I always pay. And never expect anything in return. If we connect and there are more dates I do like it when she may offer to pay - that shows class and she is not a taker.

If I am camming with a woman I bring the cam close and blow it on my desk so she can watch what she helped create. Else in a kleenex or wife's panties where I close it around my glans and blow into it and squeeze my fist at at the same time while continuing to jerk. The sudden wet heat of my cum and squeezing most closely mimics the feeling when a woman cums on my cock - wet hot friction.