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Shylass
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
United Kingdom
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Gingerbread Lover
Quote by nicola
It's actually built in to VBulletin's software (the most popular forum software in the world, we don't use).
I think it would be good fun, if you checked regularly and the same person / people were constantly checking your profile, you'd know you have a stalker. Yay!
[/monday morning black humour]
Or be gutted that we don't...
Gingerbread Lover
Apparently, I'm a model in the most "Awarded Studio in History, I sleep in a mountain, I don't have 43 things on my life list, I like to play, I answer questions, I'm very shy (that one's me), and the list goes on after that.
And this is the first image - I have big bazongas.
And this is the first image - I have big bazongas.
Gingerbread Lover
I've voted no (I think - the laptop slipped off me as I hit the button! 
).
I would LOVE to see who the heck thinks my page is interesting enough to look at, but I would hate for people to know I had been looking at theirs. I like to keep my activity as private as possible (because it's nobody's business unless I want to make it so), and I hate how they can see me browsing the forum when I am unable to chat.
I would also hate for people to feel uncomfortable that I could see if they had been checking out my fabulous Gingas.
If the option to choose whether people could see we had visited was there, that would be okay, but mine would be permanently not showing.
).I would LOVE to see who the heck thinks my page is interesting enough to look at, but I would hate for people to know I had been looking at theirs. I like to keep my activity as private as possible (because it's nobody's business unless I want to make it so), and I hate how they can see me browsing the forum when I am unable to chat.
I would also hate for people to feel uncomfortable that I could see if they had been checking out my fabulous Gingas.
If the option to choose whether people could see we had visited was there, that would be okay, but mine would be permanently not showing.
Gingerbread Lover
1ball, I would count each chapter separately.
I was waiting for you to show up!
I had no idea about that Author search thingy! That's so cool! I can see my overall avearge score (which I don't really understand without pictures), and how many views? Blimey! I learn summat new on Lush every day. The other day, I learned I even have followers! I was all, NEW LUSH SECTION! I don't know how I never found it before.
Thank you all for your contributions, I think it's interesting to see.
Quote by DirtyMartini
Here's my category list...you know, an easy way to do this is to up to the top of the page...go to "Search"...then "Authors" and it gives the list next to everyone's name...
BDSM (1)
Exhibitionism
First Time (2)
Group Sex
(4)
Interracial (2)
Love Poems
Love Stories (2)
Masturbation (1)
Mature
Oral Sex (1)
Reluctance (1)
Straight Sex
Toys (1)
Voyeur
Wife Lovers (2)
I didn't add how many of each, only a few I can remember...you're trying to make work for me, ain't you?
I was waiting for you to show up!
I had no idea about that Author search thingy! That's so cool! I can see my overall avearge score (which I don't really understand without pictures), and how many views? Blimey! I learn summat new on Lush every day. The other day, I learned I even have followers! I was all, NEW LUSH SECTION! I don't know how I never found it before.
Thank you all for your contributions, I think it's interesting to see.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by PersonalAssistant
Thank you Shylass, for saying everything that I have been thinking with OP.
I am confuzzzzzzed as well. Not to sound weird, but perhaps OP has many planets in Gemini, Pisces or Libra .... you know .... unable to decide, sees both sides, sees many sides, figures others can solve the many piece puzzle.
Oh, and the question "Why?" may be a very involved answer .... get your coffee!!
I have to slightly disagree, I'm afraid. I doubt we will get an answer at all.
But I do agree that whatever the answer actually is, then it no doubt is very involved. Why?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by JesseS
A] It is OVER!!! Let it go, yes it hurts, that isn't going to be helped by dragging the disaster out and devoting more energy, time, emotion, etc. to it. Admit to yourself that she is out of your life.
B] If you are battling physical pain issues, get acupuncture, it is fast, effective and has NO side effects! Plus, unlike pills, once the pain is conquered, it is gone.
A. I agree. Sharpwit, sometimes we lose people in our lives. It may be we grew apart, or that we had some sort of disagreement. It could be that we each seek different things, and for different reasons. I would encourage you not to see this as a "second chance" situation, but as simply one to write off and try to start afresh. Sometimes, the history of a relationship mires those in it down so far that it is a battle to wade through it with little hope of making headway. I would suggest you do as others have suggested, and seek to find new diversions, which, I hope, in time will become a joy to you, rather than a distraction from what has been a horrible situation.
B. Acupuncture helps about 80% of people who have it. It also depends on the issue and who is treating you (qualified and with scrupulous hygiene, for a start). It is not always a cure-all although it can be for some.
Gingerbread Lover
I haven't had permission either, but I recommend Sisyphus. He is my favourite Lush writer (although I love some others very much too) and whilst his page is not particularly daubed with pictures that make me blush, it does have links to his work, which never cease to let my mind wander in beautiful places.
http://www.lushstories.com/sisyphus
http://www.lushstories.com/sisyphus
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Beck
Thank you. Um my mistress has said I love you to me many times and I believe her. Good points all around. I actually have been staying away from others whom I feel tempted by and so far as good. I am proud that I was able to be faithful now and know what triggers me. Thanks for responding Shy Lass.
I have to be honest, Beck, I find you very confusing, and not a little odd, but a great deal odd. You often post questions, and when people respond, you completely agree with them, as if you had no need of asking the question in the first place.
I'm very confused. I'm not complaining, I'm just very confused. I could come up with loads of reasons that I would find plausible as to why this is, but I fear that once again, you simply happily agree with whatever it was I came up with. So I'll ask you outright: Why?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Beck
My Mistress knows I talk to other women and sometimes in a naughty way. She doesn't mind just so long as I don't get carried away.
Crushes/infatuations fade but true love is forever and if I had to choose in the long run I will always go with my Mistress no matter what.
If you had to choose? True love? I guess it's not True Love forsaking all others, then? Out of interest, does your mistress love you too?
If you feel that sometimes you are being unfaithful, why on earth don't you stop doping whatever it is that makes you feel that way? Like, not engaging in chatting, etc with a sexual slant, or those people to whom you feel drawn that deeply? Be pro-active and do something about it. If you stay away from whatever makes you feel you are being unfaithful, you will then be able to feel proud that you were faithful, which leads to lack of feeling depressed afterwards. No?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by SensualSharon
The ones using fake pics drive me nuts. What the hell is the point? I can pick out adult content pics a mile off and so many women here use them, you can do a reverse pic look up so easy, these women are pathetic. For them to accept all these compliments about pics they bought online, these broads have serious issues.......Please, I get the privacy issue, the avatar I use isn't my lips, nor do I claim them to be. Use a generic avatar like that rather than buy pics and say they are you on a site like this. So fake pics is too much on a profile as far as I'm concerned.
Seriously? People actually buy the rights to a picture so they can say it's them? I wish I had the money for that, I'd have a different look for every day! But actually, inside, I think it would hurt, to know that the compliments are about some random woman who got paid to get her bits out, because I didn't think mine were good enough to show, or I just wasn't brave enough to let it all hang out.
Freud would have loved Lush.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by nicola
It may be they were stripped out as part of Gav's filtering program. They shouldn't have been. I'll ask him.
In future, please use the Help >> Contact Us link in the header, it goes straight to Gav's inbox.
Sorry.
I was trying to avoid getting that injunction for persnicketty messages and harrassment through abuse of the function. But since you said it's okay... 
Gingerbread Lover
I suddenly realised tonight that I have written some stories in many more categories than I ever thought I could even attempt. When I first joined Lush, I cringed at even "Straight Sex" (okay, I still do, but it's not the point). So, I decided to see which categories I have written in (and how many in total). I am vaguely toying with the idea of picking something as a challenge to myself, although I doubt I really would, and I think I have been challenged enough since January! I usually write the story, and then see which category it fits best.
I would be really interested to see what other people have, whether they favour a category, or are across the board. I will list my categories, and then the number in the bracket is the amount of pieces I did.
Exhibitionism (1)
First Time (3)
Group Sex (1)
Love Poems (11)
Love Stories (1)
Masturbation (1)
Oral Sex (1)
Spanking (1)
Straight Sex (1)
Supernatural (1)
(1)
Okay, so it's a sad thread, but I am actually interested!
I would be really interested to see what other people have, whether they favour a category, or are across the board. I will list my categories, and then the number in the bracket is the amount of pieces I did.
Exhibitionism (1)
First Time (3)
Group Sex (1)
Love Poems (11)
Love Stories (1)
Masturbation (1)
Oral Sex (1)
Spanking (1)
Straight Sex (1)
Supernatural (1)
(1)
Okay, so it's a sad thread, but I am actually interested!
Gingerbread Lover
Personally, I think kind people are fab, and they make my days better. 
It's awesome when people apologise for things they are sorry about, but I also hope they don't feel guilty for things that aren't their fault, or assume everybody else will think they are guilty because they have a willy too (or a pussy, or whatever).
I like to think I would give people the benefit of the doubt when they first communicate with me, but I would hope they did the same for me. I'm happy to be nice to anybody as long as they are nice to me. Just because I met a few bastards (okay, a lot), it doesn't put me off meeting new people (online, real life is too scary) and waiting to see what they are like before deciding they are knobheads. They should get a chance to show me themselves (i don't mean show me bits of themselves, I mean... dammit, I'm tired).
I'm awful at responding back to PMs and stuff, it's true, but I try my best to be nice when I do! I would like to think everybody else could do that too...
It's awesome when people apologise for things they are sorry about, but I also hope they don't feel guilty for things that aren't their fault, or assume everybody else will think they are guilty because they have a willy too (or a pussy, or whatever).I like to think I would give people the benefit of the doubt when they first communicate with me, but I would hope they did the same for me. I'm happy to be nice to anybody as long as they are nice to me. Just because I met a few bastards (okay, a lot), it doesn't put me off meeting new people (online, real life is too scary) and waiting to see what they are like before deciding they are knobheads. They should get a chance to show me themselves (i don't mean show me bits of themselves, I mean... dammit, I'm tired).
I'm awful at responding back to PMs and stuff, it's true, but I try my best to be nice when I do! I would like to think everybody else could do that too...
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
I'm going to respectfully disagree with you.
As with any club or group people belong to, there is only so much that can be discussed about certain areas involved in that particular club or group before moving onto other issues that you might share so that you can connect to others in that same group.
Just as the most of us here at Lush have gotten tired of the great Pubic Hair Debate and Do You Like Anal threads that somehow start once or twice a week.
We've already discussed that shit to death.
While some of us have evolved past the yank and wank time, the newcomers haven't.
So fill your boots and start ANOTHER masturbation survey.
The rest of us will discuss recipes and global issues and how our government is taking us all for a ride to hell while the kiddies are playing in the perv pool.
I was being sarcastic.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by FtLMale
Clum, speak for yourself!
Not all arsonist hate firefighters
Seriously there are a lot of firefighters on Lush...
Next time my house catches fire I may just call here.
There have to be firefighters on Lush, so many people here are smokin' hot and the stories are on fire with passion and stuff. Firefighters are part of the very attractive furniture, and regularly douse the flames with their gushing hoses. It's very nice to see them in action.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by DirtyMartini
Here you go Miss Shy Daisy...I want to make sure you have plenty to steal...you can thank me later...
This latest bastardization of English literature is a re-write of the Jay P. Narain poem "On The Golden Pond"...here be the link to the original...
On The Golden Pond - Jay P. Narain
On the Golden Ginga
Fred is sitting, it is late summer afternoon,
The ginga is filled with vibrant colors,
The bear is sitting near the pond,
the water is glittering like gold on a ginga.
Sometimes Fred makes ripple over the water,
sometimes Fred reflects from the rippled pond,
sometimes concentric circular gingas emerge,
sometimes Fred is seen peeing in the the pond.
The golden gingas are getting longer and longer,
the gingas break into pieces and reunite again and again,
The memories of our long snacks together,
seem to perpetuate in the ebb tides of the golden gingas.
How many times we sat on the shores, adoring the beautiful gingas,
How many times we held gingas, promising to eat each ginga together,
How many times, the gingas swayed and Fred ran around playing hide and seek,
How many times, the gingas smiled and wished, Fred wasn't so damn hungry.
I can't believe I actually just cried (in a good way) over the mutilation of such wonderful creativity. But you made today a million times better. Thank you.
Gingerbread Lover
I fucking HATE liars and people who think it's okay to hold little pieces of your heart until they hold the whole thing in one place, and then they look at it, laugh, and splatter and smear it into the pavement like a piece of dog shit that they got on their shoe, and then other people look at it and go, ha ha, somebody stepped in that shit, and it stinks, and I'm glad it wasn't me, cos nobody wants a piece of fucking stinking shit like that. I hate people who think it's okay to do that to other people, and I wish I could hate them enough to imagine fucking smashing their brains out and smearing their emotional hearts all over the fucking floor just so they'd know how it felt to be that broken piece of shit that was once a juicy little piece of happy mango all sunshiney and then got digested into sweetcorny lumps of crap. BUT I'M NOT THAT FUCKING KIND OF PERSON AND I FUCKING WISH I WAS BECAUSE THEN I MIGHT FEEL BETTER!
Fuck it.
Fucketty fuck fuck fucking fucky fuckfacey bollocks. WHY don't I FEEL better? Why do I have to be the poo?
Fuck it.
Fucketty fuck fuck fucking fucky fuckfacey bollocks. WHY don't I FEEL better? Why do I have to be the poo? 
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Sprichler
here's my
if you do decide to go and break your vows : you will be a filthy lying whore. or cheater. however you want to put it. i prefer filthy lying whore because it fits the amount of rage/angst i felt when i found my significant other was cheating on me. before you go getting some strange, id say talk about it. breaking vows that you took, well that just lets everyone else know the weight of your word. "Ill keep it 'till it gets tough" or what have you. i'm not big on religion but keeping my word is pretty damn important to me. maybe not others.
and as you said
relationships require two people. maybe your doing something thats bothering him, and you just don't know it? communication is pretty damn important.
but , if your okay with being known as a woman who cheats, then by all means, go get em tiger.
just another willing to prove the statement "remember guys, she might be your gal, but shes everyone's pal"
I've been trying so hard not to say what I really think in the way that I think it. But you kind of just summed it up. I hate liars and people who run away from sorting out issues, preferring to bury their heads in the sand and find easy "exciting" options rather than even slowly trying to work through what is not only right for them, but right for the people they made a commitment to, even if that is impossible to happen the way we want it.
Sometimes Lush just reinforces why I can't trust anybody. And all the people saying "Do it, do it"? FFS, lying and cheating and sneaking behind somebody's back for one's own selfish gratification and because they don't want to face up to responsibilities and ugly monsters in the closet? Sure there are problems and issues and loneliness and desires to deal with, but welcome to the world! Whatever happened to dignity and respect for oneself? I guess some people just don't have it the way I see it.
Sorry if that sounds judgemental and gets anybody's slimey knickers in a twist, but that's my view and I'm entitled to it. If the OP does write that story, I won't be reading it. And I truly hope that what goes around really does come around for anybody who thinks it's okay to cheat on somebody without talking it through and laying out the options. Because to not do so destroys genuinely kind and loving people. But I guess sometimes that doesn't matter, right?
Gingerbread Lover
Without asking for details, is asking them not to message you an option?
If not, simply find the stories you want, or their profile page to find the stories, and then add them to your bookmarks on your browser.
Then delete/block completely them, and make sure only friends can poke you, and friends can message you if it helps.
You can look at their profiles and their stories whilst not logged in to Lush.
Hope that helps!
If not, simply find the stories you want, or their profile page to find the stories, and then add them to your bookmarks on your browser.
Then delete/block completely them, and make sure only friends can poke you, and friends can message you if it helps.
You can look at their profiles and their stories whilst not logged in to Lush.
Hope that helps!
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Gurlyboy
I might like your cherries if I saw them. It's weird, all I seem to be doing today is seeing posts about cherries (here and elsewhere too) and listening to the song Cherry Pie. Is somebody trying to tell me something, I wonder?
I will see if I can take a picture of them tomorrow for you. I sell them by the metre, you know. They weren't my choice, but... there they are.