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1 month ago
Bisexual Cis Male, 35
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Clumeleon
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It does nothing for me except make me bored as hell and awkward!
If this is the case, the people you are doing it with are rather bad at it. Better writers are better at cybersex, but they are rarely the ones so keen to do it.
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Also, with me having a bf I personally consider a little like cheating.
I agree.
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If your GF was cybering with other guys would you like it/ consider it to be cheating?
I would be extremely unhappy if I had a girlfriend who did this. I guess it's not as bad as if she were actually sleeping with someone else, but I wouldn't be happy about it and, if it continued, it would almost certainly spell the end of the relationship.
Clumeleon
I have three pairs. These are the ones I wear most often; they were a gift for my twenty-first birthday from my then girlfriend.
I reciprocated the gesture six months later by buying her a pair she designed herself on their website for her twenty-first.
I do love Converse. I get the feeling I'll be in here a lot.
I reciprocated the gesture six months later by buying her a pair she designed herself on their website for her twenty-first.
I do love Converse. I get the feeling I'll be in here a lot.
Clumeleon
I've just got a new phone (iPhone) and am looking for a writing app to use. On my old phone (HTC), I used Writer, which was okay but not ideal and I think I'd like to use something a bit less amateurish.
I could get Pages, which would be ideal for syncing up with my Macbook, but I'm less keen to shell out £6.99 for it.
The one I have my eye on is iA Writer, which has great reviews and is very cheap at 69p.
What say you, people of Lush? Does anyone have an app that they would really recommend? Are there any you would warn against?
I could get Pages, which would be ideal for syncing up with my Macbook, but I'm less keen to shell out £6.99 for it.
The one I have my eye on is iA Writer, which has great reviews and is very cheap at 69p.
What say you, people of Lush? Does anyone have an app that they would really recommend? Are there any you would warn against?
Clumeleon
The key to this, for me, is to know my characters really well. If I know intimate details of a character's life—even more than I would ever put down on the page—then I know what they would and wouldn't say, how they would react to certain situations, how they speak, etc.
To create natural, free-flowing dialogue, it has to come from real characters. Don't allow it to become mechanical, and don't use it just to break up the narrative. Use it to reveal aspects of the character, or the relationship between two or more characters. Use it to put the reader in the moment.
Make it realistic; make it meaningful. If you get stuck, think to yourself, "What would I say in that situation, and how would I say it?" and work from there, adapting to the character you have created.
To create natural, free-flowing dialogue, it has to come from real characters. Don't allow it to become mechanical, and don't use it just to break up the narrative. Use it to reveal aspects of the character, or the relationship between two or more characters. Use it to put the reader in the moment.
Make it realistic; make it meaningful. If you get stuck, think to yourself, "What would I say in that situation, and how would I say it?" and work from there, adapting to the character you have created.
Clumeleon
I want to quickly add that I disagree with everyone who says that no one would choose to be gay because of all the prejudice.
Maybe it's to do with where I live, but the gay people I know just do not come up against very much hate at all. The fact that they're gay rather than heterosexual doesn't have a significant impact on their daily life.
Also, there are TONS of people who are complete drama-seekers, and would happily decide to be gay just to get a rise out of certain people (often their families) and stir the pot.
And you guys have the best parades so...
Maybe it's to do with where I live, but the gay people I know just do not come up against very much hate at all. The fact that they're gay rather than heterosexual doesn't have a significant impact on their daily life.
Also, there are TONS of people who are complete drama-seekers, and would happily decide to be gay just to get a rise out of certain people (often their families) and stir the pot.
And you guys have the best parades so...
Clumeleon
I think a lot of things influence one's sexual orientation, but I've never been wholly convinced that genetics is one of them. Our sexual preferences are determined, in part, by our environment, our experiences in life and our interactions with other people.
I wrote a lot more but, in a forum environment, I run a high risk of unintentionally offending someone. That doesn't do the discussion any good so I'll leave it at that.
I wrote a lot more but, in a forum environment, I run a high risk of unintentionally offending someone. That doesn't do the discussion any good so I'll leave it at that.
Clumeleon
Moved to BDSM Lifestyle forum.
Should have been posted in this thread: http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst26227_All-Those-Seeking-a-MasterMistress-or-a-submissive-please-post-here.aspx
Should have been posted in this thread: http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst26227_All-Those-Seeking-a-MasterMistress-or-a-submissive-please-post-here.aspx
