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I definitely like to talk dirty, but I don't like being talked to like a whore. There's a differences, guys.
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TheScheherezadeFeint
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
United States
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This is the simplest thing, and I wish it would stop coming up.
Except it's not, and we should be understanding of those who don't understand and want to, even if that desire is kind of heavy handed and brutish.
Also, it's important to keep in mind that I'm pan, not lesbian. I have a girlfriend though, and we have quite a lot of sex, so I think I'm qualified from at least a mechanical point of view. This is one of the times when it's more than a mechanical issue, though. Lots of women enjoy penetration, and for the record, I know a couple who don't - at all. Next, if a lesbian is not sexually attracted to men, that's simple. It's also advisable to remember that on the whole, women's sexualities are a bit more fluid than a man's. That is a bit of a stereotype, and it's certainly not universal, but the trend is easy to back up with facts. Also note, I've never seen data for any country besides the U.S., and we're kind of stupid about sex here, but I've wandered off the topic.
Lesbians don't want to have sex with men. I do know lesbian identified individuals who are open to the members of the trans community, both MTF and FTM. I also know lesbians who would disqualify those people from being called "lesbian", if they could. It's complex, and no one person can give you the right answer because it's a spectrum. I think that as a straight guy, your best bet is to collect your data, arrange it into that spectrum, pick something in the middle and go with it. Then if anybody challenges your assertions, you have the testimony of several other lesbians to go off of. If that's too much work, then I would just say ere on the side of caution and don't push any boundaries. Finally, remember that no lesbian wants to fuck you, so don't try.
Except it's not, and we should be understanding of those who don't understand and want to, even if that desire is kind of heavy handed and brutish.
Also, it's important to keep in mind that I'm pan, not lesbian. I have a girlfriend though, and we have quite a lot of sex, so I think I'm qualified from at least a mechanical point of view. This is one of the times when it's more than a mechanical issue, though. Lots of women enjoy penetration, and for the record, I know a couple who don't - at all. Next, if a lesbian is not sexually attracted to men, that's simple. It's also advisable to remember that on the whole, women's sexualities are a bit more fluid than a man's. That is a bit of a stereotype, and it's certainly not universal, but the trend is easy to back up with facts. Also note, I've never seen data for any country besides the U.S., and we're kind of stupid about sex here, but I've wandered off the topic.
Lesbians don't want to have sex with men. I do know lesbian identified individuals who are open to the members of the trans community, both MTF and FTM. I also know lesbians who would disqualify those people from being called "lesbian", if they could. It's complex, and no one person can give you the right answer because it's a spectrum. I think that as a straight guy, your best bet is to collect your data, arrange it into that spectrum, pick something in the middle and go with it. Then if anybody challenges your assertions, you have the testimony of several other lesbians to go off of. If that's too much work, then I would just say ere on the side of caution and don't push any boundaries. Finally, remember that no lesbian wants to fuck you, so don't try.
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Sitting on a blanket getting some oral attention at an outdoor concert/festival.
Sitting on a blanket getting some oral attention at an outdoor concert/festival.
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Well, if you must know...
it's probably the dream I have where I'm in the center of a huge orgy, but all the guys cum on me when they're ready, and the girls are there to lick me clean as I get gangbanged. I wake up wet, sweaty and cumming.
What is your favorite place to have sex outside the house?
it's probably the dream I have where I'm in the center of a huge orgy, but all the guys cum on me when they're ready, and the girls are there to lick me clean as I get gangbanged. I wake up wet, sweaty and cumming.
What is your favorite place to have sex outside the house?
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I certainly enjoy doing it, but I think you might be surprised how many guys don't like it. In my experience it's about 60/40, in favor.
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I love most breast and nipple stimulation. Even painful stimulation sometimes as long as it's not sharp or causing major damage.
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Good point. Although some women (myself and my girlfriend included) often cum very quickly.
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Huh. I hadn't drawn the fascism parallel, but that's not a bad metaphor. Good insight.
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So, in much the same way that lots of women think gay men are all really nice, but in fact they're just not trying to get into our pants and they treat the guys they're trying to fuck more or less like straight men act toward women (yes, the whole spectrum of behavior), it goes like that for lesbians too. Hope that doesn't offend anybody, but it's absolutely been my experience.
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I had a rough coming out. Parents weren't wild about it. I was lesbian, then got burned by my first girlfriend, went into a raging cocksucking slut phase, and then I started up with this one girl. She turned out to be a really nicely built trans woman, and I instantly knew that I was Pan.