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Shylass
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
United Kingdom

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Quote by Dani


What it mostly boils down to is fetishism by way of perceived exoticism.


Now this makes sense, thank you.
Quote by Hytherion
Most girls here are pretty nice, but every once in a while there is one who has a profile gallery, which is obviously copied from somewhere else on the web.

Personally I don't mind, if they say "yes it's not me, but she looks something like me" or something similar. I appreciate that girls also have to be more careful about posting pics, as well.

So what do you think about this?


So, when you first posted this, did you have any pre-conceived notion about the sorts of replies that would be following it?

In answer to your first post (even though I'm not a guy... Or am I? ), I expect anybody on the internet posting "personal" photos to probably be using somebody else's. That's because I'm suspicious of everybody about everything.

I don't have a problem with it, as long as they don't claim it's them when it's not. If I feel suspicious to the point where I do a search to find the truth, it's not the sort of person I should be having a friendship with. I'm already paranoid enough without that sort of thing. Having said that, the only reason I look at a person's photos is so I can "see" them in my head when I'm writing to them. Since I don't like looking at sexy photos, it's not much of an issue for me, but I can see why it is for others.


Please excuse my ignorance, but this is such a difficult concept for me. I only ever think of having sex with somebody I actually like, regardless of their skin tone, or shape, or physical being.

If I like the person, and they make me horny, and they don't run away screaming, I'd happily go for it. I don't understand how a man's willy skin being a different colour to my pussy skin, or someone else's willy skin, makes any difference. If it's about size, whilst certain ethnic groups might be proven to have an average size different to other ethnic groups, they still have all sorts of sizes depending on the individuals within those groups.

I just don't get it. Is it a cultural thing? But which culture with what habits and which country, and...

I just don't understand.

Quote by wanderlustlove
someone is confusing porn and reality again


That made me laugh.

Personally, I don't like the idea at all. I'd rather take my time and do lots of stuff with one person. I suppose there isn't much difference between having sex more than once with the same person in a row, and having sex with lots of others in a row, but really, I'd rather it just the one cock inside me on any given day.
Quote by Raulabbclover
OK ladies no offence intended but honestly when I have sex with my husband or any white guy no matter how huge is his dick I always cum in the normal way, light sticky non coloured liquid like BUT when I am having sex with a black guy especially if his dick is big, I always cum with whitish like milk or like sperm liquid and in big quantities too and even I squirt it in that white color. Why is that? Can any woman here explain to me why do I cream when fucked by black men and why not when with white guys?


Out of interest, are you fucking faster when it's white? I've found that going faster can produce lots of tiny little bubbles, that make it appear white.

Other than that, I've nowt else to suggest, unless the paleness of a white partner means the tone of skin makes it appear clear, when really it's not?
Quote by theantelope


Those would make for some interesting additions to birthday party take-home bags :P

Some look delicious, others... not so much haha


I think I'll add some sweeties to the party bags...


I used to know why I come here, but I don't anymore. Probably because they haven't banned me yet.
Quote by HotWife4U
Are you using them solely for anxiety or also high blood pressure? I'd be careful in that case. Walking 14 miles is sufficient. Not worth your life,to push it further.


It's purely for anxiety. Whilst my blood pressure was up a bit the other day, it's normally just below average. I can't walk 14 miles at the moment, as I lost my stamina. I need it back. I don't think I can manage 6 miles right now, but I want (need) to kick miles ass.





Quote by overmykneenow
The beta blockers shouldn't stop you from enjoying a good long walk. Even on the drugs, your body will tell you if you're pushing it too far; listen to it and either slow down or stop.

Unless you're really trying to maintain a high heart rate the blockers shouldn't interfere with your exercise. Walking has so many benefits for mind as well as body, maintaining a good walking schedule should help you come off the beta blockers when you're ready.


I don't mind how fast I get somewhere, as long as I get there eventually. One of the reasons I want to walk again is because being in nature is one of the things that helps me get better.

I went for a long walk with my brother the other day. It can't have been more than 4-5 miles, but it's the furthest I've been since January, I think. I did okay, but I had to stop a couple of times up the hilly coast. I was on the full dose yesterday, and managed to walk home from work, but coming up the hill through the woods nearly killed me. I was a mess when I got home. I hope to drop the amount I take when I walk. Now the schools are nearly back in session, I hope all the tourists go home so I don't have to battle through or try to avoid them.



Thank you for your replies.
Quote by nicola
Poll attached.

http://www.theverge.com/2015/9/1/9239769/new-google-logo-announced

A comparison to save you looking them up:







It looks like Comic Sans with squared-off edges. Daft. I actually thought about starting a thread when I saw it, and you beat me to it!

I like the new single "G" on its own, as I never thought the previous one was any good, or fit with their previous full "Google" brand word. But the new typeface is actually quite pathetic. Still, if it means they spend more time with their crayons, and less time trying to tell me what crap they think I ought to be interested in seeing, I say they can re-brand every day.
I've just been put on beta blockers for severe anxiety.

I had been training last year for a 26 mile charity walk, but due to family illness, and then illness of my own, I lost my level of fitness because I couldn't go out training. I'd got to the level of doing 14 miles straight (which is a fucking miracle for me).

Now I'm on the beta blockers, I'm worried about my training, even though I am able to go out a bit now. I've tried researching, but I'm not having much luck.

Will I be able to get back to my previous level, and then beyond it, despite having a slower heart rate? Can I still go at it, or by nature of how they work, will I have to be a sluggy snail forever? Just getting out the door is hard enough, but when I've done that, getting one foot in front of the other is a battle that's harder.

Does anybody have any help or advice regarding exercising on beta blockers, please? I don't want to be a marathon runner (boobs are too big), but I do want to just go, "Yeah, I'm walking today, innit", and bimble for 20 miles.
There are lots of sexy cookie pictures that I've seen over the years, but here are a couple of fresh ones (baggsy I don't get the anal fissure one!):






Quote by Todd88
I have a really hard time meeting women on here, I go to the chat rooms, but have no idea how to start a conversation without feeling like an idiot, or like I am forcing myself into situations I am not wanted in, it is a crippling shyness that holds me back. Any advice on how to approach you?


I understand the shyness thing.

The best advice I can give you is to see this as a long-term thing. You have to build relationships and get to know.people slowly. I think the best way to do that is to post in the forums. Maybe ask some questions, like this one, answer some others, and perhaps check out the game threads.

Once you begin to reply and interact with people, and you are all getting a sense of each others' personalities, it's only one small step to send a private message and maybe meet in the chat rooms, or simply swap the PMs.

Try not to be afraid. There are some complete knobs on here, but likewise, there are some wonderful people. I suggest taking your time, and you will hopefully find each other.

Good luck!

Quote by bimale4straponfemale
That sucks to hear that no girl wants a three inch dick because I am very very small I hope someone takes pity on me lol


Somebody like me would be extremely pleased with a three inch willy attached to my friend. It means we could have fun without pain or me constantly saying, "Waitwaitwait! Wait!" whilst I try and accommodate more.
Size doesn't matter to me. What matters to me is if I'm allowed to play with it or not.
Quote by brianlarry
My wife likes to "bring out the girls" where she wears a top that really shows off her tits well. We went to dinner with friends and she wore a nice low cut top, jeans and some very sexy heels.

The look was sexy but not slutty. She did get a lot of both men and women glancing at her breasts. It makes both of us really horny when she does this and we know that people are looking. We had great sex that night recalling the evening. I told her I want her to wear a shelf bra next time so her nipples would be exposed too.

Any of you gals really get horny revealing a bit of your assets?


No, I get incredibly shy. I know others who like getting their bits out, but I only do so for somebody special, in private. It makes me wiggly when they get excited about that, though.
In the middle of a panic attack, which you're desperately trying to control, some fucker always says, "Take a deeeep breath..." "Calm down..." "Deeeep breaths..."

What do you think I'm TRYING to do, you bell-end? FFS.
Quote by hayley


oh my .. u guessed ... giggles

I think u will like this ..




Quote by stephanie
I'm a Thread Killer. (Or at least I have been in the past...)

I usually do it when I am (a) DRUNK, (b) VERY EMOTIONAL, (c) VERY ANGRY, (d) IN EGOMANIAC MODE, (e) A COMBINATION OF ALL OF THE PRECEDING...

I don't sweat it. Most people know I'm basically quite nice but can be a professional asshole betimes! (I BET I've said SORRY to people more than ANYONE else here!)

But NONE of your options apply, Daisy, so I have not cast a vote!

There is only ONE PROPER WAY to kill a thread. It's when the final poster, like the lawyer in 'To Kill A Mockingbird', makes his case so beautifully and succinctly that there is no follow up.



What option would you have clicked, if it was there? And they only gave me nine spaces for options, or I'd have put more.

There is always somebody who follows through with some sort of irrelevant crap or insult around here. Sometimes, it's not until months later, but it usually happens.



Quote by Poppet
I don't believe I'm a Thread Killer, I'm all too often simply ignored and people talk around my post, as if I didn't say anything at all.


Like I said, sometimes, I just want to contribute because I can. Often, people ignore me too. I don't give a toss, or I tell a friend who takes pity on me. Contribute anyway, lass. People read, even if they don't engage.
In real life, I'm very socially awkward . And online, too.

Sometimes, I purposely don't post in threads because I'm worried that I'm a "Thread Killer". Those who suffer from this issue will know exactly what I mean.

Once a Thread Killer posts, their name will stay listed on the titles page, and the thread can stay there for days, weeks and months before anybody else may or may not post.

I hate seeing my name there. It's bad enough being a Thread Killer without everybody knowing about it. And it's okay to be completely ignored, as long as somebody else posts after me, so that my name isn't on the titles page, thus marking me out as a Thread Killer.

Sometimes, I just want to contribute because I can, even if it's complete bollocks I'm spouting. We all need to do that sometimes. But the bollocks is a million times worse if you killed the thread as well.

Am I alone in this fear? Are there any other Thread Killers out there?!
Turning the light out and going to sleep. If I stay awake, maybe tomorrow won't arrive...
Quote by hayley


giggles.. someone THAT busy wouldn't have time to be here .. let alone be able 2 t y pe

[posted by not Hayley .. just her life size cardboard replica]



Some members can orgasm when a comma is used correctly. You can tell who by the drop in proper spelling within their replies.
I get unbelievably horny just before my period, and quite often through it. Orgasm can help with the cramping, but then there's still the bloating (I regularly put on 5-7lb just before), aching joints, spots, and mess. Those things make me feel so unsexy.

My friend said he'd happily fuck me, but it makes me feel so horrible that I'm not happy about that. The sheer amount of flooding I have, and the change in smell, makes me want to keep my legs shut tight until I can "drain" it in a bathroom visit. I abhor the thought that my friend would have to wash my blood from under his foreskin, no matter how kind he was about it. Eeewwww, sorry for that imagery.

I do get satisfaction for myself, but usually in the shower, and always on my own.

Bleurgh. That's all I can write at the moment. Those who know me will understand.
Quote by oz99
People on social networks are constantly bombarded with images of people seeming living perfect lives. As far as Lush is concerned, do you feel other people are having fabulous sex lives that you are missing out on causing envy at best and depression in the worst case scenario?


Absolutely not. Somebody being so busy with such a sex life wouldn't have the amount of time for posting in such a way as certain Lushies do.
Quote by stephanie

That I'm a HORRIBLE Idiot and I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE!!!

xx SF


But you're such an endearing one (I bet you hate me now).


I've learned that if I choose the right words, I can fool people into forgetting that an author sometimes writes made-up stuff, not always memories of reality.

I've learned enough about my own sexuality and techniques that when I got a chance to try them out, the result was messily delightful.

I've learned that whilst I'm easily enraged about some things (and people), I am actually more accepting and tolerant of other things (and people) than I ever thought possible (and I get very annoyed when others can't do the same).

I've learned what a joy it is to see first-time writers start off on a pretty low level, and climb their hard-working way to the top ranks of Lush's finest. Brilliant!

Oh yes, and for the first time in my life, there are actually some people whose opinions I don't give a toss about. It's honestly very freeing!