Rookie Scribe
BDSM comes down to a lot of foundational values. Trust, mutual respect, common interests, etc. I don't think that the subject of debate is age, rather, it's experience. If a girl has no vanilla experience, whether she's 18 or 30, I'd strongly suggest exploring that before diving into the world of BDSM, otherwise, it's likely to be overwhelming. As I said, trust and mutual respect are among the most important values of BDSM. Do not allow yourself to be pushed around or blinded by naiveness. That's when the lifestyle becomes dangerous.