 Sep 2013

Quote by trinket

DAMN! Daisy, when I got that score of ONE, you did tell me it was because some door handle got jealous about my fabulous story! What am I gonna blame if I ever get another one?

I'd give you one, but I don't swing that way, sorry. kekekegay

kekekegay

20 Sep 2013

Just shut the fucking fuck up, you fucking twat! And YOU can get out! And if you don't start moving a bit faster, I'm going to shove a scud missile up your ass and watch you light up the street. How do you like THAT buttplug, eh?! FFS. angry7

angry7

20 Sep 2013

Quote by Poppet

I tried telling you. This dude has no life.

And I told you, there will always be knobheads and idiots around. It's how we deal with it that matters.

Quote by sprite

that was just me, Daisy. sorry. i went a little mental. try not to let it happen again.

It's okay. I can't be perfect in everything I do, or other people would feel inferior. It's good of you to care about their feelings so much. sunny

sunny

20 Sep 2013

Quote by HotBttmInBriefs

You are just seeing a contradiction. I have stated many times what I have told her.

Have you not ever told someone something and wonder if they fully understand?

Maybe she does and maybe she doesn't. I know she understands there is nothing more happening now. I have told her that over and over.

I do not want to bring the subject up with her again as one if she asks why I will have to either lie to her or tell her the truth. I do not want to hurt her feelings. I also don't want her to think by me bringing it up that I do want more somewhere down the road.

A lot of it is me wondering and venting.

I am a believer in venting. It stops the negative emotions clogging up your system.

However, it is what you do about the situation afterwards that is the important part, and demonstrates what sort of a person you really are (to yourself and others).

I was once made to feel like I was almost beautiful, desired and wanted, once. Then he met somebody who actually was beautiful, and he desired and wanted her. He finally told me the truth of what he thought. He had made me feel those positive things because he didn't want to "hurt my feelings" (and other crap that I can't be arsed to post here).

The point is, if he had told me the truth to begin with, the ripping out of any confidence, hope, almost sexiness, and anything positive about myself, woulsn't have been the only real outcome.

Granted, every situation and person is different, but if you try to spare somebody some hurt by keeping it from them, you will make it immeasurably more painful when they do find out the truth.

It is not your responsibility to make her believe or accept the truth, but please don't fool yourself into thinking that not being honest about how you feel about her character will either make it go away or not hurt her. All you're doing is lying. For what?

If you are happy to keep things as they are, then fair enough. Vent away.

But if you aren't? If she is rude to people, does she realise? Maybe she needs a dose of truth. Maybe she would be upset to know it, and change her ways. You aren't responsible for her integrity and behaviour, denial or refusal to address certain facts in your relationship (whatever that might be), but you are for yours. But please do not be so foolish as to withold certain feelings because you might hurt her. Find a better excuse or none at all.

20 Sep 2013

And there was me thinking that all low scores meant that other authors were simply so jealous of my wonderful turn of phrase, willy-stiffening punctuation, and sparkling wit, that they bombed in spiteful revenge. I refuse to believe it's truth or illness! cussing

cussing

Dammit.

clown

20 Sep 2013

Quote by adamdaniels73
Hello my friends... I'm not big on the Forums, but need some assistance.

I've been working Minneapolis/Bloomington portion of the Twin Cities for several months now... Back each week.

I'm bored. Does anyone have any suggestions for a fun place (bar, restaurant, etc), where I could relax and have a nice drink?

And, is anyone interested in joining me? Would love to take a new friend to dinner and drinks on Monday night? I'm a normal, engaging man... The fun we could have.

OK... Have a good night. Hope to hear from some of you.

Adam

Good luck with your request. I have a feeling that you're going to need it. sunny

sunny

Big Hugs

19 Sep 2013