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Tashtego
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
United States
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Advanced Wordsmith
I think one of the things all good, dramatic writing (erotic or otherwise) has in common is a powerful buildup of tension. It can include elements of desire, fear, guilt, love, hate, shame - and many other strong emotions. To me, that delicious, teasing, frustrating, agonizing buildup is where the real heat is. Kind of like real sex, come to think of it.
Advanced Wordsmith
NN, I agree with Belle about the importance of communication. I'm probably older than you and I speak from experience. That said, I gather from your comments that you HAVE spoken with your man. Try again. If it bothers you enough to talk about it here, he needs to know that. I also agree with the last poster; are you responding to his mouth and encouraging him. We boys have delicate egos. I'm sure you know that. Let him know how he makes you feel when he goes down on you - he OWNS you. Makes you want to be his slave. You get the picture. Good luck and good luvin!
Advanced Wordsmith
Ladies, I'm sure this question has been asked but I'm too lazy to go through every page, so ...
I've had partners who can only stand the lightest touch on or around their clits. Others want you to suck on that thang once they're sufficiently worked up. My unscientific research says most women fall in the first category. What say you?
I've had partners who can only stand the lightest touch on or around their clits. Others want you to suck on that thang once they're sufficiently worked up. My unscientific research says most women fall in the first category. What say you?
