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black1
2 days ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · England
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Will you be doing it ?
If so will it be on the lips or cheek ?
If on the lips are you looking for something more?
I have to admit there are perhaps one or two ladies ( because I am married) I would want to avoid . I just know they will want to try for something more . I will be trying to present my cheek instead and I will have to see what happens.
Another option would to be go just like
If so will it be on the lips or cheek ?
If on the lips are you looking for something more?
I have to admit there are perhaps one or two ladies ( because I am married) I would want to avoid . I just know they will want to try for something more . I will be trying to present my cheek instead and I will have to see what happens.
Another option would to be go just like
I think some women can come across as being cocky or arrogant . This incident happened a couple of years ago. I was at a busy bar and coming back from the Gents . when this very attractive lady started chatting me up who was very cocky and also confident at the same time . I clocked her keeping tabs on me for some time after previous visits to the bar . In the end she did ask me out in a roundabout way and I politely declined as gently as I could as I am married and advised her so. As I was walking back to the party that I was with which included my wife! , she grabbed me around the waist and said something like your not going any where . At this moment after freeing myself from her clutches her friend whisked her away and apologised to me . It appears I am one of those rare people that have turned down such an attractive lady but her friend knew my reasons and understood them. I think this is a case of not taking rejection too well even though it wasn't really rejection more of being unavailable .
You could try and get out on date nights. Try and visit places that you went to in your early dating dates. It may just rekindle some memories and interest .A no no is to make any reference to your OHs weight . It worked in my relationship when we went through a sticky patch some 4 years ago. We found ways of taking an interest in each other ie falling in love again. I don't think you have anything to loose in trying it.
Good Luck
Good Luck
Its better done when one of the partners is blindfolded as it heightens senses. Ice is great to use on your partners body when its one of those roasting hot summers days . Don't apply ice straight out of the freezer as it can "burn" skin . Best placed in a jug first and use them . Special candles for wax play can be bought from sex shops or online versions . These melt at a far lower temperature than normal candles and therefore shouldn't burn the skin . Temperature play can be done along side food play and other sensory methods such as dragging a flogger gently over your partners body .
This is a thread I thought I would set up with the beginner in mind who wants to lose just a few pounds for a holiday/ special event or someone who wants to start a weight loss journey and just needs a little support and encouragement from others.
A little bit about my background. I started my weight loss journey around 6 years ago and reached my goal around 18months ago. My starting weight was 18st 7 pounds, which for a 5ft 10 and a bit guy ,was pretty big and now maintain my weight at around 12st 2 pounds .The reason why I started or needed to loose weight was for health reasons . I began getting pains in my chest and was out of breath just walking to the street corner from were I lived. The pains disappeared after shedding my first stone .
First of all perhaps a bit of controversy. From my experience and those of others on another forum , diets do not work . Unless of course you just want to shave a few pounds off for that holiday . For the rest its got to be a lifestyle change as regards diet . The reason for this is that after loosing some weight we tend to go back to our old eating habits and put the weight back on. That's why there are those who make a lot of money out of querky diets. The exceptions from the experience of other is Slimming World, Weight Watchers and the 5:2 diet. The first 2 because they hold support groups and the latter because the 2 days "fasting" can be made into normal days when the goal has been reached. For my journey I modified my diet . Out went pies,cakes,pizza,butter, sugar ,full fat dairy, chocolate ,pastries and bread. I replaced them with lower sugar or fat varieties and kept my total calorie intake to around 1300 calories , allowing a hundred extra calories for snacking on fruit etc.
When I was down to around 14 stone , I decided to workout from home and bought a WonderCore Smart machine. It worked wonders for my tummy area and it helped me to lose more weight and trim the over hanging tummy area .I still today use this machine and work out 5 days a week, using it. Instead of the over hanging belly I have now got "kissable Abs" ( that's how my Mrs describes them) . I have also introduced weights using a couple of dumbells . But no gym for me as its some distance away and I can get exercised, showered and dressed in around an hour .
So I am no expert so any answers or advice I will give will be based on my experience and welcome input from others as well .
A little bit about my background. I started my weight loss journey around 6 years ago and reached my goal around 18months ago. My starting weight was 18st 7 pounds, which for a 5ft 10 and a bit guy ,was pretty big and now maintain my weight at around 12st 2 pounds .The reason why I started or needed to loose weight was for health reasons . I began getting pains in my chest and was out of breath just walking to the street corner from were I lived. The pains disappeared after shedding my first stone .
First of all perhaps a bit of controversy. From my experience and those of others on another forum , diets do not work . Unless of course you just want to shave a few pounds off for that holiday . For the rest its got to be a lifestyle change as regards diet . The reason for this is that after loosing some weight we tend to go back to our old eating habits and put the weight back on. That's why there are those who make a lot of money out of querky diets. The exceptions from the experience of other is Slimming World, Weight Watchers and the 5:2 diet. The first 2 because they hold support groups and the latter because the 2 days "fasting" can be made into normal days when the goal has been reached. For my journey I modified my diet . Out went pies,cakes,pizza,butter, sugar ,full fat dairy, chocolate ,pastries and bread. I replaced them with lower sugar or fat varieties and kept my total calorie intake to around 1300 calories , allowing a hundred extra calories for snacking on fruit etc.
When I was down to around 14 stone , I decided to workout from home and bought a WonderCore Smart machine. It worked wonders for my tummy area and it helped me to lose more weight and trim the over hanging tummy area .I still today use this machine and work out 5 days a week, using it. Instead of the over hanging belly I have now got "kissable Abs" ( that's how my Mrs describes them) . I have also introduced weights using a couple of dumbells . But no gym for me as its some distance away and I can get exercised, showered and dressed in around an hour .
So I am no expert so any answers or advice I will give will be based on my experience and welcome input from others as well .
There is no easy answer here. If it was me I would be try and find out what the problem is as it could be a deep seated one due to something unsavoury happening in the past .If that is the case then some medical professional could help along with counselling .Also remember there is more to a relationship than just sex.