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T_Elle
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 50
Canada
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I'll probably get laughed out of the forum by saying that size isn't everything, but really, it isn't. 
Honest!
Neither are looks. I've had sex with unattractive men with small penises, and panties-wettingly beautiful men who were hung like a bull moose. And the physically unattractive man I'm currently thinking of was probably the best sexual experience of my life. He LOVED women. And he was VERY good at pleasing them.
I'll take good memories to keep me warm well into my 90's over any physical attributes, any day.
Honest!Neither are looks. I've had sex with unattractive men with small penises, and panties-wettingly beautiful men who were hung like a bull moose. And the physically unattractive man I'm currently thinking of was probably the best sexual experience of my life. He LOVED women. And he was VERY good at pleasing them.
I'll take good memories to keep me warm well into my 90's over any physical attributes, any day.
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I certainly wouldn't be put off reading a story broken into chapters - it's very common on this site, I find. In fact, the only two stories I've written for Lush are under one title, with a Chapter One and Chapter 2. I got some really nice responses for both... though I'm currently banging my head against a brick wall, writing Chapter 3!
And Dancing Doll is bang on (as usual!) - the first chapter is key to encouraging readers to stay with your story.
And Dancing Doll is bang on (as usual!) - the first chapter is key to encouraging readers to stay with your story.
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Hmm, interesting question, Clum. I'd say romance and erotica stories tend to follow a predictable pattern, but after just devouring 50 Shades of Grey the last 4 days, I've had to revise my opinion. Surprise isn't essential, in a well-told story (and you ARE a good writer, but of course you know that!), but it's nice when it happens. I don't think either of my stories have any surprises, but I did receive some very nice comments about my use of language and turns of phrase (yours among them, thank you so much!). I think what IS essential is that the story is unique - told from an unexpected point of view, or maybe makes you laugh or even cry, when that isn't a common literary tool used here. One of the reasons I love your stories is that they're so well organized, grammatically correct, and I can HEAR your accent in my head when I read them - which I adore.Don't change a thing, sweetpea.
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Hmm... men seem to like things right out there where they can see them, like with pics or videos. Whereas for women, whether through chat, sexting, phone, stories or fantasies, it's all in our heads, for the most part. I tend to go that way, as well. A video can turn me on, so can a picture... but if I'm stuck with DIY, a good fantasy can push me over in about 30 seconds.
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Ick... sex shouldn't be a chore, it should be an expression of mutual love and attraction. I will do a lot of things for my husband, not because I like to do them, but because HE does - for example, watch him play hockey, or help on his model train layout (okay, I like the hockey).
But sex would never fall into that category. I'd be devastated if I thought he only had sex with me just because it pleased me, or to get me off his back! Both situations would be intolerable for me. Sex isn't everything in a loving relationship, but for me it's an integral part. It's something special and wonderful reserved just for us. It can be just vanilla, or fun, or frantic, or rough, or beautiful...
It takes effort to keep it alive and fun, when you've been together a long time, but it's worth everything you put out - pun intended!!!
But sex would never fall into that category. I'd be devastated if I thought he only had sex with me just because it pleased me, or to get me off his back! Both situations would be intolerable for me. Sex isn't everything in a loving relationship, but for me it's an integral part. It's something special and wonderful reserved just for us. It can be just vanilla, or fun, or frantic, or rough, or beautiful...
It takes effort to keep it alive and fun, when you've been together a long time, but it's worth everything you put out - pun intended!!!
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Shylass, your puns are terrible! 
What strange behaviour! I just finished all three books this week, and my husband has been following me around the house, grinning, wanting to know if there's anything in there I want to try! Seems the gentleman in the news article is a tad insecure...
What strange behaviour! I just finished all three books this week, and my husband has been following me around the house, grinning, wanting to know if there's anything in there I want to try! Seems the gentleman in the news article is a tad insecure...
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-- OCTOBER BABY
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.
Hmm... fairly close. I'll take the inner beauty, that's nice. Don't get angry much, unless I'm behind the wheel.
Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.
Hmm... fairly close. I'll take the inner beauty, that's nice. Don't get angry much, unless I'm behind the wheel.
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I just finished the last book in the trilogy this afternoon, and was wondering when 50 Shades would be mentioned, here. It IS good news... and given what I've read from my favourite authors on Lush, it really could happen to any of them.
What I loved the most about the stories was that the female protagonist was an "everywoman"... or maybe an "everygirl", as she was very young. E L James writes like I would talk, even uses some of my favourite phrases, and it's written in first person present, which is my favourite tense for erotica. The story is funny, wicked, hot, tender, scary and sad. I started reading the first book on Tuesday, I think... 4 days ago... and I absolutely inhaled all 3 books by this afternoon.
I've been suffering from horrific writers' block for weeks...
but I think this has refreshed me enough to want to try again...
Highly recommended!!!
What I loved the most about the stories was that the female protagonist was an "everywoman"... or maybe an "everygirl", as she was very young.
E L James writes like I would talk, even uses some of my favourite phrases, and it's written in first person present, which is my favourite tense for erotica. The story is funny, wicked, hot, tender, scary and sad. I started reading the first book on Tuesday, I think... 4 days ago... and I absolutely inhaled all 3 books by this afternoon. I've been suffering from horrific writers' block for weeks...
but I think this has refreshed me enough to want to try again...
Highly recommended!!!
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I personally write stories from a first person present point of view, with a lot of sexual tension throughout... sometimes just a subtle thread, sometimes right up in your face. But since I've come here, I've read SO many different stories from many different points of view. Different people, a huge range of settings and circumstances... sometimes even all from the same gifted author.
I wouldn't worry much about the readers, either. Go where your imagination takes you!
I wouldn't worry much about the readers, either. Go where your imagination takes you!
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I'm thinking, not for the first time in a forum, that Cumgirl ROCKS! =d>
I too, used to think I could hold my own in any kind of discussion... until I came here... and was totally humbled.
But I'd like to try to perv with ThePainter... just to see if I could keep up with the verbal fencing...
I too, used to think I could hold my own in any kind of discussion... until I came here... and was totally humbled.
But I'd like to try to perv with ThePainter... just to see if I could keep up with the verbal fencing...
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I'm thinking, not for the first time in a forum, that Cumgirl ROCKS! =d>
I too, used to think I could hold my own in any kind of discussion... until I came here... and was totally humbled.
But I'd like to try to perv with ThePainter... just to see if I could keep up with the verbal fencing...
I too, used to think I could hold my own in any kind of discussion... until I came here... and was totally humbled.
But I'd like to try to perv with ThePainter... just to see if I could keep up with the verbal fencing...
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Any time I've ever reached a crossroads in a relationship, I always ask myself, "Would I be happier or more miserable, if we were apart?" It has always been the deciding factor for me. I stayed married, because I knew I would be far more miserable apart from him than if we stuck it out. In retrospect, I'm glad I did.
But I've also ended relationships because I knew that no matter how much it would hurt, it was best for me to leave... and best for him, too, in the long run. I would've made his life hell, had I stayed. It's terribly trite, I know... but... follow your heart.
But I've also ended relationships because I knew that no matter how much it would hurt, it was best for me to leave... and best for him, too, in the long run. I would've made his life hell, had I stayed. It's terribly trite, I know... but... follow your heart.
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Although I've gotten to know a few people here and am enjoying the social aspect of Lush far more than I expected, I'm primarily here to read what people have written and to write a bit myself. I'm an obsessive, voracious reader, so dick pics aren't going to do much for me. They're just pictures. 