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dpw
Over 90 days ago
Gay Male, 72
United Kingdom
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Quote by tezzes10
hello,, just a request from other members to suggest to me what are your best and most trusted aphrodisiacs. in other words what works for you.
Don't you have oyster bed near to you? They don't work for me!
Porn can be a good aphrodisiac and the only others that I know that work are illegal party drugs.
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Quote by lacr0236
Long story made short... the wife and I had a mmf. Before hand the ground rules were set up that I had to be present/aware if at any time after they were going get together. And I was to be told of any messages, texts, or calls. I later find out my wife has deleted many texts and set up a rendezvous with him while I was out of town. "She forgot to delete a message to one of her girlfriends" she said that the talked about doing it but didn't. And says that they never did it when I wasn't there... how can I believe her. It has been 2 years now and I still don't completely trust her... Can I really ever trust her again? She says that she is different now and will never risk "us" again, but is still friends with him even though I wanted her to break all contact when I found out. Am I asking to be hurt again?
My view is no you can never trust a person who has cheated. It doesn't mean that they will cheat again but the possibility is always there.
I think your case shows the dangers of bringing a third person into a relationship. I'm curious to know if you already knew the guy and who suggested the 3some.
As for asking to get hurt again, that depends on how likely it is that she might cheat again. Only you can answer that one.
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
It is even worse in real life to have it happen. I have only had one bad experience in which I was the top and the guy just wasn't really into being a bottom. He just lay there.
I kept thinking to myself if you can't act like you enjoy it at least act like your in pain....I would get a brief rush of thinking my dick was big enough to hurt a little bit.
Yeah I've had more than one unfortunately but one was really the worst, he was silent as well. I stopped and asked aren't you enjoying this? He said yes it's great, I said well I'm fucking not, got dressed and left.
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Quote by nicola
Nice review Gav!
Pray, can someone tell me, who on earth would buy an inflatable duck to stick their penis into? Inflatable anything relating to sex toys, always gives me the giggles, I can't believe anyone would want to hump something you have to blow up.
They're specially designed for England batsmen, they know all there is to know about ducks!
Oh, bad luck!!! 
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Quote by greysgirl87
Alright boys what does it mean when you guys say "let's take a break for a while." How can you take a break from someone you're dating? It's either you're together or break up,right? No in between. Utterly confused and does break mean no communication?
There could be more than one reason and none of them are good!
1. He wants to finish but doesn't want to hurt you. He doesn't realize that it's worse doing this!
2. He's getting too involved, he's new to this feeling and it scares him.
3. He thinks your too possessive and he's getting annoyed.
4. He's found somebody else but wants you as a fall back in case it doesn't work out.
More guys will add to these reasons.
My guess it's 1 or 4.
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Quote by Meggsy
It depends - in the past if I wasnt sure about the guy - I insisted on condoms.
I attended a couple of swingers parties condoms were compulsory.
For me they made no difference except for peace of mind and sti prevention.
Now I have regular parteners as FWB - never.
I dont do anal but if I did I would insist on a condom.
I'd love to meet your three friends.u51R6HKlIWYV4z4z
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Quote by thor12300
You're 72% kinky!
You kinkscore is pretty high. Most likely you're up for trying anything at least once, which show open-mindedness. You're probably a great lay, so just keep doing that thing you do!
Not bad as far as im concerned. lol
Don't try water sports, it's wet enough down there, lol.
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Quote by seeker4
Was he responding to the scenario in the OP or just the question in the subject line?
I would have anonymous sex in the right circumstances.
I would not take advantage of someone who was basically a prisoner as described in the original post unless it was clear that they had consented to be treated like that (and probably not even then).
I'm taking it as with consent, otherwise it's ! I've been to clubs where guys queue to be tied into a sling or a stocks.
The Eagle Bar in Amsterdam even had a Catherine Wheel!
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Quote by seeker4
I'm rather with dpw. Sex in the car sounds great to me but I have never done it. But getting sucked off in a moving car while I'm driving? Not so enthusiastic.
Pull over somewhere if you need it that badly. There's enough shit driving on the roads (at least around here) without adding another distraction on top of phoning, texting, fixing your hair, drinking your coffee, etc.
After you pick me up at the airport can we park up somewhere quiet!
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Quote by mickitv
I try to be as safe as possible. I always use and demand a condom when I have anal sex. Oral sex is another issue - I have sucked someone with and without a condom. Their choice but without is so much better but the flavor condoms are not bad - Mint Chocolate Chip is my favorite. lol
Love the flavour choice.
Has nobody thought about cum flavoured condoms? I'm sure they'd be a good seller!
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Quote by seeker4
Is that your confession?
Because if it is, then I have to confess that I would love to have you watching. In the nude, of course.
Question is, would the housework ever get finished?
My life is one long confession, some parts worse than others! Who I've been with, who I've turned down and what I've got up to!
Looking back some things even shock me!