I was never one for jump in the sack but it happens. After my divorce 5 years ago, I found that the dating world had changed and it was hard to find men that actually wanted to date. Most I met preferred dinner and the sack. Some didn't even offer dinner but offered a treat in the car (insert ugh).
My boyfriend and I jumped in after the second date but he still takes me out and treats me like a lady. A rare find.
