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SydneySider
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
Australia
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Happy Birthday to one of Lush's best. All the best Ashleigh, a truly gifted author. xxxx
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Another vote for rain here. Its hammering down outside. Im right next to the open window, and its very soothing. Then I hear some fucktard in a car spinning their wheels in the wet conditions, and that just ruins the moment..
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I'll just call you PM also, it's just easier. I certainly hope you did not think I was suggesting you made her make the choice. I hope my last line in my initial post makes the clear. Cactus makes a good point. We don't know the agreements of the relationship, nor do I want to know,it's not our business. Thank you for taking the time to clear a few things up and well wishes for the future. Break ups suck ass, and not in a good way.
Ravyn, thanks for your input. You have shed light on a variation of the types of relationships when it comes to this. And thanks to those who kept the flame throwers neatly tucked away and showing a little tolerance for my lack of knowledge and understanding..
SS..
Ravyn, thanks for your input. You have shed light on a variation of the types of relationships when it comes to this. And thanks to those who kept the flame throwers neatly tucked away and showing a little tolerance for my lack of knowledge and understanding..
SS..
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Ok, so educate me here. I'm not into this lifestyle, nor do I really understand it (or its appeal), so I really have to ask this question. Personally, I would not be a slave to anyone, nor would I feel the need to have that much control over another person. Sure, to belong to someone, submit to someone sexually, or be dominant towards them, I get all that, but I know this is on a whole other level.
So my question, why cant a "slave" be in this type of relationship yet still carry on an everyday relationship with the rest of their family (mum, dad, siblings, friends, even a job etc)?? Why would you make someone chose between you or their family or them feel the need to make that choice?? To me, this is how this reads. Maybe I got is ass backwards, but it sounds like an extremely selfish thing to do and over the top controlling (which I know is the point), but on the other hand, letting them go is extremely unselfish. No wonder I'm confused. Look, I'm not judging people on the lifestyles they chose to lead, I'm just trying to understand what the real deal is here. To me, if I love someone, yes, I expect them to be loyal to me as I am to them, but I would not make them feel like they need to ask for permission to do every little thing, and I have seen it in the chat rooms. "Can I masturbate Mistress?" I mean....
This post is probably going to piss a lot of people off because of my personal views, and if it does, I apologize, its not my intention. I simply would like to understand why this person had to make that choice. Thanks..
So my question, why cant a "slave" be in this type of relationship yet still carry on an everyday relationship with the rest of their family (mum, dad, siblings, friends, even a job etc)?? Why would you make someone chose between you or their family or them feel the need to make that choice?? To me, this is how this reads. Maybe I got is ass backwards, but it sounds like an extremely selfish thing to do and over the top controlling (which I know is the point), but on the other hand, letting them go is extremely unselfish. No wonder I'm confused. Look, I'm not judging people on the lifestyles they chose to lead, I'm just trying to understand what the real deal is here. To me, if I love someone, yes, I expect them to be loyal to me as I am to them, but I would not make them feel like they need to ask for permission to do every little thing, and I have seen it in the chat rooms. "Can I masturbate Mistress?" I mean....
This post is probably going to piss a lot of people off because of my personal views, and if it does, I apologize, its not my intention. I simply would like to understand why this person had to make that choice. Thanks..
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One that I forget about is Rose Byrne. She was amazing in Troy.
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Quote by sweet_as_candy
I just LOVE this pic!
Some amazing photos on this forum folks! Very talented!
It would make a great screen wallpaper
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Quote by lone_wolf1
how do I upload a picture from my computer to this posting?
I believe you will need 20 forum posts and the upload icons will appear above the post window.
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We do, because we DON'T have a proper place to show it off.. Thus the reason for adding this feature.
Im not sure how your bio is not considered a proper place. Its the first thing that people will read, should they chose to even do that, and when its in bold, well its hard not to miss it. Just sayin..
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Quote by Ravyn
I agree.
Also for those who are married and may be going through a separation and don't feel comfortable saying they are single when they aren't, perhaps having an "its complicated" option would benefit some as well.
I could have sworn I saw that here at some point as a relationship status...if not, its a great idea too.
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I actually think this poll and its results will be misleading. Only those that want the options added are really going to take the time to vote, and predominantly say 'Yes'. Me personally, I like the idea of the relationship status but the whole Pet/Master thing I dont get anyway, but Im not posting to judge (or even vote, see?), just to point out that the results will be inaccurate. Just my 2c worth...
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Hell to the fuck, nooo....its so unfeminine. That and hairy armpits..