It has to be one of the following, but I don't know which:

Planes, Trains, and Automobiles

The Shawshank Redemption

Forrest Gump

The Green Mile

Saving Private Ryan

and, as mentioned just above or I would have forgotten, Where Eagles Dare. It's a favorite of my husband and we own it. I do like it as well but would not see it as often without him playing it.

Looking back, I see that Tom Hanks is well-represented! Probably not a coincidence...

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Measures, repetitive structures, the enumeration of actions with no transition. I feel like I'm reading a plot checklist.

Personal pet peeve is love canal.

As a euphemism for vagina, or in terms of the environmental disaster? I can't see it used for the first without thinking of the second, so yes, not very erotic. I'm not into pain, humiliation, or degradation, or as mentioned above breeding/impregnating, but that's a category thing so I just avoid those categories.

As far as style, the clinical descriptions of every physical feature and the ages of all the characters, all crammed into the first paragraph or 2, will generally ensure that I read no farther. Yes, Lush has minimum age limits for story characters, but show it by actions or experience, or work it in gently, don't jam it in the reader's face.

It's ok to work to a plot or outline, but you shouldn't be writing to a checklist - or punch list, as they call them in the trades. It kills all sense of natural flow.

Stilted, awkward, unnatural dialog is also a bridge too far for me. Read it back out loud and ask yourself if you've ever heard anyone talk like that.

Often! I'm usually in the mood, but even when I'm not my mood can usually be changed with the right encouragement. 😋 And once we start it's fun to go on and on, long after he cums, and we often do. Although a quickie can be nice too!

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Ah, thanks, answers my question if coins can be used to purchase or upgrade memberships! And let's see, then if I do that, I get free coins back... there must be some way to parlay this into a personal fortune!

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Place the letter of each and every sex act you've done in your reply:

A. You had sex before the age of 20. (and after!)

B. You've had sex without a condom. (Almost always)

C. You've had sex with more than 10 different partners over the course of your sexual past. (barely more -12 inc. 1 female)

D. You've had sex with 2 males in a threesome (a personal favorite!)

E. You've had sex with another female (and enjoyed it far more than I expected to)

F. You've been photographed nude

G. Your husband or S.O. has watched you being fucked by another man

H. You've had anal sex (An occasional diversion only, not a must for me...)

I. You've given a guy a blowjob

J. You've swallowed cum (a given, considering that (I.) above was positive. 😜

L. You've been double-penetrated (one penis in your pussy, another in your ass. (occasionally, mostly for them)

Q. You've been spit-roasted, one penis in your pussy, another in your mouth (absolutely a favorite)

U. You've had sex in public (Especially if fingering and remote-control toys count!)

V. You've been photographed nude outdoors

W. Your husband/S.O. has licked another guy's cum out of your pussy

X. You've had sex with a guy at least 20 years older than you

Z. You've had more than 5 orgasms in one session

I was perfect down to J... starting to feel a little slutty, thanks!

Sure! How else are you going to shape him into what you want him to be? 😈 Seriously though, yes and I hope other women would do the same - we need to stick together and help each other out with these hopeless guys! 😊

Yes, I find it very powerful and arousing to see him cum. Even more, I'd like to experience it, just once, to see what it feels like for him.

I know he'd trade places with me for a day if he could, but I'm afraid that once he'd experienced intense, rapid, multiple orgasms he might not be willing to trade back! 😳

The two areas mentioned, right behind his balls and the underside of the glans, although really all around the rim of it seems to work magic. 😋 I can (and do) use either or both if we're having a quickie or I'm eager to get a mouthful but tend to be careful around both if I want to play longer and have him inside of me before we're thru. 😈

People are very multi-faceted, and I think that when we write we put tiny pieces of ourselves (or perhaps someone we know well) into every character. My characters (which are often me, my husband, and RL friends, so far) frequently say and do things we've actually said and done. Other times, they say and do things we wish we'd said or done. Occasionally, one of them will do something I'd probably never think of or get involved in myself, but I cheer them on and enjoy their experiences vicariously, always wondering how I might have reacted to the same scenario.

So yes, they do take on a life of their own, and sometimes I feel like I'm just along for the ride. But it can be a very fun and erotic ride, so I just hang on and go with it! I was very surprised when I started writing here about the way that happened. Still am, sometimes!

I don't think it's necessarily gay. It's like the women that wear a string bikini or high-cut suit that leaves their whole butt exposed - if you have the body for it, it looks fine, sexy even. But on big, heavy, or out of shape people it's not doing them any favors. Another style might be more flattering. Still I'd defend their right to wear whatever they want to and feel comfortable in.

Nobody has to look if they don't want to!

I've been called that a few times and didn't like it but on a couple of those occasions I probably earned it. I don't think I've ever used the word except to cuss at something inanimate that didn't work right. I'll have to see about working it into my stories...

If my hubby is going to give it a good thorough fucking, licking, or both however, he can call it whatever he wants to!

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Thanks!

On this topic I used to try to post a status update when I'd get a new story published, and there was a place to click "status" to make one. I can't find that now, so how do I do that?

(Edited) I see a "post and pin" instruction for wall posts - is that it now?

My husband is eagerly bi, so we've done it both ways. I enjoy either way, as does he, but I think he likes it best when the other guy is bi - or at least open-minded enough to experiment a little! I do like seeing him enjoy it too.

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I made a graph - my line (red) is for the intensity of each orgasm at its peak. His (blue) is more of a hardness scale. You can see where he comes and is very hard and what it does for me. After that point is when he moves down and cleans up after himself, and oh wow! If the graph extended further, you'd see his line begin to rise again...

Seriously, I've never counted or been able to keep track because sometimes they seem to just all run together, as Meggsy said. If I had to guess, I'd say something in the low twenties.

It's a tossup whether I or my husband enjoy creampies more, but we both love the sexy, wet, messy intimacy of it. I love everything about it, feeling it pump in and then even feeling it leak out and soak my panties, and he loves to slide into it, or do cleanup after himself or one of our friends and then kiss me with his messy face. 😋 A warm creamy filling is just the best!

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In a small backpacking tent near a lake in the Mt. Zirkel Wilderness, CO. He was just a friend and we'd stripped down to swim and wash up a little in the ice cold lake and (after laughing about it) I was trying to help make his shrunken bits reappear 😋 and we got carried away!

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My only "exes" are ex-boyfriends (not all that many) and while I never brought them up, my one and only hubby sometimes asks. I answer him honestly, and he likes to hear ALL the juicy details!

Oddly, he and my "first ever" boyfriend became good friends after they met at our wedding, and we have since (several years later) enjoyed threesomes with him on occasion. Weird I know, but he was a few years in my past by then so hubby wasn't jealous, and they have a lot of common interests. Other than me, I mean. 😋

I'm very slowly working on writing some of that story and hope to publish it someday.

Oh yes! I love receiving, but maybe giving even more. To me it's almost more intimate and in tune with my partner than intercourse - what could be more intimate than his lips and tongue at my pussy or his cock in my mouth?

Please don't take this to mean that a big, hard cock inside of me isn't high on my list of life's greatest treasures as well. It's all good... except when it's excellent!

I think that's more of a danger for guys than it is for us - you stick right out there where you can rub against things. Sure, damp or wet panties from lots of making out or sex play, and giving a blowjob is always wet-making for me, but I don't recall ever reaching orgasm without being touched.

And yes, they all seemed to love finding my panties wet when they do touch!

I'm a fan! "Richie" (my husband's name in my stories) enjoys it, following himself or one of our friends, and who am I to deny his pleasure? Of course, I enjoy the extra orgasm or two he gives me, but it's really all about him... 😉

One of our male friends, inspired by watching Richie, has become very fond of it too and he goes at it very... umm, enthusiastically. The oral attention always feels wonderful, but there is also just something so deliciously naughty about it!