Quote by Buz
Pardon me. I thought this said have you had a threesome? I have, but I do not plan to anymore.

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Interesting - in the heat of things, anything goes for me OR I giggle.

There's only one word and one phrase that I can't hear because it's a flashback trigger to rather unpleasant events that I don't want to ever think about ESPECIALLY during sex. I suspect other women are the same, some words come with explicit memories that people just don't want to remember and when you're open - mentally - in a moment, it's harder to ignore and suppress things when they're stirred.

Like - during the day if I hear a particular word I might have a glimmer of a memory come up - but I just focus my thoughts and away it goes. During sex, though, I don't have the control over my thoughts like that. My mental barriers are down and I'm most vulnerable.

Aside that - I found my husband can say pretty much anything and it gets me going in all the right ways. It also has to do with his voice, and how he says it. I think certain guys master 'the sexual-tone' and others don't have a clue what I'm talking about here. My husband has this 'sex-only' tone that he uses, it's very effective. Actually, he can use that tone anytime and turn me on. In fact, just thinking about it . . .