Let me say that she has never used the 12" and only twice tried the 9" briefly. At no time have I ever tried to force her to do or participate in anything. I offer and sometimes she has participated. But I can tell when she is really into it and when she is not really into it. And I adjust my offerings. I am not into having her do things that she doesn't enjoy. But some exploration has occured and I understand more about what she likes, loves, hates, and is neutral with. After all of the exploration, I decided to see what others think. And I am finding out the general thoughts are that most men and women are not into many of these things. Especially the women. Not into it. And now I know. Some funny comments here though. lol.
Do any women like watching a penis erection grow? Or pumping? or inflating? Can we post images and videos?
I did some searching and could only find the occasional comment on erections. Or the usual thread about penis size preference for sex. I am married and don't really care about size preferences for sex, plenty of comments on that all over the internet. Though I do understand how the size can be good or bad, etc.
I can't stop men from commenting, but really want the women's comments due to my wife lack of interest. My wife loves my sex and size but she has zero interest in my fantasies outside of directly having sex or playing directly with my penis such as oral, etc. But she doesn't want to use a dildo. Only acceptable device for her is a vibrating magic wand and showerhead.
So I am wondering if that is extremely common and if so, I still want to know if there are any women that get turned on by some of the things I want to talk about below.
I will have to look at the rules closer to see what I can link, etc.
Overview: I am perfectly accepting of my body and penis size. I have purchased some huge dildo's as a way to play fantasy with her, but she has no interest. And when she let me use them on her, she seems to not enjoy it at all and can't seem to orgasim with them. As a guy, the feeling of my penis expanding is so amazing. And so my fantasies often revolve around that. I am also into huge boobs, but that is a different conversation. I am very straight and do not watch any male/male porn, but I do enjoy watching solo male or male/female where they show the erection process and a very large penis. I imagine that it is me. A way to role play. I really want my wife to see it with me as a role playing method, but she won't watch it. I have tried to explore just the ideas with her, but she just doesn't seem to be into any of it.
So the main overview is that I like to fantasize about my penis being/getting huge. Regardless of the intercourse aspect. And wonder if any women enjoy that as well. And the different methods below.
1. Natural erection. Do you like to watch it grow? Hands free? Handjobs? All of it? Seems so much porn skips the growing. Do you like hands-free cumming?
2. Pumping in a tube. I love the way it feels and watching it grow beyond it's natural size! This one video of pumping to fill a 9 inch tube is erotic to me. Watching it expand past each line with each pump is fun both with my own but especially a huge one that I imagine is my own.
3. Inflation with n2o gas. This is bizzare I know. But it is out there and some of them are fun to watch. I have also felt this and the feeling is amazing. But other than looking at it and the way it feels, it is worthless for playing with as it has no firmness to it like an actual balloon. But the scrotum and shaft grow fast and huge! It's an incredible feeling and amazing for mental fantasy! Though I have never seen it done with a 8+ inch penis. Scrotum saline inflation is more common but doesn't excite me personally.
4. realistic dildo or strapons. I bought a 9" and 12" realistic to play with the wife. I like to pretend it is mine. Put it in my pants, underwear, etc. And pretend. Then pull it out and try to be sexual with her using it, but doesn't interest her. I like to rub it like it was my own and put it in a tube and pretend I am filling a wide 9" tube. So forget the 12", she practically won't let me take it out of the box. Sadly the 12" one is distorted and doesn't look natural and the width is just insanely stupid. I wish it was more like the width of the 9 and long like the 12".
5. CGI/3D rendered. Some pretty amazing fantasy penis growth that is very realistically rendered. So there is a lot of creative expression here. And often showing the growing. Though mostly futa girls with a penis. The male-only fantasy renders are usually on the realitic side of 6 to 8 inches. Would like to see bigger on the male-only stuff. The amount of cum from renders is usually very high, which is fun to me since it makes me think of how it feels when I cum and so I wish I could cum way more too.
I have talked to my wife about these 5 things and none interest her. Not even to talk about and certainly not to experience. Though she has seem me pump my penis and even inflate my penis. But mostly because I am in the same bed, not because she wants me to do it. I am happy that she enjoys our sex life and I love to give and recieve oral. But I would love to share these fantasies with her and have her enjoy them.
Is that odd? Do any women enjoy any of these 5 things? I don't do the pump and inflation to myself often, but it feels really good. I do like to see videos of others doing it with as big a penis as possible because it works the fantasy for me.
