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TheDevilsWeakness
Over 90 days ago
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I don't care.
If someone doesn't like me or respect me doesn't really matter much anymore.
I spent many years being disrespected because of who I was (A women), what I was (A single mom with a bastard child) and where I worked (As a bartender in a strip club).
I had lots of people that liked me and I thought respected me. But in the end, neither did a thing for me, nor stood up for me when I really needed the help.
Well-respected members of society tend to trod all over the rights of well-liked people so I'd much rather avoid both.
If someone doesn't like me or respect me doesn't really matter much anymore.
I spent many years being disrespected because of who I was (A women), what I was (A single mom with a bastard child) and where I worked (As a bartender in a strip club).
I had lots of people that liked me and I thought respected me. But in the end, neither did a thing for me, nor stood up for me when I really needed the help.
Well-respected members of society tend to trod all over the rights of well-liked people so I'd much rather avoid both.
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Can we please, please, please not have another ridiculous flame war?
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Hockeyisms???????????? is that an approved word? in Lush? lol
Your location is Canada, so you should know (IF you're a hockey lover, because contrary to popular belief not all Canadians are) that my beloved Leafs are called the Laffs by inferior fans that cheer for inferior teams. Like the Oilers.
Q: What do the Edmonton Oilers and Billy Graham have in common?
A: They both can make 20,000 people stand up and yell "Jesus Christ"
Those are hockeyisms. It's also a slight dig. (Like 20 thousand people even go to the games... Pfffttt!)
And it's practically a religion.
Have you ever noticed that if you say to someone living in Canada “Did you watched the game last night?” they will automatically know that you are talking about hockey? I tried that little experience in Boston the last time I was there and the answers I got were far different. “Oh, you mean the Celtics game? Or maybe the Red Sox ? It can’t be the Patriots, since their season is over…” Not quite the same wouldn't you say?
There is a simple reason for this. Here in Canada, hockey is not a sport: it’s a religion.
Hockey-Ism: A New Religion by Alexandra Giubelli
And now I've gone entirely off-topic.
As you were.
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you, act like an adult, ............many on here do not lol
OI! You take that back! I refuse to grow up!
In reflection of this question, I just recently touched base with someone that's been on my friends list for years. We've never really spoken before. But he made a comment in his blog the other day that made me think of something and I had to poke fun of.
Cleaning out your friends list is all well and good. I just don't have the heart to slash mercilessly at it so I tend to carry a larger load of friends than some. Unless you're aggressively hounding me to cyber or send pics or being a general nuisance, I just don't see any other reason to take you off there.
I now have someone new to speak hockeyisms with because I didn't clean out my friends list.
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There are times when I log in I'm bombarded with at least ten black boxes.
If I'm on my phone it is next to impossible to answer all of them. (I'm all thumbs and can't spell for shit on touch screen phones)
Sometimes I just don't have the time to answer back because I'm quickly checking in.
Other times I have to shut it down fast so I don't get caught. (This happens more than you think)
But my favourite reason why I don't answer? I have nothing to say. I literally spend all day being pleasant and making conversation with random strangers that all I want to do is relax and not talk/type anything to anyone. I just don't have it in me to bring up this facade of small talk. Nor do I want to cyber.
I do forget to answer PMs at times and it's a failing I should probably work on. But constantly being pressured to chit chat from people demanding your time, on a website designed to be fun and relaxing, makes me want to avoid it completely. I'm an anti-social freak. This is why I'm set to invisible. If I don't it's twenty times worse.
I still value and cherish the friendships I have but most of my friends know what I'm like, and if they don't then maybe they don't care or they're anti-social like I am.
I wouldn't take it personally. But if you do, then remove them from your friends list.
If I'm on my phone it is next to impossible to answer all of them. (I'm all thumbs and can't spell for shit on touch screen phones)
Sometimes I just don't have the time to answer back because I'm quickly checking in.
Other times I have to shut it down fast so I don't get caught. (This happens more than you think)
But my favourite reason why I don't answer? I have nothing to say. I literally spend all day being pleasant and making conversation with random strangers that all I want to do is relax and not talk/type anything to anyone. I just don't have it in me to bring up this facade of small talk. Nor do I want to cyber.
I do forget to answer PMs at times and it's a failing I should probably work on. But constantly being pressured to chit chat from people demanding your time, on a website designed to be fun and relaxing, makes me want to avoid it completely. I'm an anti-social freak. This is why I'm set to invisible. If I don't it's twenty times worse.
I still value and cherish the friendships I have but most of my friends know what I'm like, and if they don't then maybe they don't care or they're anti-social like I am.
I wouldn't take it personally. But if you do, then remove them from your friends list.
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Chicken brochette, greek salad, orzo pasta and homemade tzatziki.
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I prefer the stay ups over any of them. The suspenders chafe and catch. Tights are fine for the winter months but they never seem to be long enough for someone as tall as I am.
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There's a few.
Under the Tuscan Sun, Demolition Man, Dogma, the Harold & Kumar movies, and I've added The Blindside and Friends with Benefits to my list of feel good movies I could watch over and over.
Under the Tuscan Sun, Demolition Man, Dogma, the Harold & Kumar movies, and I've added The Blindside and Friends with Benefits to my list of feel good movies I could watch over and over.
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Wow... I was never molested as a child and I didn't need therapy (well okay, maybe I did but that's a WHOLE 'nother story)
But I did date a guy once that was too rough.
As in alligator skin on his hands. And I swear I thought he was drilling for oil with his tongue.
I tried to talk to him about it, but some men are very insecure about this kind of thing (and maybe I wasn't clear enough) so instead of taking it as constructive criticism, it turned into a huge fight over the fact I wasn't happy with his cunnilingustic skills.
After awhile, I just said I didn't like it, because let's face it. I didn't.
But I did date a guy once that was too rough.
As in alligator skin on his hands. And I swear I thought he was drilling for oil with his tongue.
I tried to talk to him about it, but some men are very insecure about this kind of thing (and maybe I wasn't clear enough) so instead of taking it as constructive criticism, it turned into a huge fight over the fact I wasn't happy with his cunnilingustic skills.
After awhile, I just said I didn't like it, because let's face it. I didn't.
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Whoever you are .. Its not about. Men bending in front of women om?
In romance no person is prime they are equal.. I hope you are mature enough to understand that...
Spoken like a guy that's never had their significant other grab their head and push them down on them. Or ordered them to do it. Or slapped them in the face with their dick while we're sleeping.
Sex is all about a power struggle and once you realize it and acknowledge it, then you can pass judgement it.
Grow up. Don't be so naive. Almost all "studies" are biased in some way, shape or form. Otherwise we wouldn't have these "studies".
I thought the exact same thing sprite did. Just another way for guys to tell women what to do. Maybe I'm a little jaded, but it was my first impression because of my past experiences.
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I love flowers. There is no wrong time for flowers in my books. I will always appreciate flowers, with one minor exception. I hate carnations.
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Sometimes guys are just too impatient.
Switching back and forth between fingers, tongue, pressure on different areas is all fine and dandy but when it really matters a guy will switch things up, at the wrong moment, at last possible second and then the moment is lost.
Not cool... Not cool at all.
Switching back and forth between fingers, tongue, pressure on different areas is all fine and dandy but when it really matters a guy will switch things up, at the wrong moment, at last possible second and then the moment is lost.
Not cool... Not cool at all.
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I traded favours with the boys hockey team...
We moved the vice principal's car into the inner alcove inside the school. It took him over a day to get it out.
I despised that man so much that I bribed the hockey team with homemade cookies and muffins for a month.
Another time I let a family of skunks loose in the cafeteria. But I did that one all by myself.
We moved the vice principal's car into the inner alcove inside the school. It took him over a day to get it out.
I despised that man so much that I bribed the hockey team with homemade cookies and muffins for a month.
Another time I let a family of skunks loose in the cafeteria. But I did that one all by myself.
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My point is the username! So you think because it's a female, you have to chip in to defend her? Well really that shows a remarkable lack of intelligence in my opinion. You might be better served trying to take a more objective view before commenting. Just a thought!
No... But I'll chip in and defend her because of your wording. Just because she chose that username she deserves it? That's like saying just because she's wearing a low cut top and a short skirt she's asking for it.
Please don't be that kind of guy.
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My facebook and lush are logged in at all times. And while I wouldn't much care if my partner saw what was going on, on either site (Truly, I'm boring. Not much to see here.)
I have huge trust issues. I could see where my trust could be betrayed at the slightest provocation.
I've had to deal with childish adults my entire life and I know they would and could do something to sabotage me in some way if I didn't give in to their demands by posting something outlandish or private on my page.
People are dumb. And giving them access to your passwords is one of the dumbest things you could do. But this is just my opinion.
I have huge trust issues. I could see where my trust could be betrayed at the slightest provocation.
I've had to deal with childish adults my entire life and I know they would and could do something to sabotage me in some way if I didn't give in to their demands by posting something outlandish or private on my page.
People are dumb. And giving them access to your passwords is one of the dumbest things you could do. But this is just my opinion.
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Un-fucking-believable. Again. You did it again.
Just one more broken promise after another. Say one thing and then do something else. You two-faced cunt.
I fucking give up. I swear to god I will find the worst fucking nursing home to stick your pathetic ass into. And then I'll leave you there to rot like the fucking cancer you are.
And you have the nerve to tell me I should let you move in with me! Like that would ever fucking happen in a million years.
The only way that would ever happen is because I'm dying and my disability cheque better be direct deposit, so you or that other fucking leech can't get your greedy fucking hands on it. You're both fucking leeches. You're just as bad, if not worse than my ex. No wonder you didn't like him. He took YOUR fucking cut of my money! Like either one of you were entitled to it. Jesus fucking christ!
I finally found out why the rest of the family abandoned me. They were afraid you were going to jump their husbands, you two-bit cheap ass whore.
And not because I had a child out of wedlock. Thank god for small favours that my aunts told me the REAL reason why I never heard from any of them.
Good lord, do I feel foolish for railing against them all those years. You're fucking delusional and it's your own fucking fault. Not mine. Not this time. I refuse to take the blame this time. I was blamed for the sun not shining when I was a child, and I was made to feel fucking guilty for it!
You're a pathetic human being and I really hope you get what's coming to you. Cause I won't be there to save your ass this time. Nor any other time.
You're dead to me now.
Just one more broken promise after another. Say one thing and then do something else. You two-faced cunt.
I fucking give up. I swear to god I will find the worst fucking nursing home to stick your pathetic ass into. And then I'll leave you there to rot like the fucking cancer you are.
And you have the nerve to tell me I should let you move in with me! Like that would ever fucking happen in a million years.
The only way that would ever happen is because I'm dying and my disability cheque better be direct deposit, so you or that other fucking leech can't get your greedy fucking hands on it. You're both fucking leeches. You're just as bad, if not worse than my ex. No wonder you didn't like him. He took YOUR fucking cut of my money! Like either one of you were entitled to it. Jesus fucking christ!
I finally found out why the rest of the family abandoned me. They were afraid you were going to jump their husbands, you two-bit cheap ass whore.
And not because I had a child out of wedlock. Thank god for small favours that my aunts told me the REAL reason why I never heard from any of them.
Good lord, do I feel foolish for railing against them all those years. You're fucking delusional and it's your own fucking fault. Not mine. Not this time. I refuse to take the blame this time. I was blamed for the sun not shining when I was a child, and I was made to feel fucking guilty for it!
You're a pathetic human being and I really hope you get what's coming to you. Cause I won't be there to save your ass this time. Nor any other time.
You're dead to me now.
