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black1
3 days ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · England

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I agree with both the above comments. Sometimes that special life long partner can come from an unusual source so just keep an open mind . It could be the person serving you at the supermarket for example. But yes you really need to get back out there and socialise with friends but no need to rush tings as you are still very young .
Its upto the wearer. Its whatever she feels more comfortable in . Both can be just as sexy .
From my point of view I like women in lingerie. The right type of lingerie can give the woman a lot of confidence . So its a win win .
In the UK anyway ,beards are very much in fashion. I guess the razor blade companies have been having a tough time of late as they are now marketing beard trimmers .The big question is, what is the definition of a beard or when is it still considered as stubble ?
I have one or two green shirts and look well worn with a brown blazer/sports jacket. Green is a big colour band ranging from sick green to racing green, with the darker greens looking nicer including the lingerie as shown in the above post.
Boxer briefs for me. I used to wear the old baggy style boxers before I lost ( planned ) a lot of weight and now look much better boxer briefs. It keeps her happy anyway.
I workout from home using weights and a Wonder Core Smart for my Abs. Because of this arrangement I can work out anytime I want . I normally work out in the very early evening before the evening meal listening to the news etc.
Whilst obvious priority should be given to your little boy. That doesn't mean mums social life has to come to an end. Just wondering if there are any grand parents in the background that can help out when push comes to shove? There are some single mums in our circle of friends and it is difficult but not impossible provided that you really want it to happen of course . As well as the grand parents is there an amicable arrangement with your ex to do his fare share of looking after the little one? The main thing if you can is to get yourself out there and perhaps consider online dating as well ? You will find that your not alone in your situation. Best of luck
You will probably have to try and find a potential partner who accepts you as you are ie an individual person. They are out there .
Think positive. Avoid any of the negative vibes as you don't need to see them . Like I said before ease yourself into it. It can be a lot of fun so don't regard it as a chore . Start socialising with friends first. Then when ready go for the chase , the eye contact across a room , that smile. You just cant beat it. Its all exciting stuff.
I agree with the ladies on here as I appear to posses one of those rears. I have had my rear pinched on more than one occasion at busy bars on a Saturday night. You can always tell who the culprit is as they try to put on a poker face for when I turn around.
Whilst divorce may be out of the question , I still think you should have a talk with your wife before even considering cheating. That way you can explain how you feel and find out how she feels about your relationship . Perhaps then you can both come to some amicable arrangement re possible separation or counselling to keep you together. Cheating IMO is not the way forward.
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I would wonder what does he/she see attractive in their ugly looking partner but it isn't my business. I'm sure people have wondered what my husband sees in me as I don't think I'm attractive at all. I know he is attractive.


You just sound like my Mrs ! That is exactly of how she feels. Possibly confidence issues with my Mrs .For some reason she always thinks/perceives that everyone else is better than her. I of course know that isn't the case and tell her so but then doesn't believe me !
My Mrs likes maxi dresses any time of the year . Its the only type of dress that she will wear without panties.
Since my 6 stone weightloss and started working out , I tend to wear slim fit clothes now . It does get me noticed by some ladies.
I would ease yourself into it . Don't rush things and end up with someone you really don't want to be with ie stick to your types . Things have changed a bit in 6 years such as more emphasis on Online dating so I would do a bit of background reading first to catch up on things.
As above really. Any punishments should be within your set boundaries of course. It is something best discussed between yourselves .
Communication is the cornerstone of al relationships. I think you need to ask him if there is a problem . It could be a number of things such as stress at work, coming home exhausted from work, external worries etc etc. .
Have a chat over a meal together at home . Once you know what the problem is you can focus together on fixing it .
You should respect, that its that persons choice to be with that person and may find happiness with that person. Perhaps you should have moved quicker .
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Might have been reading a few stories on here! ?


I agree the movie post does seem a little far fetched. But nothing wrong with having a fantasy and writing it out. We sometimes as a couple act our fantasies out in role plays.
It also depends on how the flogger is used as well. A flogger can be used to stoke and stimulate the body before sex. Also if used for hitting , it will depend on the type of flogger being used. Some are very light whilst some can rip skin .

But as the others have said make sure you know your safeword routine and don't put up with something that you feel uncomfortable in doing to please your partner . Communication is essential .

Good luck
I think it was over a month ago. I am going through one of those spells where I don't have an appetite for sex. We are still enjoying intimacy and cuddling etc. I am not bothered about it at the moment as I am sure my sex drive will return .
Quite a few people think I resemble Colin Firth . Not sure what to make of that !
I am only a moderate drinker anyway so alcohol for me would be the one to go.
Its seems to matter to my Mrs more than me. She is 5ft 11 and I am 5ft 10 and a bit ( the bits important to me! smile ). She is reluctant to wear heels when we go out as she doesn't want to tower over me. Its kind of something I have got used to over the years but not ideal.
My wife is an introvert and I am an extrovert , We have been together for nearly 30 years. The 2 tend to compliment each other .So I would go for it as IMO it works. If you want to get the other person ie the introvert talking to open up ,then don't used closed questions( yes and no types) , use questions starting with How, What, When, Why etc.
My Mrs is 6ft tall. so I guess I must like taller women
Unless its something she wanted to try, I would never consider it.