Hi! I'm new here and basically joined this forum to ask this question. I'm what I guess you would call a bit of a late bloomer, sexually. I never had any interest until a year or so ago (I'm in my late twenties now) and I'm still not especially interested in fucking other people, but I would really like to be able to reliably bring myself to a really good orgasm.
I've tried a few different vibrators and can always make myself come with one of those, though sometimes it's better than others, but I don't think I've ever been able to do it with just my fingers. And I only just managed to penetrate myself with a dildo last week. I've been trying for like a year, but it hurt and I guess I'm a wimp. Anyway, I finally managed it and I've tried it a couple times since then and it's... interesting. It's not something I look forward to or crave and I find it a lot harder to come once I've done that?
I don't know. I'm a little embarrassed to talk about this because by my age most everyone has already had loads of sexual partners and knows what's what and I'm still trying to figure out how to please myself. Does anyone have any advice?