Just PM'd you. Best of luck!
A one night stand and an emotional relationship both equal an affair.
Neither can be truly forgiven.
I started when I was *young*. I was like a puppy coming into sexual maturity: I was humping and rubbing on everything. My first orgasm was unbelievable! But...I thought I was having a type of seizure and got scared, so I stopped for maybe two years. By then, I had read a lot of books and had seen many videos so I was reassured that I would be fine. But what an misguided fool I was! Think about how many orgasms I cheated myself out of! I was *young* though, so I can't really blame myself.
Anyway, it takes some time, patience, and exploration to be successful. Put on a video that you fancy and see where it leads. As soon as that tingly sensation starts, I have to tend to it... You'll LOVE it once you find your body's sweet spot.
Licked but not nipped...they're way too sensitive.