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Ever bailed on plans with friends 'in real life' to spend time with someone online (not necessarily Lush)?
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1 month ago
Bisexual Cis Male, 35
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Clumeleon
I feel conflicted now, because I've always thought that complete honesty is necessary in a relationship, especially if it's as serious as thinking about marriage. However, I get the impression that you're really sorry about what you did and may have done it before you realised how you really felt about the girl. If you tell her, it could jeopardise the relationship.
The only advice I can give is to imagine it was the other way around. Would you want her to tell you she'd done something with another guy? Would you be able to forgive her if you knew she was truly sorry and would never do it again?
The only advice I can give is to imagine it was the other way around. Would you want her to tell you she'd done something with another guy? Would you be able to forgive her if you knew she was truly sorry and would never do it again?
Clumeleon
I agree with NudeCamper, if you enjoy going down on her then you should keep doing it, rather than trying to play sexual politics.
Is it such a big deal if she doesn't blow you? I don't think it's a sign that she isn't into you, some women just don't like it. If the sex is good otherwise, then I wouldn't complain about it too much.
Is it such a big deal if she doesn't blow you? I don't think it's a sign that she isn't into you, some women just don't like it. If the sex is good otherwise, then I wouldn't complain about it too much.
Clumeleon
Quote by smexylucy
I've been with African, american, British, Irish, Scottish, Asian, half caste, the best sex was from the scot
Quote by firefighter333
Well lets see being that I was in the Army Stationed in Germany we will start there.
German
Russian
British
Irish
Scottish
French
Itialian
Czech
Austrian
Iraqi
American
African American
Latino
Indian (India)
Japanese
Chinese
Korean
Sorry to butt in. Scottish people ARE British, you shouldn't have them separately. I assume that when these people say 'British', they mean English.
I get picky about these things.
Clumeleon
At times, I get really annoyed by wholly unrealistic events occurring in stories, especially when most of the rest of the story seems completely plausible. I much prefer being able to believe that it could actually happen because it makes it that much more erotic.
However, people are free to express their wildest fantasies and often bizarre plot twists can surprise you and spice the story up all of a sudden. It really depends what your mood is when reading these stories. Luckily, Lush caters for everyone.
[I assume that we aren't including the Supernatural category in this discussion.]
However, people are free to express their wildest fantasies and often bizarre plot twists can surprise you and spice the story up all of a sudden. It really depends what your mood is when reading these stories. Luckily, Lush caters for everyone.
[I assume that we aren't including the Supernatural category in this discussion.]
Clumeleon
I used to really be into stories, but more recently I've been reading a lot of First Time stories. This is partly because I'm thinking of writing one myself, and also because I just love reading about the nerves and emotions involved with losing your virginity. I've read very good stories from nearly all categories, but a lot from and First Time.
Clumeleon
I suppose it depends on the context of the story. I like that the stories on here cover the whole scale, because sometimes I'm in the mood to just read about raw, passionate sex and don't really care too much about the back story, but other times I want to really get involved with the characters and see the development of the relationship.
Category can be important here as well. First Time stories are naturally very emotional, and this should be reflected in the writing, whereas some (not all) Quickie Sex stories don't need much details at all, just the graphics.
In general, I much prefer to read (and write) stories with real human emotions. Even if I can't relate to the sexual situation (which I usually can't), I can still understand the kind of things the characters are feeling.
Category can be important here as well. First Time stories are naturally very emotional, and this should be reflected in the writing, whereas some (not all) Quickie Sex stories don't need much details at all, just the graphics.
In general, I much prefer to read (and write) stories with real human emotions. Even if I can't relate to the sexual situation (which I usually can't), I can still understand the kind of things the characters are feeling.
Clumeleon
I would probably say the First Time stories are my favourite at the moment. This is possibly because I'm thinking about making a story of my first time for here in the near future. I do also love stories, even though it isn't something I can relate to in real life. I'll read anything, at the end of the day.
Clumeleon
It depends on the circumstances. Everyone can have moments of weakness (especially when alcohol is involved), no matter how strong their relationship is.
It is certainly a forgivable offense, but it could be an indication of bigger problems in the relationship.
However, I've always considered "cheating" to mean sexual intercourse, or a prolonged intimate relationship.
It is certainly a forgivable offense, but it could be an indication of bigger problems in the relationship.
However, I've always considered "cheating" to mean sexual intercourse, or a prolonged intimate relationship.
