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TrinityX
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Female
0 miles · Maryland
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It might not be a bad idea to consult with a professional who can assist you with delving deeper into this likely multi layered topic. There are increasing therapists with online access and most do a free consult.
Yes, sex is amazing and fun. However, if you have insecurities, conflict, uncertainty, and unresolved feelings about things that impact your sexual template, that could be very unsexy and no fun at all.
You seem to have insight. Give yourself the best opportunity to address your challenges and overcome them.
All the best,
Trinity
Yes, sex is amazing and fun. However, if you have insecurities, conflict, uncertainty, and unresolved feelings about things that impact your sexual template, that could be very unsexy and no fun at all.
You seem to have insight. Give yourself the best opportunity to address your challenges and overcome them.
All the best,
Trinity
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Work is hectic trying to keep the calm. My hands stay chafed from necessary OCD type washing. Toilet paper is scarce and I literally called 5, yes 5, major grocery stores that were ALL out of toilet paper today. Thank God my grandmother hoards that kind of thing. I swear, she's got a bunker in her basement.
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Here it is! How would you keep the sex life going if your partner suddenly had medically induced impotence with very low libido?
Given those factors, it doesn't sound like much can be done outside of viagra and hope he enjoys giving oral, using a toy on me, etc.
Intimacy can still be good, but if I'm still in need of a traditionally robust sex life, it's time to have an honest talk. Or... an unspoken understanding
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Rough sex for me includes biting, scratching, pulling, yanking, hard and forceful penetration, and passion. During the act, I feel like I can't take another moment of it...but somehow, I do. There are sores, bruises, aches, and marks left over to be enjoyed until the next time.
4.5 years later....
Pushing me beyond my comfort level. I enjoy the sore hips, tender limbs,
and aching back the next day. Thrust me around (not theatrically), and keep it lively. I like to push my partner as well.
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It's a sad reality that some lovers are selfish. I learned in my 20's to speak up and make my needs/ wants known. I'm pleased to hear you speaking up and taking action.
I love spontaneity, but I don't have sex with new partners without having a detailed discussion about mutual expectations, preferences, etc.
I'm sure you'll get a man who is a good fit. Hang in there
I love spontaneity, but I don't have sex with new partners without having a detailed discussion about mutual expectations, preferences, etc.
I'm sure you'll get a man who is a good fit. Hang in there
