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VirginalViet
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 32
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Well my mom makes me use like a ton of suntan lotion (cancer hehe), but I do adore my tan lines. I'm quite petite and I find nice tan lines give my body more curves and it draws the guys eyes naturally to my boobs and my ass. I think for sure my boobs look bigger when I have tan lines
I don't like totally pay attention...I mean....other things are distracting me, but mostly stuff like "YES", "Oh God!", "Oh Shit", "Fuck that feels good", "Faster", "FASTER", "Harder", "HARDER!!!", "OMG You fill me", "Don't stop", "Whatever you do don't stop", "Oh God Fuck", "OMG I'm SO CLOSE", "I'm Cumming"..... mostly stuff like that.
From what I know of my girlfriends, well, we girls have like a double-standard when it comes to cheating. If we are doing the "cheating" we like justify it and....well....it's damn hot. Sneaking around is like more intense right? Plus if we can lure a guy away from some girl we don't know? Well some girls find that a total rush. Like they get a high. I think society teaches girls to be insecure about our bodies and our ability to attract men right? Buy this to look good. No buy this to look attractive. Lose weight. Get a boob job. Damn we have like a total avalanche of pressure sometimes. I mean I totally feel it too. When a man chooses YOU over another girl, like maybe even his wife? Well in product marketing terms.....you're the better product hehe. This feeds many girls sense of self-worth...or anyways that's my like kindergarten psychology reading of this thing. Anyways cheating has gone on through all of history. Some of the best love stories involve infidelity. Watch the Tudors....gosh fucking left-right and centre. Damn? I mean my own dad got seduced away? Did he find it more thrilling than with my mom? Probably. So I don't know the fucking moral of the story, but basically people do it all the time and people must find it exciting. Yup...shit I babble a lot.
Yeah I agree with Beth. If I'm just doing myself then I usually stop at one. I mean mainly it's to help me sleep, or to relax and "get rid of that itch" hehe. But if I'm with a guy and he stops at one..... .....well he's not getting another date. I like a lot of foreplay from a guy. I want a lot of attention before he gets to enter me. Well unless it's one of those intense "we just have to fuck and can't wait another second" moments. But those are rare. Well I won't mention girls. That's because when girls cuddle we already know and understand a woman's needs. I won't tell our secrets (hook pinkies girls...."Promise") but girls just understand. I am very "tactile" my mom says. I like to be touched. Usually if we have been dating a while a guy can give me several orgasms very easily.
Hehe I really, really, REALLY like it too . Actually my breasts are quite small, but very efficient little beasts haha. My nipples are like pleasure buttons. The man who learns to play with them will be well rewarded haha. Girls...enough said....girls know how a girl feels. That is something special between girls.1CxN9cofN4s9qQoU Sshhhh don't tell the guys.
Oh my gosh that would be horrible. No way. Haha I set Steve up with one of my friends. He's terribly sweet, but it just wasn't the right time for me. Whatever was there at the beginning just went away for me ? I know Steve was shattered for a while and he tried to get me back, but he's so happy now and I'm happy for him.
Well mine gets hard and sticks up so it's easy to play with. A vibrator is best if you're on your own. I love to close my eyes, get the room dark, and fantasise about something. Maybe a Lush story sets you off or something that happened during the day that made you horny? Use that image to get you going. I play with my nipple with one hand (they are very sensitive) and then I have to start very lightly just brushing my clit. If I go too hard at the beginning it will not be a happy clit I can assure you. So I start soft and slow. I need to build up slowly. If I don't have a vibrator to finish the job, then I make circles and side-to-side motions. I always vary the motions otherwise your clit will get bored. IDK? That's what works for me. Make sure no one is around your door if you like scream or cry out when you come . My mom has heard me more than once and I feel so un-angel-like when that happens .
My neck, shoulders and ears are terribly sensitive....so any guy who nuzzles in and teases those areas....especially if he knows how to make sexy funny whispers....will reap HUGE rewards hehe.
Well I love the flirting BEFORE anything happens. When you realise how badly the guy wants you and you both flirt to the max. The sexual tension is so hot and intense. Oh god I adore that time. Just the way he looks at you....I mean he doesn't even touch you....and you can get moist and your heart can race.
The guy felt-up my breasts and I sort of made a fumbled attempt to touch his cock. I hardly rubbed it or anything and I guess he was too excited and he spurted already. I was surprised how sticky it was? Not much I guess . Sorry it wasn't more exciting gang.
Quote by SereneProdigy


The 328i is wimpy? Well, you sure are difficult to please, that's a $50,000 car. And the difference between it and a M3 really isn't that noticeable, especially to a person that doesn't know cars all that well.

Here's a 328i and a M3, side by side. I'm not quite sure that many women would really notice the difference; at least I wouldn't pay the extra $25,000 just to impress women:



I have some of my favorite cars exposed in one of my galleries, if you're interested: Things I Enjoy

My dream car would be the Camaro Yenko 1969 by far, though realistically speaking I don't really see myself driving it, even if I won the lottery (rarity, performance, fuel consumption, etc.).

Okay Serene I don't normally argue with guys about cars. I'm way more interested in shoes. However to say a 328i and an M3 are "almost the same" is fucking crazy. That's like saying the smart handsome guy who speaks four languages, is elegant, charming, rich and witty is the same as a guy who looks similar, can't speak English well, dropped out of HS and is a dweeb. A 328i has a 4 cylinder engine that produces 240hp. Got it? On the same page with me? Okay an M3 looks similar I will grant it.....HOWEVER....it has an in-line 6 that produces 425 hp and tons of torque. Plus darling it has the special M BRAKES....special compound brakes.....so YOU DON'T KILL ME.....(my dad would be pissed haha). The M3 is a completely different car, with different chassis, different suspension.....it only looks similar so the normal dweeb on the street won't know how fucking hot it is. I guess the reason men want me so badly is because I know shit like this and I'm cute and sweet and.....well I'm Asian....so enough said haha. OMG when I told Jen you thought a 328i was "similar" to an M3 she laughed. Guy what kind of dumb girls do you date?

But that's way off topic...
Screamer, moaner, biter, nail digger, whimperer, purring kitty, yelping, crying, growling, grunting, sighing, giggling, laughing, etc,etc, etc,......all of that and more. C'mon if not the guy is NOT doing his job. Seriously who wants to just lay there and think of their car payments? "You finished with my pussy yet honey? I need to do the dishes." FUCK? Sex is supposed to be wild and fun gang......geez.
Not so far. Hehe well Steve worked with my dad, but that's not my company so it doesn't count right? When I intern in the summer a lot of guys hit on me. Is it the summer dresses? IDK? Even married guys flirt...I mean seriously. I know they would do something if I led them on. Sad right? Gosh I liked one guy in my first intern job, but I was dating Steve at the time and I just didn't think about actually having an affair with him.

I'm sure opportunities and temptations will always be there when you work closely with people. It is inevitable that some people will have sparks fly. HOT office sex will always make for a great Lush story hehe. That's how my dad met Judy, at work, and then....bam....my parents were divorced. Yup shit happens.
Well I'm pretty young and inexperienced and all but this is my two-cents from my own life and talking to my mom, Jenny, Cindy and my girlfriends. So like in exploring new sex stuff....TRUST is all important for a girl. When Steve wanted to put his finger in my bum....well....I was so nervous. It took a while. After it happens you're like...."Wow that really wasn't such a big deal." But before the girl is nervous. I would start with small things. Little new kinds of sex that don't make her so nervous. Big stuff like fucking a different guy? Wow that will need a ton of trust. She's probably afraid you will like judge her. Most guys judge girls. C'mon be honest...you do. So yeah us girls we have a TON of fantasies. Two guys? Yup. Tie me to the bed and blindfold me? YUP. You can't even imagine how fertile and horny our brains are. NO YOU CAN'T haha. But hey that's totally good. Everything you want to do......well....I bet she does want to do. But she must KNOW IN HER HEART....that you won't judge her. Geez I'm blathering on. Fuck I tend to do that. Sorry.vofAMEbe2jAVVHMY
Quote by SallyRAnne
I can't help but notice the shoes, my eyes are just always drawn there…and well…when they're gorgeous one just can't help but comment. I do know a few wonderful men who will always notice and comment, they're definitely in my good books!


Haha I love that ..."a few wonderful men".....take NOTE guys.....want to earn bonus points? Listen to Sally and Crissy. Hehe yes those men are "wonderful" aren't they. And I fully intend to make them feel wonderful for being so darling and noticing the care I took to get ready for our date. Yes you do your "homework" boys and you will get an "A" from Crissy .
Quote by Possibly
I get compliments from men all the time. I seem to attract men with foot fetishes, men who love well manicured toes and well kept feet.

On the flip, I've had men to tell me when they didn't like the shoe. For example, I love the comfort of wedge heels, but I've had some bad reviews from men on that style.

No matter what the comment, I wear what I like. If they like it...wonderful, if not then oh well.


OMG so that's where all these guys are? They're dating YOU hehe. OMG willing to share girlfriend? Yeah I know. I love wedge heels and I have this pair of Prada Nude suede leather wedgies that I adore. Well I'm short so I need some "lift" if you know what I mean. I haven't really gotten "negative feedback" on wedgies, but maybe my dates are too preoccupied to tell me? In the winter do you ever wear open-toe? I have huge fights with my mom over this. She says you're only supposed to wear open-toe in the spring and summer? I think she's too old-fashioned and girls now wear open-toe all the time.
Quote by HeraTeleia
As a woman with size 11.5 feet (meaning, I have to buy size 12 shoes), I always have to buy the shoes first, then buy an outfit to match the shoes, not vice versa. So, yes, I have quite a few pairs of shoes, some still waiting for the right outfit to come along. I like heels, I like platform heels a lot, and I really don't care if they make me 6'4" or not. Guys can deal, because it's not like I'm getting shorter anytime soon. As far as handbags go--I only have one, a classic black bag with a lockable concealed carry compartment built in.


Yeah it's true, not all girls have like a ton of bags. My mom adores shoes, but she's like totally not into having bunches and bunches of bags. She has one classic Kelly bag that she says "looks better the older it gets" and she has a Birkin and she has one new Tory Burch bag I bought her for her birthday. She wears the Kelly for work usually and says a girl should strive to be "classic" at her age. IDK? That's her style. I change bags every day. Haha you're tall and I'm short....gosh....each has its challenges. If my heels are too high then they come off slutty? Whatever right? Can't change my height.
Quote by avrgblkgrl


I tend to believe that it should be the entire package when it comes to a woman. The eyes, the hair, the skin, the body, the way the clothes grace the body, the bag, the legs, the shoes... So ChuckE Sweetie if you are starting from the top and each glance downward is just as interesting as the prior, then being impressed with the shoes or feet isn't necessarily such a bad thing. And, that's before she actually moves in those clothes, walks in those shoes, swings that bag, smiles and says hello.

I think I'm sort of old school about that. What makes a lady is definitely in the details--when it comes to pleasing her man and maintaining herself. But then again, I just love shoes (and bags). I like quality and sometimes that has little to do with price.

I collect beautiful shoes and I think that they are just as important as the outfit itself. Shoes are an extension of my body. I like things to make my ass look good and my legs&toes just as alluring. I love it when both, among other things, subtly catch the eye and compliments--which they do from both women and men. Whether it's my favorite pair of Nike's or red bottomed heels that ooze sex, they have to look good.

I also believe that a girl should look good in her bare feet too. *Wiggles my toes*


OMG girl you are so spot on. Quality and price are not the same. Plus there are shoes for every occasion. I think the "red bottomed heels" went over most of the guys heads hehe....but the girls all caught it. God how many pair do you fucking have? My mom has seven don't tell haha....I only have one . I love Tory Burch right now. I have a few pair. At the end of the day a girl needs to eat healthy and keep the complete package together so that she can look amazing in her bare feet just like you said.
Quote by Dani
It's nice when guys notice anything: Outfit, shoes, hair, purse, nail polish color, etc.

Some guys are really into that sort of thing (shopping with their ladies and helping them pick out outfits and things like that) while some guys are just oblivious to things like shoes.

And being that you're so into shoes, I bet you have some pairs that are very similar in color and style that your guy just doesn't notice. I don't see it as an issue, especially if he's noticing/complimenting other things. I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you.

Yeah thanks bunches. No I don't "worry" about it, but I was wondering about other girl's experience?? Yeah you're so right about some guys. Steve loved to go shopping and was super duper patient. He loved to let me try on several outfits and he would wait. He said he loved to watch me "model them" for him. Plus I think he got a total rush from being out with a younger woman and showing me off to all the ladies and husbands in the mall. IDK? Anyways with me if a guy notices I give him total bonus points. So guys....listen up....if you want that "extended version" limited edition blow job you've been fantasising about? Well make some pithy comment about my shoes and how the nude shade is slightly different from the shoes I wore yesterday (because they are TWO DIFFERENT SHADES hehe) and then say something about my hair and how my nail lacquer matches so well with my top.....because it does haha.
Quote by maturemom
Shoes is definitely a girl thing. The only time men seem to notice is when I wear my "fuck me" heels with seductive clothing. They usually don't say anything, but they look and it is like you can read their mind what they are thinking.


Haha I know. Every girl needs a few pair in her closet . Used with discretion such heels can be very effective.
Quote by SereneProdigy
If I may offer a comment as a guy, I'd say that all these 'feminine obsessions' (ie. shoes, nails, handbags, etc.) are a lot more important to you women than they are to us guys. Personally, I appreciate when a woman takes great care of her appearance and displays a feminine style, but I don't go as far as noticing all the little features of her shoes or the exact shade of her nails. When I (rarely) browse these shoes/nails threads in En Vogue for example, I find it extremely sexy and cute that women give importance to these details, but in all honesty I don't really notice that big of a difference between each one of them; they all look fairly similar to me.

All these little details are essentially meant to make you feel pretty, and we get that, but they really don't make that big of a difference to us guys. Again, we appreciate the fact the you care about these things and exhibit a feminine appearance, more than anything.

Pretty much like men enjoy feeling manly by being specific about the cars they drive and how much they can lift at the gym, and yet most women won't really care if a man drives a BMW 328i or a BMW M3, or if he can bench press 150lbs or 200lbs.


Well I totally get what you're saying. Plus kudos for being HONEST. Wow....rare haha. Hey well what you say may be TRUE, but heads-up.....you'll score huge points for noticing. We totally want you to notice. Just like guys drool when I tell them I think a Golf R with a standard is HOT and the 328 is wimpy (by the way) but the M3 is HOT, but not the like "custom package" fake car. It better be the REAL M3....so yeah....my dad did teach me about cars. Plus Jenny has dated lots of guys with hot cars. Steve had a Aston Martin Vantage so he told me all about his car too. So what's your favourite car? Oh and don't have a fake spoiler. That is totally dorky. Fucking Asian guys do that shit and it makes me embarrassed to be fucking Asian.
Quote by doctorlove


I am not sure if you are aware of this, but guys look at some heels and we call them "come fuck me heels".


Gosh Doctor I went to Valley Fair mall. I went to Bebe, Aritzia, Forever 21, The Limited and even Macy's?? I asked all the sales girls, but none of them said they had a section for "Come Fuck Me" heels?? I'm so confused . Where do I buy them? Is "Come Fuck Me" a new brand like Tory Burch? Please help since you seem to know more about girls shoes than me hehe. (stop giggling girls).
Quote by hayley
Yessssssssssss ... best pick up attempts always start with shoes.. and although he doesn't stand a snowballs chance in hell ... kudos, kudos, kudos..
Same for girls.. except u know they really mean it.. great way to start though



Haha so true. Actually I meet so many girls by commenting on their shoes . You just like start chatting and then you are like friends and it all starts with beautiful shoes.
Hey so my mom and I spend a TON on shoes. Well I adore shoes....especially heels. I'm short. Enough said. Anyways my girlfriends we all adore shoes. Guys rarely comment on our shoes. Does this ever bother you? Do you love it when a guy notices your shoes?
Quote by sazraz
im 5'7 and my past 2 boyfriends were about the same height as me, which i dont mind...

but i prefer taller guys like my current boyfriend who's 6'2

i think the hugs are better....amoung other things


Exactly. I like guys like 6' or so...or 6'1" or 2".....I'm very petite and only 5'2" (+ a half hehe), but I like guys who make me feel feminine when they hold me. The sex with a larger guy is just so much hotter.
Quote by SITTING
I have fantasised about it but I wouldn't do it. Never. Too much.

Haha we're so much alike. OMG I know I "fantasise" about it way too much. But I was brought up way too much of a "goodie goodie" to ever even imagine making it happen. My fantasy is I'm on holiday in some exotic place and two guys pick me up in a club.....well....you know hehe....it's a fantasy right?
Quote by InsatiableLover
I prefer a profile that is completed. I dislike when someone messages me and only has the bare minimum on their profile. I feel it's the least you could do and tell someone a little about yourself. Likes, dislikes, wants and desires. It's your profile so as long as it reflects who you are I'm sure the people of lush would be pleased. ;)


Yeah this is a good way to put it. I date guys in real life so here I'm mainly looking to chat, flirt, have fun and read great stories that get me horny for my dates. Plus maybe you get new ideas about sex and new stuff to try and things. IDK. Yup like that.
Well tonight it's a black set with some lace detailing. It's a fun date night so yeah I want to look cute and sexy. The panties are quite tiny, but still comfortable. The bra is a demi cup....I think he'll like it...very delicate and feminine.
Quote by DirtyMindedMom
I wouldn't go so far as to call it a fetish, but I absolutely love pics of men in suits with a nice big erection sticking out through their fly. Gives me tingles all over.


OMG Rachel you are a naughty Mom aren't you? I couldn't stop giggling picturing this.
Quote by Possibly
To me, there is nothing more sexy than a well-groomed man in a well-tailored suit...smelling good. Although it is not a fetish of mine, it is arousing as hell.

Now, let me say this. Clothes do not make a man...the man's confidence, intelligence, and character enhance the clothes. A man with a foul character adorned in the finest gear would not be attractive at all.


Gosh exactly. If a girl dresses up and does her hair and nails and stuff then the guy should also make an effort. OH the "smelling good" is so hehe IMPORTANT. Nice cologne is so nice when you get close and flirt and then his musky rich cologne teases your nose. OMG I love that moment. That being said it is so true that it's not the clothes, it's the man. A creep in a suit is still a creep.