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From what I have read in different posts from both men and women, there is a lot of guys pretending to be female on this site.
A couple things about this puzzles me.
First.. Why? What possible reason is there for this?
If he is pretending to be female and talking to women, what is he hoping to accomplish? Is there not more than enough women here that are willing to talk to guys without the pretense?
If he is talking to other guys (which must be happening from the posts from guys that I have read), it seems even stranger to me. What could he possibly be getting from that? If he is straight, why would he want to talk to another guy at all? If he is gay, then why pretend to be a woman and talk to straight men? It seems there are more than enough gay/bi men on the site to talk to. There is even a chatroom just for men.
And second... Over the weekend I talked to several here and at work. Some who have been going to internet chatrooms and such for as long as they have been around. Not one could recall a single incident of a female pretending to be male.
So, why then, as the title says, why is this a guy thing?
A couple things about this puzzles me.
First.. Why? What possible reason is there for this?
If he is pretending to be female and talking to women, what is he hoping to accomplish? Is there not more than enough women here that are willing to talk to guys without the pretense?
If he is talking to other guys (which must be happening from the posts from guys that I have read), it seems even stranger to me. What could he possibly be getting from that? If he is straight, why would he want to talk to another guy at all? If he is gay, then why pretend to be a woman and talk to straight men? It seems there are more than enough gay/bi men on the site to talk to. There is even a chatroom just for men.
And second... Over the weekend I talked to several here and at work. Some who have been going to internet chatrooms and such for as long as they have been around. Not one could recall a single incident of a female pretending to be male.
So, why then, as the title says, why is this a guy thing?
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Any intense touch or combination of.. such as a deep kiss, squeeze, spank etc with a sexy growl into my neck or ear, a promise of just wait til he gets home or something similar.
And then if just before he leaves, tells me no panties...
Whatever that day has ahead.. whether its school, school and work, and so on, I will be so damn hot and wet and horny all day in anticipation.
After a day of this, it is a given that when we both are home, the door may not even be fully closed til I am all over him and dinner is way delayed or delivered.
And then if just before he leaves, tells me no panties...
Whatever that day has ahead.. whether its school, school and work, and so on, I will be so damn hot and wet and horny all day in anticipation.
After a day of this, it is a given that when we both are home, the door may not even be fully closed til I am all over him and dinner is way delayed or delivered.
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The handle of an electric carving knife.
My mom and I were the only ones home and we were slicing leftover turkey for sandwiches for later when she went to the store for something.
I was slicing away and feeling the vibrations thru my hand and decided I had to try it out. I took it upstairs and had a lot of fun with it.
Thankfully, I finished and had it clean before mom came home.
My mom and I were the only ones home and we were slicing leftover turkey for sandwiches for later when she went to the store for something.
I was slicing away and feeling the vibrations thru my hand and decided I had to try it out. I took it upstairs and had a lot of fun with it.
Thankfully, I finished and had it clean before mom came home.
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I tried it for the first time a couple months ago.
I had a horrible headache that started during my next to last class of that day and it would not quit despite tylenol and ibuprofen.
There was no way I was going to be able to sit thru another 2 hour class so I went home.
Now, in spite of that silly "not tonight, I have a headache" cliche, I have found that a good orgasm is GREAT for getting rid of a headache... stuffed nose too, by the way. So, I got out a vibrator and tried, but, the pain just would not let me get there.
So, I called up my boyfriend at work and we had phone sex for the first time. It was great! He would be telling me what he would be doing to me if he was with me and I would do my best to do to myself the things he was saying.
It was very hot and I had an awesome orgasm and the headache was gone. And as a plus, since he was at work, he could not do anything for himself, so he was more than ready for some sex when he got home, which was great, too.
I had a horrible headache that started during my next to last class of that day and it would not quit despite tylenol and ibuprofen.
There was no way I was going to be able to sit thru another 2 hour class so I went home.
Now, in spite of that silly "not tonight, I have a headache" cliche, I have found that a good orgasm is GREAT for getting rid of a headache... stuffed nose too, by the way. So, I got out a vibrator and tried, but, the pain just would not let me get there.
So, I called up my boyfriend at work and we had phone sex for the first time. It was great! He would be telling me what he would be doing to me if he was with me and I would do my best to do to myself the things he was saying.
It was very hot and I had an awesome orgasm and the headache was gone. And as a plus, since he was at work, he could not do anything for himself, so he was more than ready for some sex when he got home, which was great, too.
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now that was just mean... subjecting us to that
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I know what you are saying, doll, and I agree. Paying more attention to the boobs, as I said, is understandable. Intense focusing and near drooling as well as the other actions you mentioned is creepy and immature,
When I said it would not upset me, I meant that my peace of mind and mood is not going to be ruined by some gawking stranger who has not learned how to be subtle.
I was directly addressing what Lafayette and Fenton had described. The responses they got for looking at what is blatently and provocatively displayed is uncalled for and is probably coming from an inexperienced immature girl and guys should not let her getting upset piss them off. I probably should have quoted them to make it clearer that it was to their experiences I was responding.
When I said it would not upset me, I meant that my peace of mind and mood is not going to be ruined by some gawking stranger who has not learned how to be subtle.
I was directly addressing what Lafayette and Fenton had described. The responses they got for looking at what is blatently and provocatively displayed is uncalled for and is probably coming from an inexperienced immature girl and guys should not let her getting upset piss them off. I probably should have quoted them to make it clearer that it was to their experiences I was responding.
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I really like giving a blow job. I can really get into it knowing the pleasure I am giving and it really bothered me that I could not deep throat because of my gagging.
Then I taught myself a technique that completely eliminated my gag reflex. It involved positioning my mouth just so and using a tongue lapping motion.
But, this works when I am controlling the actions. If I were to be "face fucked" in the manner mentioned, I would be throwing up all over and neither of us wants that.
The ass licking I will pass on too, since I don't want to do anything anal.
Then I taught myself a technique that completely eliminated my gag reflex. It involved positioning my mouth just so and using a tongue lapping motion.
But, this works when I am controlling the actions. If I were to be "face fucked" in the manner mentioned, I would be throwing up all over and neither of us wants that.
The ass licking I will pass on too, since I don't want to do anything anal.
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Like doll and mmonroe, I love what you described. Spanking, hair pulling, restraints.
I don't consider it a caveman holdover. That implies that we "should have moved on" by now or something. I crave a dominant commanding lover. These things are just some aspects of dominance that I would say most women enjoy based on not only my friends, but what I have seen in these forums as well.
The oral thing you are talking about is not something I would call a fixation. For me it's a way of getting more involved. I use my muscles and I move when we fuck, but, let's face it, the guy does the great majority of the "work" in most positions.
If my boyfriend is on top, and our upper bodies are close, I love biting his shoulder, nibbling his neck, kissing when I can, and so on. If I am on top, I will lean down often to do these things. I would not call it a need to have my mouth filled. It's just further contact with his body that I love.
If we are doing it doggy position, I don't find things to stuff in my mouth. I will talk dirty much more (not that I don't in other positions), be extremely explicit in voicing my pleasure and lust, but feel absolutely no hunger to have anything stuck in my mouth while fucking... well except maybe his cock to clean him up and get the last bit of him but that's when we are done.
I don't consider it a caveman holdover. That implies that we "should have moved on" by now or something. I crave a dominant commanding lover. These things are just some aspects of dominance that I would say most women enjoy based on not only my friends, but what I have seen in these forums as well.
The oral thing you are talking about is not something I would call a fixation. For me it's a way of getting more involved. I use my muscles and I move when we fuck, but, let's face it, the guy does the great majority of the "work" in most positions.
If my boyfriend is on top, and our upper bodies are close, I love biting his shoulder, nibbling his neck, kissing when I can, and so on. If I am on top, I will lean down often to do these things. I would not call it a need to have my mouth filled. It's just further contact with his body that I love.
If we are doing it doggy position, I don't find things to stuff in my mouth. I will talk dirty much more (not that I don't in other positions), be extremely explicit in voicing my pleasure and lust, but feel absolutely no hunger to have anything stuck in my mouth while fucking... well except maybe his cock to clean him up and get the last bit of him but that's when we are done.