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Clumeleon
Quote by Shylass
This makes me want to post in the Rage Cage, but I might be wrong.
"Dominate/dominant"
If you mean a person who is in control, they are a dominant person, and they dominate other people. They are not a dominate as a noun, it's a transitive verb (or something or other). They are a dominating dominant dominator who dominates. To be the "dominate" in a relationship isn't right! You would be the dominant (one) in the relationship. GRRRRR!
If I'm wrong, I will be so angry because it sounds so wrong to me! And now I've written so many variations of the damn word it ALL looks wrong!
I fixed it.
Clumeleon
Quote by principessa
Hey Clum -
Something to add to the list when you get back to your punctuation/grammar lessons: the gerund.
I have noticed a spate of that verb form used alone in sentences, which makes them sentence fragments, as there is no active verb anywhere further along in the sentence.
I am looking forward to the primer beginning again.
Will need to do some research on that but should be doable.
Need to get into some sort of routine and then I'll get back to doing these thread. This whole working nine 'til five thing is really throwing me off.
Clumeleon
Googled "clum".
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Clumeleon
Get a mate and alternate while the other "recovers". With that strategy, you could have a very long session.
I'm a bit unclear about what you mean. Do you want to have longer sex "sessions", from graze of the thigh to paying her cab fare, or do you want to be able to have intercourse for a longer period of time before you blow your load?
I believe, in either case, better physical fitness and general good health will help your stamina. Also, practice controlling your orgasms if/when you masturbate; train your cock. Kegel exercises are a good shout, too.
I'm a bit unclear about what you mean. Do you want to have longer sex "sessions", from graze of the thigh to paying her cab fare, or do you want to be able to have intercourse for a longer period of time before you blow your load?
I believe, in either case, better physical fitness and general good health will help your stamina. Also, practice controlling your orgasms if/when you masturbate; train your cock. Kegel exercises are a good shout, too.
Clumeleon
Hmm... I'm on the fence on this one. I do think it could potentially cause a host of new problems on the site but I am curious about what sad bastards are spending their time perusing my page.
Then I think about people being able to see that I have viewed their page. What will they make of that? Will they read too much into it?
I reckon it's inviting trouble but I shall mull some more.
Then I think about people being able to see that I have viewed their page. What will they make of that? Will they read too much into it?
I reckon it's inviting trouble but I shall mull some more.
Clumeleon
Quote by The_Young_Swell
Sometime in 1973, I was lucky enough to attend a performance of the legendary Toronto production of Godspell, which is still remembered as an early credit for a group of performers who went on to even greater success. That 1972-3 Toronto production of Godspell provided the first regular acting job for Victor Garber, Eugene Levy, Andrea Martin, Gilda Radner, Dave Thomas, and Martin Short. The musical director was Paul Shaffer.
Several members of this production left to form Second City in Chicago, while another group waited until the show's run in Toronto ended (488 performances, a Canadian record at the time) and then started the near-legendary SCTV series.
At the time, the audience was unaware that we had witnessed show business history in the making, but we did know we had seen a great performance.
Although "Day By Day" was the hit that came out of Godspell, "All For The Best" has always been my favorite from the show.
Anyone interested in learning more about the history of this production can look here.
Wow, thanks for all the great trivia.
All For The Best was such a fun song (although it gets ridiculously fast towards the end and hence very difficult, especially when you have a simultaneous dance routine). I still know every word by heart. I never really understood why Day By Day was such a big deal - it's nice but a little boring.
I miss doing musical theatre, I do.
Clumeleon
Something I think about myself quite a lot. I find it interesting that some authors come on here and stick predominantly to one category whereas others dabble in almost every category.
I haven't written all that much but they're fairly diverse. The whole point of The Ethan Blake Story is to have each story in a different category (with almost every category to be covered). I came up with that idea in order to challenge myself to write outside of my perceived comfort zone. I really need to get going with that series; I'm such a lazy writer these days.
Anyway, here's my tally:
Love Poems (4)
Oral Sex (2)
Mature (2)
First Time (2)
Straight Sex (1)
Gay Male (1)
Love Stories (1)
Masturbation (1)
I haven't written all that much but they're fairly diverse. The whole point of The Ethan Blake Story is to have each story in a different category (with almost every category to be covered). I came up with that idea in order to challenge myself to write outside of my perceived comfort zone. I really need to get going with that series; I'm such a lazy writer these days.
Anyway, here's my tally:
Love Poems (4)
Oral Sex (2)
Mature (2)
First Time (2)
Straight Sex (1)
Gay Male (1)
Love Stories (1)
Masturbation (1)
Clumeleon
From Site FAQs:
So you'll probably have to remove them as friends.
There are two options to block a member, either a soft block or a full block.
A soft block is where you block a member who is on your friends list, so that they remain your friend, but they cannot see you online and you do not get updates in your friends activity. To soft block a friend, go to your friends settings page and hover over their name and choose the Block option. Your friend will now appear in your friends list and your blocked list.
You can remove this soft block on a friend by hovering over their name in the blocked list and choose the Remove Block option. They will then become a full friend again.
To block a member fully, you need to firstly, remove them as a friend. Then you can choose the Block option available on the context menu when you hover over their name or you can enter their username on your friends settings page. Once a member is blocked, they cannot see you online or contact you in anyway. You can remove a blocked member from your settings page. Simple hover over their name and choose the Remove Block option.
So you'll probably have to remove them as friends.
Clumeleon
Quote by Mazza
As a matter of interest, if I felt that a piece merited a 3 or less, I would be more likely to send the author a private message, telling them what I thought and why, giving them the option to take what I had said on board, or not, but not 'wasting' their comments section with negativity. I have received and acted acted upon such comments myself and appreciated them very much...
Really? Where's the fun in that? I always leave my comments, good or bad, out in the open (I've left a negative comment on one of your stories, Maz). If the author wants to chase me up about it (although I'm usually quite thorough) then that's up to them and I am happy to give in-depth feedback if they ask for it. Some (most) authors here don't want that kind of help.
I'm never just mean but I can be brutally honest. Like you say, it's a public forum and if people didn't want my opinion then they shouldn't have bloody well asked for it. (I'm beginning to wonder if some of my 3s are revenge votes...)
Clumeleon
Honestly? I get pissed off! It doesn't last long but that is certainly my initial reaction.
One of my lowest scoring prose pieces is the one that has a ribbon attached. I know that's a good piece and clearly one or more Story Verifiers thought so at the time, too. Based on the general pattern of voting on this site, I cannot understand why it doesn't get straight 5s. I sound like a big-headed tool right now but fuck it, that's a bloody good story.
After a while, I let the anger induced by a 3 pass into melancholy reflection. Maybe that person is the only one who really knows what they're talking about and this story really is "Average". Maybe I'm not a decent writer like some would have me believe and maybe I just shouldn't bother writing anymore.
Then I get a grip. In the grand scheme of things, what the hell does it matter if my stories don't have the highest ratings or the most views? If I know a couple of people genuinely liked it then that should be enough for me. I write because I like to write and because I like to see how well I can do it. I know if I've written something good and if I've written something average. I see a lot of stories on this site that reassure me that I'm not a bad writer.
Interestingly, I found myself getting rather annoyed at the high scores one of my stories was receiving. From the moment I finished and submitted it, I was unhappy with it and said as much to some of my friends. I want to rewrite it because, in my view, it's sub-par. You can imagine my frustration when it starts racking up 5s. Firstly, it made me doubt my own judgement. Secondly, it made me lose a little bit of faith in the whole scoring system. My thoughts were, "This crap is scoring better than my EP?" So there are two sides of the coin, I guess.
One of my lowest scoring prose pieces is the one that has a ribbon attached. I know that's a good piece and clearly one or more Story Verifiers thought so at the time, too. Based on the general pattern of voting on this site, I cannot understand why it doesn't get straight 5s. I sound like a big-headed tool right now but fuck it, that's a bloody good story.
After a while, I let the anger induced by a 3 pass into melancholy reflection. Maybe that person is the only one who really knows what they're talking about and this story really is "Average". Maybe I'm not a decent writer like some would have me believe and maybe I just shouldn't bother writing anymore.
Then I get a grip. In the grand scheme of things, what the hell does it matter if my stories don't have the highest ratings or the most views? If I know a couple of people genuinely liked it then that should be enough for me. I write because I like to write and because I like to see how well I can do it. I know if I've written something good and if I've written something average. I see a lot of stories on this site that reassure me that I'm not a bad writer.
Interestingly, I found myself getting rather annoyed at the high scores one of my stories was receiving. From the moment I finished and submitted it, I was unhappy with it and said as much to some of my friends. I want to rewrite it because, in my view, it's sub-par. You can imagine my frustration when it starts racking up 5s. Firstly, it made me doubt my own judgement. Secondly, it made me lose a little bit of faith in the whole scoring system. My thoughts were, "This crap is scoring better than my EP?" So there are two sides of the coin, I guess.
Clumeleon
Stop being such a mopey, self-centred twat and get a grip of yourself.
Your life does not suck; some people have it a hell of a lot worse than you. And you dare to feel sorry for yourself? Fuck off.
Other people don't need to know that you're pathetic. She doesn't need to know. What good do you think offloading your make-believe problems onto someone who already has enough of their own shit to deal with will do? Dickhead.
Just get on with it, yeah? You don't have problems, you only think you have problems. The sad thing is, you know how to fix them but you're to busy being sad and crying. I know you're scared but I'm afraid you're just going to have to man up until Wednesday because no one can do anything for you until then.
If you fuck this up then you will be the biggest idiot on the planet. Get some fucking perspective and stop thinking of yourself all the time.
Your life does not suck; some people have it a hell of a lot worse than you. And you dare to feel sorry for yourself? Fuck off.
Other people don't need to know that you're pathetic. She doesn't need to know. What good do you think offloading your make-believe problems onto someone who already has enough of their own shit to deal with will do? Dickhead.
Just get on with it, yeah? You don't have problems, you only think you have problems. The sad thing is, you know how to fix them but you're to busy being sad and crying. I know you're scared but I'm afraid you're just going to have to man up until Wednesday because no one can do anything for you until then.
If you fuck this up then you will be the biggest idiot on the planet. Get some fucking perspective and stop thinking of yourself all the time.