As Rudi was part of our first threesome experience and a good friend, we stayed in touch over the years. Rudi was much younger than us and after we left South Africa, Rudi eventually got married. Although we never saw each other again, we E-mailed each other regularly or caught up on Facebook with the occasional phone call in between. During last year, Rudi’s marriage broke down, and he got divorced. His ex-wife initiated...