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T_Elle
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 50
Canada
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Too true! But the real kind? About a week ago. Just a quickie! 
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Geez, Shylass... this was kind of a scary question! For me, it delves into why I started writing these things in the first place, I guess. Only a couple of months ago, I didn't know that sites like this existed. I wrote my first story as a fantasy. It had been bugging the crap out of me for ages, and I decided the only way to get rid of it was to write it down. I told a friend about it, and he suggested another erotica website (which isn't Lush, and totally sucks), and I published my story there. I only got one really good response, but that person told me about Lush, so I came here. That one person who encouraged me has become a really good friend, and is the only person I've ever gotten to know online.
I've cautiously continued to write the story of the same "couple," to see how far I can take the fantasy. Strangely enough, the female character started out as me, with the male character based on someone I know. But something weird happened, as the story progressed. My friend RT North, who ended up on this site before me and encouraged me to come here, described it wonderfully: He said, about my character, "She's like a kite on a string. The wind blows her this way and that, and you're never sure where she's going to end up... but you're still holding the string."
Isn't that awesome? So, although at first my writing was peering into my life, experiences and fantasy, it has somehow evolved... and my character is now free to go places that I never will. It's been a fun journey... and despite my current bout of writer's block, I hope it doesn't end anytime soon.
Thanks for the question. This was fun to explore.
I've cautiously continued to write the story of the same "couple," to see how far I can take the fantasy. Strangely enough, the female character started out as me, with the male character based on someone I know. But something weird happened, as the story progressed. My friend RT North, who ended up on this site before me and encouraged me to come here, described it wonderfully: He said, about my character, "She's like a kite on a string. The wind blows her this way and that, and you're never sure where she's going to end up... but you're still holding the string."
Isn't that awesome? So, although at first my writing was peering into my life, experiences and fantasy, it has somehow evolved... and my character is now free to go places that I never will. It's been a fun journey... and despite my current bout of writer's block, I hope it doesn't end anytime soon.
Thanks for the question. This was fun to explore.
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How sweet are you, Dark Lord?
I am a total shirt-stealer, and I hope my husband thinks the same way you do!
Most erotic image at THIS moment is my husband's beautifiul, whiskey-coloured eyes. He gets this look, right in the middle of things... or even from across the living room, watching TV... whew! Instant wet panties...
I am a total shirt-stealer, and I hope my husband thinks the same way you do!
Most erotic image at THIS moment is my husband's beautifiul, whiskey-coloured eyes. He gets this look, right in the middle of things... or even from across the living room, watching TV... whew! Instant wet panties...
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I'll set the bar low - I'm sure the stories will only get better from here! 
I've been with my husband, between dating and marriage, for 17 years. When I was about 20, and we had only been together for a few months, we had gone to a party, and I'd had WAY too much red wine. Even a little wine makes me pretty friendly, and this was way more than a little.
I wasn't a virgin, but I was young, my parents had just moved away for work. I was also still pretty sexually inexperienced at this point. I NEVER initiated anything and was in no way self-confident. But this man, to whom I'm now married, fascinated me. He was 31 and had a touch of bad, which for the good Catholic girl just let off the leash at 20... was ambrosia. ;)
So, he's driving me home, and without conscious thought, my hands wandered into his lap. And got down his pants. My head followed. It was about a 30 minute drive home, maybe a bit less, but I remember thinking that I couldn't have been having much of an effect on him, as he didn't seem to be breathing hard, or reacting much... well, except for the obvious! It never occurred to me that he was doing his level best not to have a car accident!
When we pulled into the driveway, which was very steep, he immediately jumped out. I thought he was just helping me out, as I was fairly inebriated, and the driveway wasn't that easy to walk up, sober. Much to my surprise, he pulled me out of the car, picked me up, and carried me to the top of the driveway, where a small car was parked. Though it was nighttime, the streetlights would've made it easy enough for anyone to see, if they had walked by. This was a suburban neighbourhood, with houses close together on all sides.
He obviously didn't care, as he plunked my ass on the hood of the car, pulled down my pants and his, and proceeded to fuck my brains out. And I not only let him, I wasn't quiet about how much I liked it either - totally out of character for me, at the time!
I'm not sure if that's me being aggressive, by going down his pants while he was behind the wheel, or me being shameless, on the hood of the car, or maybe a touch of both. Whatever... I'm sure the other ladies of Lush will have me beat, LOL!
I've been with my husband, between dating and marriage, for 17 years. When I was about 20, and we had only been together for a few months, we had gone to a party, and I'd had WAY too much red wine. Even a little wine makes me pretty friendly, and this was way more than a little.
I wasn't a virgin, but I was young, my parents had just moved away for work. I was also still pretty sexually inexperienced at this point. I NEVER initiated anything and was in no way self-confident. But this man, to whom I'm now married, fascinated me. He was 31 and had a touch of bad, which for the good Catholic girl just let off the leash at 20... was ambrosia. ;)
So, he's driving me home, and without conscious thought, my hands wandered into his lap. And got down his pants. My head followed. It was about a 30 minute drive home, maybe a bit less, but I remember thinking that I couldn't have been having much of an effect on him, as he didn't seem to be breathing hard, or reacting much... well, except for the obvious! It never occurred to me that he was doing his level best not to have a car accident!
When we pulled into the driveway, which was very steep, he immediately jumped out. I thought he was just helping me out, as I was fairly inebriated, and the driveway wasn't that easy to walk up, sober. Much to my surprise, he pulled me out of the car, picked me up, and carried me to the top of the driveway, where a small car was parked. Though it was nighttime, the streetlights would've made it easy enough for anyone to see, if they had walked by. This was a suburban neighbourhood, with houses close together on all sides.
He obviously didn't care, as he plunked my ass on the hood of the car, pulled down my pants and his, and proceeded to fuck my brains out. And I not only let him, I wasn't quiet about how much I liked it either - totally out of character for me, at the time!
I'm not sure if that's me being aggressive, by going down his pants while he was behind the wheel, or me being shameless, on the hood of the car, or maybe a touch of both. Whatever... I'm sure the other ladies of Lush will have me beat, LOL!
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DEFINITELY older. I've chased older men since highschool, and ended up married to a man 11 years my senior. That being said, if there wasn't anything in common, it wouldn't have worked, just like any relationship... especially when I was younger, and the age gap mattered more.
But I LOVE the confidence and capability of an older man, who has nothing to prove to anyone. Sexy as hell!
But I LOVE the confidence and capability of an older man, who has nothing to prove to anyone. Sexy as hell!
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I kind of feel like I'm admitting a dirty secret... but I guess, I'm in the right place. There IS something wonderful about sitting in a tree, like there are ancient, benevolent arms around you. I have actually thrown an arm around the trunk, but I think the nicest part is just to sit there. Sometimes with a book, sometimes, just to watch the world go by.
You are one of my favourite people on here, GB. Truly, one of a kind. :)
There IS something wonderful about sitting in a tree, like there are ancient, benevolent arms around you. I have actually thrown an arm around the trunk, but I think the nicest part is just to sit there. Sometimes with a book, sometimes, just to watch the world go by.You are one of my favourite people on here, GB. Truly, one of a kind. :)
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I joined another erotica website a few months ago, VASTLY inferior to Lush, but ended up posting a couple of stories there. I had written the first before I even knew sites this these existed, just as a personal fantasy, but ONE person gave me so much encouragement, I wrote a sequel to it. That same person found this site, and directed me here, and we've since become friends.
What I didn't know was how much social interaction there was, and I just love it! It can be as anonymous or as intimately personal as you wish it to be, and I've really met some wonderful people here, in such a short time. If I want to kibitz with some incredibly talented writers, or if I just want to hang out, there's no pressure to do or be anything I don't want. LOVE LUSH!
What I didn't know was how much social interaction there was, and I just love it! It can be as anonymous or as intimately personal as you wish it to be, and I've really met some wonderful people here, in such a short time. If I want to kibitz with some incredibly talented writers, or if I just want to hang out, there's no pressure to do or be anything I don't want. LOVE LUSH!
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I am also a totally jeans and t-shirt kind of girl, and these days, don't "advertise" much... however... one time my husband was coming home from a trip for work, and I was decided to surprise him. I dressed in a short, black trench coat, killer high heels... and nothing else. It was a bit nerve-wracking, walking all the way through the airport, sure I had a neon sign over my head that flashed "I'M NAKED UNDER THIS COAT!" but I was waiting for him when he came through customs, with a smile.
It was a nice drive home...
It was a nice drive home...
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Quote by ch_brian
I think you can have marriage before sex, but both parties neet to be experienced. It could potentially be hot if you both describe everything you would like to do to the other person...that build up could be great...as long as you have the goods to back it up. BUT I have serious doubts about two virgins marrying. The longer I'm in a serious relationship though, the more I realize that communication is even more important because we all grow and change. If you marry at 25 you're probably going to have different wants/needs sexually 20 years down the road if you're still together. So...I guess I'm saying your initial sexual "compatibility" is important, but it may change, and you have to be ready to evolve with someone and be open with them.
I really like and agree with this. It's all well and fine to say that you're sexually compatible NOW, so hey, maybe marriage with this person is a safer bet than marriage without trying them out first. However, I'm going to be a weirdo, and say something different. When my husband and I first started "dating," (i.e., getting into each other's pants every opportunity that presented itself), the sex was good, but... not the best I'd ever had. But I adored him, we had a zillion other things in common, so sex wasn't a deal maker or breaker.
It's now 17 years we've been together, 12 of which we've been married. MY sexual needs have changed DRASTICALLY in the intervening years, and amazingly, my husband has grown with me. Our sex life is better than ever, my drive these days has been through the ROOF (hormones???) and we've learned to please each other in far more creative ways. Lush has done amazing things for our sex life... and even 5 years ago, you wouldn't have caught me dead on a site like this, LOL!
And one last thing, since I'm blabbing on... Clum, I love you, sweetheart.
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21 May, but it was a long weekend here in Canada, so I had LOTS of it... and it was AMAZING! Married, working, two little kids... it's all about making the most of the time you get. Quality versus quantity, as it were. ;) Hmm... maybe I should start a new forum thread to ask that! :P
Married, working, two little kids... it's all about making the most of the time you get. Quality versus quantity, as it were. ;) Hmm... maybe I should start a new forum thread to ask that! :P 
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Hi there. In this day and age, most rigs have broad-band satelite uplink, and you can or do MSN Chat, or whatever. While there won't be a whole lot of privacy when you , I don't imagine, you can still have some pretty loving, sexy conversations using MSN. My husband is away quite a bit, and we've gotten... umm... rather creative, I must say, when separated for long periods of time! 
Tell him all the things you're going to do to him, the day he gets home. It'll drive him CRAZY... trust me!
Tell him all the things you're going to do to him, the day he gets home. It'll drive him CRAZY... trust me!
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I know that people have said that an online site like this is really not the best place for affirmation, and they're mostly right. None of us is going to say something negative to bring you down...
All the same, it takes a lot of courage, even here, to ask the question you did, and to me, you get big kudos for that.
When all I can see is your avatar, I'd have to say you're pretty cute! However, as much as it sounds like complete and utter bullshit, beauty really does come from within. And believe me, it's taken me my entire life to figure that out, because I was an ugly duckling for most of it. But one of the strongest sexual and personal connections I ever had in my life was with someone who was distantly older than me, and was in no way physically attractive. What hair he had was white, he was overweight, and barely taller than I was. However... he was probably the most charismatic person I've ever met, and he LOVED women. And women loved him right back.
When you interact with a woman, look in her eyes, are deeply interested in what she says, always redirect conversation back to her... that kind of unwavering attention is hard to resist.
Here are some questions for you: Do YOU only value physical appearance? Is a lack of physical perfection enough for you to end a good relationship?
Chin up, honey. It won't hurt forever. You do have lots to offer someone, and that someone is out there, looking for you. :) Best of luck!
All the same, it takes a lot of courage, even here, to ask the question you did, and to me, you get big kudos for that.
When all I can see is your avatar, I'd have to say you're pretty cute! However, as much as it sounds like complete and utter bullshit, beauty really does come from within. And believe me, it's taken me my entire life to figure that out, because I was an ugly duckling for most of it. But one of the strongest sexual and personal connections I ever had in my life was with someone who was distantly older than me, and was in no way physically attractive. What hair he had was white, he was overweight, and barely taller than I was. However... he was probably the most charismatic person I've ever met, and he LOVED women. And women loved him right back.
When you interact with a woman, look in her eyes, are deeply interested in what she says, always redirect conversation back to her... that kind of unwavering attention is hard to resist.
Here are some questions for you: Do YOU only value physical appearance? Is a lack of physical perfection enough for you to end a good relationship?
Chin up, honey. It won't hurt forever. You do have lots to offer someone, and that someone is out there, looking for you. :) Best of luck!
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My guiltiest pleasure... even more guilty than Lush... Am computer/social networking incompetent, or I'd send something other than just a link! :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOKuAigsrec\
Am computer/social networking incompetent, or I'd send something other than just a link! :)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOKuAigsrec\