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Just live your life, and be happy.
That is the bisexual's paradox, their Gordian Knot!
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Quote by Warrior_Ink
I've been having some problems like this very recently. I've been crushing on a girl who only knows me as a gay man. I've got all of those usual anxieties about crushing on someone who might not feel the same way... Long story short, she's been a friend for a very long time and I don't want to lose that for the sake of a relationship that probably won't work... blah blah blah, my problem.
I still have to out myself as a bisexual man to her. It's never been very important to me that people know, but I really hate being misunderstood. When I outed myself as a gay man, it was because I really thought that that's what I was. Now... I have to do it again. Shit.
I know how to take it slow when it comes to my own feelings, but I find it difficult to act on them because I hate being misunderstood so much. I don't know where that puts me in relation to your article... but I've often felt perfectly comfortable liking who I like.
I understand what you mean. When you come out as gay you feel that there's no going back! It's a BIG thing mentally to come out as being gay and it's so easy to stay that way.
I think a lot of gay guys are like you. Bisexual, but nearer the gay side. My friend is the same but has always kept his bi side open.
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I'd plump for a more level playing field. I didn't masturbate very much when I was young. From my early 20's until about 10 years ago I rarely masturbated, sex was always the prefered option. It's only the last 10 to 12 years that it's become prolific.
I'd say 40/45% sex to 55/60% masturbation.
I'd say 40/45% sex to 55/60% masturbation.
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Quote by Alaska1969
Yes, 3 times a day usually. once in the morning in the shower than in the shower at the gym and than when I get home from work or right before bed
At the gym! I've got to join that one, lol.
I didn't on Sunday, that was the first day in a long time. Usually at least 3 times a day, often more! Trying to wear the thing out but it keeps coming back for more!
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I find the whole idea of cyber relationships very strange. I undestand that close friendships can develop and even a type of attraction. The problem for me is the lack of physicality.
I want to be able to hold someone not just look at a screen. I don't get attached easily but there is one person who's getting close. I won't , at least not until we'd actually met. Then maybe.
I'm not knobking it, it's just not for me.
I want to be able to hold someone not just look at a screen. I don't get attached easily but there is one person who's getting close. I won't , at least not until we'd actually met. Then maybe.
I'm not knobking it, it's just not for me.
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Quote by Alexa8497
We've talked about an open marriage...it's out of the question. As I mention earlier, he is not into anything in the bedroom but feeding. Not costumes, roleplays, toys etc.
My advice, for what it's worth, pack your bags and get a good lawyer.
If he wants an obese woman, give him the freedom to find one. You are clearly not what he wants.
Sorry to be blunt but you deserve better.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
Hmm, thanks but no thanks, I'll pass on that one.
I'm not that big of a panties-lover in the first place, plus the girls that I find attractive and/or appropriate are a very thin minority here on Lush.
If you want though, I can pay a fine to keep all those dirty panties locked in a secure safebox, so that they'll never ever see the broad daylight again.
Eeeww! I agree.
On the other hand, one of your jocks after a sweaty workout in the gym, maybe.
Juuuust maybe!
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Quote by TheHighlander
I'm comletely straight and haven't ever done it but I am curious what it would be like
You have instantaneously become every gay man's dream. A straight guy that wants to try sucking cock. If you let them suck you off as well, wow!
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