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TransitionalMan
Over 90 days ago
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A 1966 Plymouth Fury III. Four doors, no AC and a 318 A engine with a two-barrell, which was still quicker then a lot of late seventies smog-controlled "muscle" cars.
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Loss of sex drive and orgasm often accompany old age, but not necessarily so. I have a women friend whose sex drive died after menopause, which she hated. And very little research has been devoted to female sexual dysfunction, in part because it doesn't actually prevent sex like impotence does.
First thing is to worry about your own health with diet and exercise. Second, see your doctor. Viagra and its like can help women, or so I've heard. Third, try a vibrator, although you may already have one in your 'toys'.
Good luck, I hope you can fix this.
First thing is to worry about your own health with diet and exercise. Second, see your doctor. Viagra and its like can help women, or so I've heard. Third, try a vibrator, although you may already have one in your 'toys'.
Good luck, I hope you can fix this.
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Phone sex can be a lot of fun if you find the right partner, who isn't afraid to express themselves, and isn't totally passive. That doesn't mean that someone might not hold back at first, after all phone sex is intimate, and you can really get to know the person you're talking to. That, live everything else, takes time. But if you move on to real sex it's really hard to move back.
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I am middle aged, but even if I were still young, I would not post any nudes. I don't think I'm going to attract anyone with a picture of my body, as I have learned most people are far more attracted by a firm, well-developed brain.
Besides, I like my job, privacy and plasible deniability. But I do have a few pics for my own enjoyment.
Besides, I like my job, privacy and plasible deniability. But I do have a few pics for my own enjoyment.
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The back door is tender, and it isn't realistic to expect all women to enjoy it particularly when the front door works so well. But most women enjoy some anal play at least, and a few it sends to the next galaxy. But the key is start slowly and observe her reaction. If she doesn't appear to like it, she probably doesn't so do something the lady likes. If she starts wiggling when you touch her back there anything is possible.
Besides, at best anal is a treat, sort of like rich dessert. I love them, but no way I'm doing without the entree.
Besides, at best anal is a treat, sort of like rich dessert. I love them, but no way I'm doing without the entree.
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Am I hungry?
How much cash?
How offended?
In the real world a four figure offer would get my attention, although I will NOT do an story as I've dated a two women who were molested. But for something else everything would have to be decided on a case-by-case defense.
How much cash?
How offended?
In the real world a four figure offer would get my attention, although I will NOT do an story as I've dated a two women who were molested. But for something else everything would have to be decided on a case-by-case defense.
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I think it's a function of getting over that particular hump. I know women like it when I talk dirty to them during sex, and if one partner does it the other generally finds it easier to join in. Which is fun for everyone.
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I've had three lovers who squirted. It was fun and thrilling but you do have to take precautions if you wish to avoid a major wet spot, and that can sometimes "dampen" the moment.
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Which study? How was it done? Did they survey enough people to attain significance.
I can imagine how practicing bisexuals might be a bit more adventurous then their purely straight/gay counterparts. Dan Savage has written that bisexual is a transitional stage anyway, which I disagree. But I very much doubt if the study would hold up to close examination.
I can imagine how practicing bisexuals might be a bit more adventurous then their purely straight/gay counterparts. Dan Savage has written that bisexual is a transitional stage anyway, which I disagree. But I very much doubt if the study would hold up to close examination.
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I suppose watching porn made her horny, and she found a man to help her with it.
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Sure there are lots of real women here, and modern male lesbians. Figuring out who is who takes time, but why not invest the time?
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As a man, I find sex toys intended for me uninspiring at best. They just sound wrong, and fake. So I don't own any, but i have dated several women who do, and it is always fun to use their toys upon them, or to torment them in other ways while they use their own. Tonguing a lady while she takes herself is always fun for everyone involved.
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Love means putting them first, that you think of them first, look to them first, care for them first.
Lust is for right now. Love endures.
Lust is for right now. Love endures.
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As a man well past the voting age, I'd much prefer to use my mouth first, simply because I don't recover so quickly as I used to. it makes good sense we should both wear out about the same time, but there should also be no rules in sex.
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I wasn't when I was young. After all, the porn industry and the penis expansion industry want us to very much think cock size matters. And for a few women perhaps it does. But I learned long ago that Maria Muldaur was write when she sang "It ain't the meat it's the motion"
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Before the internet there was Penthouse magazine. They began publishing erotic stories in their "Letters to the Editor" section, and quickly discovered they were popular, and thus spun off Forum and Penthouse Variations magazines. I found those letters reading the magazine, and found the stories, at least the good ones far hotter then the pictures simply because the good ones took me inside th head of someone having actual sex.
Which wasn't doing back then. Dammit.
Which wasn't doing back then. Dammit.
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Trimmed a bit, but really pubic hair is the least important thing imaginable. And I personally like being hairy.
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The blacksmith led my by the hand inside to a seat, telling me he needed to finish this one piece before he could get my order. Then he turned and went to the forge, muscles shifting as he pumped the bellows. Blackened coals began to glow as he pumped, and the cool steel began to glow. I could feel the heat from the forge, but instead of pulling away, leaned closer for I felt flush with heat of it, particularly warm in my breasts and loins.
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First or third person. First is more 'immediate' but it does not suit all stories. Omniscent I think is a mistake, the sexual experience is personal, and omniscent POV is always personal. A story needs a narrator who is involved with the story, even if they aren't the person telling it, their viewpoint and feelings must predominate.
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I'm not so sure about that, particularly in a situation where you have regular contact with someone. First impressions matter, but they can be overcome by consistent personality. Other traits come through, and someone earlier dismissed can grow more attractive with time.
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Not with all of them, a lot depends on how we parted, but with several absolutely.
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Watching my lover touch herself is a very wonderful thing. It is a compliment that she trusts you enough to have you there to see, and if she wants you to see, then she is turned on and even if her thoughts aren't of you at the moment, you are in there. Second it is a very intimate thing, and her pleasure reveals her. Plus if you observe closely, you'll see what feels good to her, places you might not easily discover otherwise.
Besides, girls in pleasure are always arousing, always promising.
Besides, girls in pleasure are always arousing, always promising.
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I don't think any one should be punished for this. Let's face it, how mature were we at that age? When two kids who go to class together flirt, it by definition is not an exploitative relationship. They're peers! They're equals, which would not be the case if an adult entered into a relationship with them. Instead of using legal structures designed to cope with an entirely different type of problem to make examples of them we should use education about the very real consequences, like having your 'sext' sent on to others.
Honestly, how many of us would have done differently if the tools were available to us when we were that age? How many of us might send one today to our adult partner if we knew they alone might see it? Sexting is merely a new form of flirting, and we do like to flirt.
Nor do their parents qualify for specific sanctions. It's simply not possible to know every single thing your kids do, particularly when technology has made it possible that all you need is 30 seconds alone to send a text. Instead we need a society which deals with sex as a normal part of life, with a realistic set of expectations about what is and is not expected of both children and adults. That may be a fantasy, but it's what needed.
Honestly, how many of us would have done differently if the tools were available to us when we were that age? How many of us might send one today to our adult partner if we knew they alone might see it? Sexting is merely a new form of flirting, and we do like to flirt.
Nor do their parents qualify for specific sanctions. It's simply not possible to know every single thing your kids do, particularly when technology has made it possible that all you need is 30 seconds alone to send a text. Instead we need a society which deals with sex as a normal part of life, with a realistic set of expectations about what is and is not expected of both children and adults. That may be a fantasy, but it's what needed.
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Commander Susan Ivanova on Babylon 5. (played by Claudia Christian)
President Laura Roslin on Battlestar Galactica (played by Mary McDonnell)
Maxine in Being John Malkovich (played by Catherine Keener)
Dizzy in Starship Troopers (played by Dina Meyer)
President Laura Roslin on Battlestar Galactica (played by Mary McDonnell)
Maxine in Being John Malkovich (played by Catherine Keener)
Dizzy in Starship Troopers (played by Dina Meyer)