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Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Female
0 miles · Vancouver
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Quote by Clover1
So what it is boiling down to is, am I down to giving my husband a final ultimatum to get therapy with me? If I've reached the point where I can have phone sex because I feel I deserve a happy moment after everything I've had to deal with, should I give any more time trying to put effort into my marriage?
Welcome back Clover1!
I certainly feel badly for your situation. Your husband sounds like a control freak. Yikes! That's tough to live with and live up to! You will NEVER be good enough for a man like your husband. (I know, I have experience in this type of man)
You, my dear, DESERVE to be happy. You DESERVE to be loved and cherished and supported. When you receive those things, YOU will give back to your partner tenfold .... and that cycle will continue and flourish.
Don't give your husband ANYMORE EXCUSES. He's a grown man, with a wife and child. He has to be responsible and honest and LOYAL to his family.
Life is short .... figure out how much you are willing to give up for your husband (if any) .... and once you make up YOUR mind what YOU need .... take it. Grab on to it. And do it!
PS .... if your husband isn't willing to put in the 100% into fixing the marriage - you have your answer!
Good luck,
Van
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Quote by Buz
I'm tired of overdone and ugly tacky tattoos.
Well illustrated, quality designs in the right place and not too big are fine. Not being careful where you put them could be a career killer, unless you're a rockstar and most people aren't.
Like Buz, I am tired of some of those ugly "what were you thinking?" tats. Like the beautiful young woman with a zodiac sign tatted under her ear on her neck. Really? yikes!
But .... I do love tats on a man.
He starts to unbutton his white dress shirt, and the ink emerges .... he's been hiding them! *yum
His eyes locked on mine as he pulls off his gray tshirt .... and there lays some beautiful ink across his pec and up over his shoulder. *double yum
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Quote by NymphWriter
No, what I was saying since I must explain myself to you is this... a person could easily create a fake account or several fake accounts and do just what he suggested. Since MF suggested it, I said what I did. MF isn't stupid enough to use his real account. He is smart enough to do what he suggested. I hope that explains things well enough for you. MF has his reasons why he chose to quote me & not Mysteria who suggested it first.
Funny how neither of you bothered to notice I said, "I'm sure Nicola has a valid reason for why she has chosen this to be the case." Rather, you both chose to focus on something else. Oh, and I had replied to what Sprite had said in regards to this. I was agreeing with her... but it seems you missed that as well.
And really... if you're that worried about your score or scores... then set your story or stories so that they cannot be scored. Honestly... I hope you never get a 2 on anything you write.
Thanks NW for your clarification. My question was really why you think Jack would do such a thing.
Just so you know, it's not a good idea for any author/writer here to have a secondary (or more) accounts. If one is found out to have other accounts, they are subject to having their "main writing" account deleted. I believe that is part of the TERMS
I will not create more than one profile for any reason whatsoever. I understand that if I do, all my accounts may be deleted from the site without notice. I will not share my account with anyone, and I understand joint accounts are not allowed (couples, please set up an account each).
Am I worried about a score of a 2 or whatever? Nope. Many of us have had someone score a poem or story with a 1 or 2 - just because! Have at it if you need to.
Good luck!
Van
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Quote by Tnadnuder
blah blah blah
The question that seems to be going between members is whether the ratings left on stories by these two hypothetical accounts should each/both stay, & the argument seems to be the good ones should & the bad ones should not, regardless of the status of the offline person or their on-site account.
My point is that is not to be a matter of the person or the accounts, but the story-writer.
Keep any & all "silly retorts" (or claims that anyone else has posted one) to yourself.
your point isn't what would or should happen.
The legacy of the story has been modified so that ONLY members can vote and leave comments on your stories. That's the end of that. That's how it is. Before you arrived here, back a number of years, there were "anonymous" votes (offline or from just a visitor). That was found as bad as the member dumping 2s on a story and deleting their acct but you're stuck with the 2s for the rest of your life. I remember telling Nicola I liked the change wherein the scoring altered as members left and that offline scoring was no longer enabled.
Makes things very fair.
So .... Don't try to fix something that is not broken.
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Quote by Tnadnuder
I don't have such a thing for anyone, & you don't think.
As for the question, anyone who posts a story on any site knows any type of person could potentially be reading it & rating it/commenting on it...If a person gave you a 100 (out of anything, highest is what I'm saying) & then dies, you'd want to keep that one though, right?! If you don't want a ton of bad ratings from someone who may live or die in the next minute (let alone decade), work on your story before it is publicly posted!
If the person DIES as you have stated, then, I am thinking their account is still alive but now dormant, unless said DIED member has left their account to someone to keep the account alive.
again .... such a silly retort.
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Quote by Magical_felix
So if someone wants to be a dick and make an account to give you a bunch of 2s then quickly delete the account before it's found out, you would like those votes to remain?
Quote by NymphWriter
Are you speaking about yourself, sir?
This makes absolutely zero sense.
NW - are you asking Jack if he's a dick or if he'd leave 2's and then delete his account?
Regardless, what a silly retort.
Jack's comment makes complete sense ... I for one don't want some dick's leftover 2's after the dick's left lush.
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Quote by Tnadnuder
Why the H not?! If someone wants to be a dick & make all their posts off-topic & directed specifically at individual people, which causes someone else to get mad & act/react in a way nobody seems to have had the cojones to do before (so things get added to their profile page that say things like, "You're my hero")... Then the members that took action have to spend the majority of their limited-time membership inactive & banned while the one who broke a million rules gets to stay active & continue violations, you clearly have no problem with that!!!
More on-topic, I would like to see the members who violate these rules get their memberships terminated, & any/all time left in their memberships added to that of the limited-membership person who took action (& had misspelling-point-outs on stories admitted & thanked by story authors)... Maybe a way members/groups of them can vote for people they feel have earned increased length for their memberships?
hahaha .... a little delusional, eh? you have a hardon for someone, me thinks!
who the fuck wants some nutjob leaving a rash of 2's on your story and you get to keep them after they delete their account?? it's kinda like contracting herpes - but in story online format.
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Originally to read some stories. Then, I tried writing my own stories. Along the way, I've met some pretty interesting people - some I converse with away from Lush. Now, I pop on occasionally to see what's happening here, who's posted a new story or poem and say a quick hello to a few folks.
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Quote by myotherworld
What is the biggest thing you've put in your cunt?
For me: length - part of a wine bottle but I think we've all done that
Width - I'm not sure I
Please don't assume every female has put a wine bottle (or any other type of bottle) inside her. What pleasure would that be??? (don't answer ... )
yuk .....