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Wilful
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Male, 49
0 miles · Sydney
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Devil's Advocate
I'm married, so no. No benefits for me. Poor little donkey.
Hypothetically though, if I ever was going to get a bit of fluff on the side, and I stress, "if", I think a married friend with benefits would be the best way to do it. Similar circumstances, similar obligations, similar risks , and all that.
Nice to dream...
Hypothetically though, if I ever was going to get a bit of fluff on the side, and I stress, "if", I think a married friend with benefits would be the best way to do it. Similar circumstances, similar obligations, similar risks , and all that.
Nice to dream...
Devil's Advocate
I really feel for you, Mate. That's a shit situation to be in.
I'd suggest you think about talking to your wife, but I see from your other posts that she's not interested in engaging in that sort of discussion. If she's unwilling to talk to you, couples counselling might be an option.
At the very least, I'd recommend maybe seeking out some counselling for yourself, even if she won't go with you. You've got to figure out what you want, and more importantly, how you're going to achieve that. Whether it's coming up with strategies to cope with the current situation, improving the relationship with your wife so your getting your needs met, or finding the strength to move on.
You deserve to be happy. You really do.
But to be brutally honest, the only way things are going to get better for you is when the fear of things staying the same outweighs the fear of making a change. It's up to you.
In the meantime, you've got a squeezey Daddysweetheart hug to keep you going, and they're worth lining up for. To say nothing of the others. Hell, I'll even throw in an awkward, manly hug of my own.
All the best, Mate. I really wish you well.
I'd suggest you think about talking to your wife, but I see from your other posts that she's not interested in engaging in that sort of discussion. If she's unwilling to talk to you, couples counselling might be an option.
At the very least, I'd recommend maybe seeking out some counselling for yourself, even if she won't go with you. You've got to figure out what you want, and more importantly, how you're going to achieve that. Whether it's coming up with strategies to cope with the current situation, improving the relationship with your wife so your getting your needs met, or finding the strength to move on.
You deserve to be happy. You really do.
But to be brutally honest, the only way things are going to get better for you is when the fear of things staying the same outweighs the fear of making a change. It's up to you.
In the meantime, you've got a squeezey Daddysweetheart hug to keep you going, and they're worth lining up for. To say nothing of the others. Hell, I'll even throw in an awkward, manly hug of my own.
All the best, Mate. I really wish you well.
Devil's Advocate
Hi Mike, welcome to Lush! And congratulations on finishing your first story!
If you haven't already, have a look at the Writers Resources, particularly what to do before submitting a story. If you're confident with the quality of what you've written, then submit it. Get it out there! Just make sure your story meets the posting guidelines.
If you feel you need some help, then maybe think about asking a more experienced author to help you with editing first.
We're a pretty friendly bunch, so don't worry too much.
If you haven't already, have a look at the Writers Resources, particularly what to do before submitting a story. If you're confident with the quality of what you've written, then submit it. Get it out there! Just make sure your story meets the posting guidelines.
If you feel you need some help, then maybe think about asking a more experienced author to help you with editing first.
We're a pretty friendly bunch, so don't worry too much.
Devil's Advocate
Yeah, I paid for plenty of it. This will blow your noodle though, back in my day it was mainly video cassettes. God, how old am I?
When online porn took off, I never really trusted the internet for paid subscriptions, and I could never find the free stuff, so the mail order nudie shops were my bread and butter.
Now I'm almost exclusively erotica for the ...assist. I've sprung for the Gold Membership here, so I guess that's yes again. Although I do stray to some free sites from time to time.
When online porn took off, I never really trusted the internet for paid subscriptions, and I could never find the free stuff, so the mail order nudie shops were my bread and butter.
Now I'm almost exclusively erotica for the ...assist. I've sprung for the Gold Membership here, so I guess that's yes again. Although I do stray to some free sites from time to time.
Devil's Advocate
I try to vote and leave a comment on every story I read, because that's what I want as a writer. Send it out there and all that...
If the author zaps me a thank you, I'll often send a friend request in return. I appreciate the politeness of acknowledging my feedback. But at the same time, I have no expectation of, or ill will towards those who don't respond.
As a writer myself, I'll try and thank everyone who votes and/or leaves a comment, and even adds one of my stories to their favourites list or follows me. If they're already a friend, I'll post on their wall. If not, I tend to do it through a friend request, after checking out their profile first. If they don't have any other friends or otherwise make it clear they don't want to be bothered, I just let it go.
If the author zaps me a thank you, I'll often send a friend request in return. I appreciate the politeness of acknowledging my feedback. But at the same time, I have no expectation of, or ill will towards those who don't respond.
As a writer myself, I'll try and thank everyone who votes and/or leaves a comment, and even adds one of my stories to their favourites list or follows me. If they're already a friend, I'll post on their wall. If not, I tend to do it through a friend request, after checking out their profile first. If they don't have any other friends or otherwise make it clear they don't want to be bothered, I just let it go.
Devil's Advocate
Remember when Burger King discontinued the Whopper?
Whopper Freak Out
Just sayin'...
Whopper Freak Out
Just sayin'...
Devil's Advocate
It took a bit of time to get there, but yes. It was the classic progression of burping, then with all due deference to Sprite, farting, and then I wish finally peeing. There's something to be said for the intimacy of being open enough to share something so personal. On the other hand, once you cross that line, you can't cross back. You can't unsee things...
Now, when I know my wife's on the toilet, I'll throw open the door, point at her and announce as loudly as possible, "You're peeing!" She goes bright red and tries to hide behind the door. Seriously, how am I not single?
Now, when I know my wife's on the toilet, I'll throw open the door, point at her and announce as loudly as possible, "You're peeing!" She goes bright red and tries to hide behind the door. Seriously, how am I not single?
Devil's Advocate
I love it. I'm getting hard right now just thinking about it.
I like how warm and wet it feels, dare I say, like warm apple pie. And no, I haven't... And the tight muscles squeezing back against my fingers, with the sensation of the soft skin of her thighs against my hand...
As for technique, a full length in and out with one or two fingers certainly has its place, but the 'come here' motion against her g spot while I'm working her clit with my tongue is definitely a crowd pleaser.
Sorry...what was the question?
I like how warm and wet it feels, dare I say, like warm apple pie. And no, I haven't... And the tight muscles squeezing back against my fingers, with the sensation of the soft skin of her thighs against my hand...
As for technique, a full length in and out with one or two fingers certainly has its place, but the 'come here' motion against her g spot while I'm working her clit with my tongue is definitely a crowd pleaser.
Sorry...what was the question?
Devil's Advocate
I recently saw one down at the $2 shop that said, "Sponsored by Centrelink". Brilliant on the back of a shitbox.
There was another with the silhouette of a stripper dancing on a pole that read, "Proudly supporting single mothers". I nearly fell over laughing.
Then there's the zombie versions of those stick family stickers. And better yet, the "making my stick family" version, with the dad ploughing into the mum from behind. Always makes me laugh when I see it.
There was another with the silhouette of a stripper dancing on a pole that read, "Proudly supporting single mothers". I nearly fell over laughing.
Then there's the zombie versions of those stick family stickers. And better yet, the "making my stick family" version, with the dad ploughing into the mum from behind. Always makes me laugh when I see it.
Devil's Advocate
Introduce the title of your story: Sleeping Over
Genre/Category: First Time
Provide the link: www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/sleeping-over.aspx
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?
This was actually my first short story, and my first ever erotica story. I had been a long time reader on another site, and with a lifelong dream of becoming a writer myself, I thought I'd give it a go. It was only ever meant to be a quick test to see if I was any good. To chase the biggest number of readers, and quite frankly because I wanted to, I originally posted it in the...*coughs* hamburger category. It took off like a rocket, with nearly 200,000 views over there and over 20,000 here. It completely blew my mind.
Following the recent changes to Lush, and my attachment to the piece, I just had to keep it. So I reworked it for the first time category. I actually think it's a stronger story for it.
2. How did you come up with these characters?
Scarlett was essentially the cutest, sexiest female character I could come up with. In my feeble, male brain, that meant the type of girl who would wander around in a tight cartoon t-shirt and a pair of panties, complete with socks for a little extra cuteness. I needed her young, of course, for the genre of the story, and innocently enamoured with the male character. But at the same time, she knows what she's doing.
The male character, as in all my stories, is loosely based on me, in a self-indulgent exercise in autobiographical fiction. What would/did I do in those situations and all that.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?
Apart from really being the first one? It was just an exercise to see if I could write erotica, specifically a sex scene. I made no attempt to develop a plot or characters, and instead went straight to the good bit. While I've received feedback that supports this, I've also been told that I built it up nicely, and slowly, so I don't really know anymore. But I do try and set the scene a lot more with my other stories, even if just relying on an existing relationship.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?
Breathing. Seriously, I was holding my breath as I wrote the rude bits. And I hadn't told my wife what I was doing at the time, so she was wondering why I was sitting at the computer all red faced for hours on end. Then again, probably not. Am I right, ladies?
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?
Not really, other than I hope people enjoy it. And if you do read it, please let me know what you think.
Thanks
Genre/Category: First Time
Provide the link: www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/sleeping-over.aspx
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?
This was actually my first short story, and my first ever erotica story. I had been a long time reader on another site, and with a lifelong dream of becoming a writer myself, I thought I'd give it a go. It was only ever meant to be a quick test to see if I was any good. To chase the biggest number of readers, and quite frankly because I wanted to, I originally posted it in the...*coughs* hamburger category. It took off like a rocket, with nearly 200,000 views over there and over 20,000 here. It completely blew my mind.
Following the recent changes to Lush, and my attachment to the piece, I just had to keep it. So I reworked it for the first time category. I actually think it's a stronger story for it.
2. How did you come up with these characters?
Scarlett was essentially the cutest, sexiest female character I could come up with. In my feeble, male brain, that meant the type of girl who would wander around in a tight cartoon t-shirt and a pair of panties, complete with socks for a little extra cuteness. I needed her young, of course, for the genre of the story, and innocently enamoured with the male character. But at the same time, she knows what she's doing.
The male character, as in all my stories, is loosely based on me, in a self-indulgent exercise in autobiographical fiction. What would/did I do in those situations and all that.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?
Apart from really being the first one? It was just an exercise to see if I could write erotica, specifically a sex scene. I made no attempt to develop a plot or characters, and instead went straight to the good bit. While I've received feedback that supports this, I've also been told that I built it up nicely, and slowly, so I don't really know anymore. But I do try and set the scene a lot more with my other stories, even if just relying on an existing relationship.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?
Breathing. Seriously, I was holding my breath as I wrote the rude bits. And I hadn't told my wife what I was doing at the time, so she was wondering why I was sitting at the computer all red faced for hours on end. Then again, probably not. Am I right, ladies?
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?
Not really, other than I hope people enjoy it. And if you do read it, please let me know what you think.
Thanks
Devil's Advocate
I managed to bang out about 250 words of that motherfuckin' werewolf story about a week ago, and I've since lied to my publisher that I'll break its back this weekend. So I suppose my immediate writing goal is to actually do that...
I do desperately want to finish because another publisher in the UK is calling for short erotica submissions featuring uniforms by mid July, and I want to get a few stories in for that.
And I want to rework another two of my stories for publication here. But they'll only take a couple of days each, so I'll probably do that while I'm procrastinating on the werewolf thing. Man, I've got a problem...
I do desperately want to finish because another publisher in the UK is calling for short erotica submissions featuring uniforms by mid July, and I want to get a few stories in for that.
And I want to rework another two of my stories for publication here. But they'll only take a couple of days each, so I'll probably do that while I'm procrastinating on the werewolf thing. Man, I've got a problem...
Devil's Advocate
My father bought himself an Omega Seamaster back in the '60s, which is a treasured family heirloom. The steel band's not really my style though.
I like a good quality dive watch, but a bit more dressy than chunky/sporty. Steel case, black face and definitely a black leather band, although the leather doesn't stand up long to the punishment I put them through, often sending me off for a replacement. I'm not a teenager anymore, so the plastic/rubber is a no go.
Form versus function I suppose.
I like a good quality dive watch, but a bit more dressy than chunky/sporty. Steel case, black face and definitely a black leather band, although the leather doesn't stand up long to the punishment I put them through, often sending me off for a replacement. I'm not a teenager anymore, so the plastic/rubber is a no go.
Form versus function I suppose.
Devil's Advocate
I'm going to put another vote in for mint chock chip.
You definitely need those little chunks that stick tighter to her skin when melted by her body heat. Because then you have to lick all the more to get them off. Love those stubborn little nooks and crannies.
As for the mint, a stronger flavour makes an exploratory journey to the rim all the sweeter. Hey, are we doin' this, or what?!
You definitely need those little chunks that stick tighter to her skin when melted by her body heat. Because then you have to lick all the more to get them off. Love those stubborn little nooks and crannies.
As for the mint, a stronger flavour makes an exploratory journey to the rim all the sweeter. Hey, are we doin' this, or what?!