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SummerLeigh
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
0 miles · Detroit
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Candyland Kitten
I still haven't read them all but those that I did read were phenomenal. Congrats to the winner, the others in the Top 10 and to all of those who made an attempt. The bar is exceptionally high and it makes it all the more rewarding to attempt to hit it. Or even graze it with the tips of our fingernails.
Candyland Kitten
We need some color in here I think. It's Friday!!!!....Let's give it it's due.....
So if you'd like to...
And see pics like this...
Then bring your...
Angiegirl has the beats...
CG has the drinks!
And our Eddie, resident muscle, protector of us ladies...
But he is a gleeful gagger. Be respectful or else...
Look forward to seeing friends and meeting new ones...
See you in the Zone!!!: bootyshak
So if you'd like to...
And see pics like this...
Then bring your...
Angiegirl has the beats...
CG has the drinks!
And our Eddie, resident muscle, protector of us ladies...
But he is a gleeful gagger. Be respectful or else...
Look forward to seeing friends and meeting new ones...
See you in the Zone!!!: bootyshak
Candyland Kitten
Never had sex with a neighbor unless you count the guy sitting on the bar stool next to me as a neighbor (Wouldn't you like to be...my neighbor?) lol
Have you ever flown somewhere to have a vacation by yourself?
Have you ever flown somewhere to have a vacation by yourself?
Candyland Kitten
Strong forearms and large hands. And may I count a voice as a body part?
Candyland Kitten
I love the room and the company there. 
I had been here a year and only ventured into chat rooms my first week and decided that was enough for me. This room is a totally different experience in every way. It's the best!
I had been here a year and only ventured into chat rooms my first week and decided that was enough for me. This room is a totally different experience in every way. It's the best! 
Candyland Kitten
Faxes. Emails. This...That I'm swyping on a flat screen and words are displaying on my phone and will appear instantly on other screens all over the world. How did anyone even think of this stuff?
Mind blown!
Mind blown!
Candyland Kitten
Quote by adagio_sabadicus
Off the top of head, I have many I think worthy of listing...just a couple I will list.
Mysteria...we have different styles, yet she has no fear writing with me
Nymph...certainly one of Lush best
Sindycane...what a mind
Strangerlyd...a genuine caring person
Green Man...knows how to tell a story
Chica...very sensual writer
Ruthie...an accomplished scribbler
Avrgblkgrl
Al, thank you thank you thank you. I was just perusing to find other authors to check out and didn't expect to see my name. Made me all pink with pleasure. You're always a favorite of mine too. Despite the fact that I haven't read hardly anything. I've been writing again. You know how that consumes me.
There are so many great authors and I feel unable to list just a few. I don't read nearly as often as I want to so I know there are great authors that I'll miss here simply because I haven't read them yet.
So, I'm taking the easy way out and not listing any. Not yet. But I will make it a point to read more often and different writers too. Then soon I'll be able to give an accurate accounting of who truly are my favorites.
Candyland Kitten
His breath in my ear and his mmm when I wiggle back into him.
Candyland Kitten
I like both of course but prefer giving. Rendering a strong man helpless and speechless is not only incredibly empowering it is an ego rush like no other when they are amazed, dazed and confused at what just happened to them.
Candyland Kitten
I don't feel there is one right answer. I've always lived with the idea of faithfulness without fail for any reason in all ways, both physical and emotional.
However, when I realized my marriage was doomed despite tremendous amounts of effort and energy on my part, I also realized my feelings have changed over time.
Now i believe it is your spouse's obligation to actively attempt to fulfill your sexual and emotional needs. Just as it is your obligation to fulfill theirs. But so often people give up on sex, emotional connection, or both.
Rejecting your spouse sexually is both a physical and emotional rejection and can be incredibly damaging. If your mate rejects you then they are breaking their vows to you also. They are continually putting themselves ahead of you and in fact, ahead of the marriage.
That said, I do define sexual talk with another person in real time designed to arouse or satisfy sexual arousal as infidelity at its most basic definition. But I feel the real question is "Is it justified?" That answer is different for everyone.
For instance, murder is always murder-the taking of another life. But we define whether it is acceptable based upon the reason the murder was committed. When at war with an enemy you become a hero; when a spouse is being abused it is often dismissed as kill or be killed yourself; if it is to protect your family during a break-in you are saving others lives; if it was an accident such as in a moment of distraction while driving, it is punished but not as severely as it would have been if you were drunk driving. And on and on and on. But the same act occurred in each event...someone's life was ended because of an action of another.
That is an extreme comparison but it does illustrate how the same action can be perceived very differently depending upon the circumstances. I feel that only the individual or individuals involved can decide what is right or wrong for them in their situation. Is it ok if your wife only wants sex once a week? What about once a month? Or is it only ok if they only want it once a year? Or if your husband wants sex but is emotionally lacking, even abusive? Or if your partner says it is ok as long as you limit your activities to just certain things? Or....? There are so many different situations.
Ultimately, I feel if a person feels they are doing wrong then they are. Sinning against your own conscience is probably the saddest sin. Because every time you give in you are damaging your self-worth. It is essentially you hurting you. And every time you give in you are also chipping away at your moral compass-changing how you may react in the future. If we feel guilty about anything (be it cybersex or eating a second piece of pie) then we should always step back for a moment and really reflect about what action will make us feel better, both immediately and long-term.
However, when I realized my marriage was doomed despite tremendous amounts of effort and energy on my part, I also realized my feelings have changed over time.
Now i believe it is your spouse's obligation to actively attempt to fulfill your sexual and emotional needs. Just as it is your obligation to fulfill theirs. But so often people give up on sex, emotional connection, or both.
Rejecting your spouse sexually is both a physical and emotional rejection and can be incredibly damaging. If your mate rejects you then they are breaking their vows to you also. They are continually putting themselves ahead of you and in fact, ahead of the marriage.
That said, I do define sexual talk with another person in real time designed to arouse or satisfy sexual arousal as infidelity at its most basic definition. But I feel the real question is "Is it justified?" That answer is different for everyone.
For instance, murder is always murder-the taking of another life. But we define whether it is acceptable based upon the reason the murder was committed. When at war with an enemy you become a hero; when a spouse is being abused it is often dismissed as kill or be killed yourself; if it is to protect your family during a break-in you are saving others lives; if it was an accident such as in a moment of distraction while driving, it is punished but not as severely as it would have been if you were drunk driving. And on and on and on. But the same act occurred in each event...someone's life was ended because of an action of another.
That is an extreme comparison but it does illustrate how the same action can be perceived very differently depending upon the circumstances. I feel that only the individual or individuals involved can decide what is right or wrong for them in their situation. Is it ok if your wife only wants sex once a week? What about once a month? Or is it only ok if they only want it once a year? Or if your husband wants sex but is emotionally lacking, even abusive? Or if your partner says it is ok as long as you limit your activities to just certain things? Or....? There are so many different situations.
Ultimately, I feel if a person feels they are doing wrong then they are. Sinning against your own conscience is probably the saddest sin. Because every time you give in you are damaging your self-worth. It is essentially you hurting you. And every time you give in you are also chipping away at your moral compass-changing how you may react in the future. If we feel guilty about anything (be it cybersex or eating a second piece of pie) then we should always step back for a moment and really reflect about what action will make us feel better, both immediately and long-term.
Candyland Kitten
When he is innocently eager to please you. A little boyish, perhaps a tiny bit nervous.
And also when you're sharing an innocent moment and suddenly he gets that intense look in his eye saying I wanna do naughty, dirty, delicious things to you RIGHT NOW.
And also when you're sharing an innocent moment and suddenly he gets that intense look in his eye saying I wanna do naughty, dirty, delicious things to you RIGHT NOW.
Candyland Kitten
Oh that's not why my name starts with sin. 
Which is exactly why I'm the sexiest. Noble effort though.
Which is exactly why I'm the sexiest. Noble effort though. 
Candyland Kitten
Hip bumping you out of the way. These hips don't lie. Shimmy shimmy shimmy.
Candyland Kitten
Oopsie. I dropped the soap....let me just bend over and get that for you.
Candyland Kitten
I would love to be a writer...but a travel writer. Traveling to remote areas and enlightening the world to the magical world outside other people's doorsteps.
Candyland Kitten
At any given time I own at most two pairs of jeans and two pairs of dress pants. I live in skirts and dresses even if just at the beach or the carnival. Underdressed is just not my thing. Even in Michigan in 12" of snow. That's why they make high heeled boots and tights. 
Candyland Kitten
I'm bare but seeing it on others doesn't turn me off. For purely practical reasons prefer men to be at least trimmed. I already floss thank you very much.