I hate myself* for falling into this oneitis/regret ridden trap <_<
Back in early June, I met this girl and I knew her boyfriend pretty good. I added both of them on facebook. A week later, it was prom, I didn't go since I didn't want to go my junior year. I posted as my status "how was prom," she responded. From there on she responded or liked pretty much all my statuses, even my stupid or lulzy ones. I started doing the same, but not as much. Her boyfriend broke up with her and I didn't really know until she got another boyfriend (an old friend of hers).
Now (as in the past week) after I talked to her in person for a while at an event, I started to develop some urge to go out with her, because she is a good personality/interest match. I can't because she is taken. So I feel regret for not doing anything when I could of and starting to get oneitis after being completely disinterested in dating (or girls, not in a gay way) for 3 months <_<
*figuratively
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Quote by chefkathleen
Sounds like you're just lazy. Don't sweat it. When you get tired of Rosey you'll seek out the real thing.
Only time I've ever felt that was was when I was ill or mourning. Otherwise, healthy(active) libido.
I could be lazy, but that doesn't explain the other part. I don't see the point in relationships since they are (to me) just good friends with sex, I can't see them in any different way and don't think they are worth pursuing.
Quote by roccotool
Then if you don't want to spend the time and effort to get laid, and you have a low sex drive, what's the problem?
I was asking if anyone else felt this way.
Also, its not just sex. Its the whole dating/flirting/girlfriend fiasco. In my head I think it would be nice, but I just don't feel I want it enough; not sure how to explain it. I think my libido is pretty high, I masturbate most days, I get horny, just like every other guy my age, but I just take it any further.
I just realized I don't really have a strong sex drive (although I do work out consistently). Well it never really went anywhere to begin with. I haven't done anything, ever. Such as actively flirt, ask someone out, hold hands, kiss, ect. Its not that I don't want to do any of those things, its just that I see no point to it (maybe because I've never experienced them).
I really just don't have the motivation to go out there and at least try. I got to this conclusion after deciding if I should go to prom or not. If I went I'd have to get a date, go to an after party, and get laid (or at least thats the tradition). At first I thought it wasn't such a bad idea since I could easily get it done, but then I thought to myself, I don't really have to do this. Its not just the whole "prom" thing, its the spending time/effort to get laid or whatever.
I do get horny, have urges, ect, but I don't think they have been able to "overwhelm" me enough to get me out there. I'm also 18, one of the most horny years according to older friends.
I really just don't have the motivation to go out there and at least try. I got to this conclusion after deciding if I should go to prom or not. If I went I'd have to get a date, go to an after party, and get laid (or at least thats the tradition). At first I thought it wasn't such a bad idea since I could easily get it done, but then I thought to myself, I don't really have to do this. Its not just the whole "prom" thing, its the spending time/effort to get laid or whatever.
I do get horny, have urges, ect, but I don't think they have been able to "overwhelm" me enough to get me out there. I'm also 18, one of the most horny years according to older friends.