I completely get what Lafayette and Fenton are talking about. I can see why it would piss them off when women have that attitude. I have watched women dressed as they describe getting angry when guys keep looking.
Even open leering and staring is no reason to be upset. It just means that the guy has not learned the subtle way to take in the view. When I am wearing a particularly revealing top, I am usually wearing either just as revealing of a skirt or tight pants, too. I also, would like the rest of the package appreciated, as well, but I could understand if the guy is paying more attention to say the chest if he is a boob man.
Either way, it is stupid to dress provocatively then be upset when it works. So, don't get pissed off, guys. I would say the vast majority are quite pleased to have what they are showing appreciated.
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amber
Over 90 days ago
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I, too, will have to say doggy. Yet strangely enough, it is because of the exact reasons She has just said (well except the anal part.. don't want that).
There is a qualification tho... we would have to have wall to wall mirrors because, tho I can turn my head back occasionally, I will miss all the eye contact and being able to watch our bodies move together and all.
There is a qualification tho... we would have to have wall to wall mirrors because, tho I can turn my head back occasionally, I will miss all the eye contact and being able to watch our bodies move together and all.
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There is a lot of variables in your post and at least 2 questions.
a photoshoot with a professional acting professional and getting turned on by working towards hot pictures
the photographer not being an object of desire
getting as hot, kinky, and naughty as can
looking at own pictures and get turned on
Being an exhibitionist (that can only act on it when we are well away from home), I can say that I would most likely get very turned on during such a shoot especially the way it's being described.
As for being turned on by pictures of myself, that needs a little explanation. I would not be turned on by the pictures itself. What I will get turned on by, is what memories the picture can evoke.
For example, right now, if I saw a picture of myself blindfolded and tied to the bed naked, I would get extremely aroused remembering all that we did and how we spent this last Sunday.
I hope the difference makes sense.
a photoshoot with a professional acting professional and getting turned on by working towards hot pictures
the photographer not being an object of desire
getting as hot, kinky, and naughty as can
looking at own pictures and get turned on
Being an exhibitionist (that can only act on it when we are well away from home), I can say that I would most likely get very turned on during such a shoot especially the way it's being described.
As for being turned on by pictures of myself, that needs a little explanation. I would not be turned on by the pictures itself. What I will get turned on by, is what memories the picture can evoke.
For example, right now, if I saw a picture of myself blindfolded and tied to the bed naked, I would get extremely aroused remembering all that we did and how we spent this last Sunday.
I hope the difference makes sense.
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If you are willing to compromise and find what you want online and then pay for it thru the mail, then you will have a lot of options. Many places accomodate those without credit cards, for example, and take mailed checks and money orders.
My favorite store of all time is a place called Fairvilla Megastore in Florida. It's BIG--2 stories, well lit, great clerks, huge selections of everything and quite often, great sales especially near holidays. They have such an arrangement.
http://www.fairvilla.com/tours/orlando.html
another place would be
http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml
In fact, most places probably have this payment option.
If the catalog must be mailed out, too, then you are probably pretty out of luck.
My favorite store of all time is a place called Fairvilla Megastore in Florida. It's BIG--2 stories, well lit, great clerks, huge selections of everything and quite often, great sales especially near holidays. They have such an arrangement.
http://www.fairvilla.com/tours/orlando.html
another place would be
http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml
In fact, most places probably have this payment option.
If the catalog must be mailed out, too, then you are probably pretty out of luck.
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Sorry, I didn't see this before.
Adam & Eve has been around for like 20 years at least and have free mail order catalogs you can request either online or over the phone.
We have not bought anything from them but, I have a couple friends that have and I think I remember one saying that it's a little expensive but good quality.
http://www.adameve.com
hope this helps
Adam & Eve has been around for like 20 years at least and have free mail order catalogs you can request either online or over the phone.
We have not bought anything from them but, I have a couple friends that have and I think I remember one saying that it's a little expensive but good quality.
http://www.adameve.com
hope this helps
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We have 2 bathrooms so rarely are both in one at the same when one of us has to pee.
The few times we are, neither of us has any interest in watching the other use the toilet.
The rare times that we have to pee outdoors because we are too far between exits or stops and such like that, we don't watch each other. If anything, we are being a lookout for others.
With us, it's not a matter of letting the other watch. We just both don't have any desire at all to.
The few times we are, neither of us has any interest in watching the other use the toilet.
The rare times that we have to pee outdoors because we are too far between exits or stops and such like that, we don't watch each other. If anything, we are being a lookout for others.
With us, it's not a matter of letting the other watch. We just both don't have any desire at all to.
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Amber, please let us know how your experiment goes.
Well, it is a month late but, we finally got around to it yesterday.
I wrote the whole experience here with my first story.
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/straight-sex/a-sunday-without-football.aspx
I wrote it all out a few hours after it happened... after a nap and then making a meal.
For the first time it happened. I squirt.
It was the most incredible thing. It happened after a couple of hours of intense play that included floggers, paddles, ice, candles, vibrators and it was on the second orgasm.
I can say this. It felt EXACTLY like I was peeing. Well, wait. Not exact. It felt just like I was taking a pee but with it all coming out at once.
The liquid was not slippery at all so it was not my lubrication or cum. It might have a slight odor, but, it did not reek of urine or taste like it either. All the details are in the story.
I cannot say for sure exactly what it is but I have a theory.
I got to thinking about this because of how it felt almost exactly like peeing.
What if our bladder does not empty when we go to the bathroom? What if it is like a toilet where there is a bunch of liquid that "flushes" out the urine? And what if that is the liquid that comes out during squirting? That would explain why it feels so much just like peeing wouldn't it?
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I have no problem with my boyfriend wanting to try to go that long.
He has said that his orgasms are more intense the longer he delays it and I am willing to go along with it to help him achieve that.
I, too, do not want to get fucked for an hour. I would get way too sore. But, after 20, 25, minutes or so, and I have had some orgasms, if he wants to keep going, there is plenty I can do for him... get out some oil and use hands, mouth, mouth and hands, tits and mouth, etc.
If he is still holding out, it can become kind of a sexy game or contest. Him trying to last and me trying to get him to cum. I will start getting as raunchy and dirty as I can in the effort which we both really like.
When he does cum after all that, it is like an explosion and it is incredibly intense for him.
The usual outcome of this is that I am by now really hot, wet and ready again and he is going to need a bit of time to recover. That is when I can count on getting a good amount of oral, or tied up and played with and so on. When he is hard and ready again, neither of us wants to go very long by then. So, the action and orgasms are pretty fast and furious and we are completely finished.
I would say some of our funnest and best sex sessions occur when he decides he wants to last that long. So, I am way cool with it.
He has said that his orgasms are more intense the longer he delays it and I am willing to go along with it to help him achieve that.
I, too, do not want to get fucked for an hour. I would get way too sore. But, after 20, 25, minutes or so, and I have had some orgasms, if he wants to keep going, there is plenty I can do for him... get out some oil and use hands, mouth, mouth and hands, tits and mouth, etc.
If he is still holding out, it can become kind of a sexy game or contest. Him trying to last and me trying to get him to cum. I will start getting as raunchy and dirty as I can in the effort which we both really like.
When he does cum after all that, it is like an explosion and it is incredibly intense for him.
The usual outcome of this is that I am by now really hot, wet and ready again and he is going to need a bit of time to recover. That is when I can count on getting a good amount of oral, or tied up and played with and so on. When he is hard and ready again, neither of us wants to go very long by then. So, the action and orgasms are pretty fast and furious and we are completely finished.
I would say some of our funnest and best sex sessions occur when he decides he wants to last that long. So, I am way cool with it.
