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Aren't you from Liverpool?
Kettle, pot...
They have to teach us how to stop talking.
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Quote by Alexa8497
My husband and I have a great emotional relationship but when it comes to sex, it really falls short. We've been married for three years and we're both mid to late 20's.
We have sex once every three months, if lucky and it's been this way for 2.5 years. I've tried everything a can think of but it seems that he doesn't really like anything (including lingerie, costumes, role plays, sex anywhere but the bedroom, oral sex, toys).
I haven't let myself go, I still go to the trouble of trying to look and feel sexy every day.
He works from home so at times he might not shower for days and he will only brush his teeth if I mention it. Most nights I go to bed on my own. I know he's not depressed cos we've talked about this several times, it seems to have become a cycle.
It's getting pretty difficult keeping it together. I would never cheat on him but it's kind of hard to ignore my sexual needs...when a sexy guy walks by my hormones go crazy.
Any ideas?
Well the answer is that it's not normal, in fact just the opposite.
What was he like before you married?
Has he always worked from home?
If he's become a slob, you have to get him to get out more. Even just nights out with his mates, they'll soon mention it to him.
As far as his sex drive goes, has it always been low and is it getting worse?
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Quote by anonymous1526
i do not clean my ass for no one, it isn't healthy to do that, when using enemas etc i do believe they cause more harm than good, it is natural for your body to move faeces by itself, it shouldn't need water etc messing it's routine up.
Actually it's the opposite. There's less chance of bowel infections. It's what the body wants to expel, so you're keeping the drains clear.
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Quote by daddysweetheart
I didn't think you thought the ladies or women were whores here.
I wasn't offended.
I probably offend all at some point.
As usual I'm probably hated for telling the truth and I don't know.
It doesn't offend me, I don't think prostitution is glamorous but very rough.
I had a friend who paid her bills, bought whatever because she did that for guys.
I haven't seen her since the mid 90's, so no clue how she is today. Or if she's alive...
I never looked down at her. I never would....
I once had a flatmate who was an "escort" aka rentboy. He charged I gave it away, who was the mug?
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
I love to add ass play whether fingers or with a toy. I have used a flesh light a few times, but just prefer the good old fashion hand to cock combat.
As others have said with an individual in the room does make it even hotter sometimes too.
I can't imagine you've ever been short of volunteers to watch you play with that ass of yours', but if ever ....
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Quote by Naughtygrl73
No, never.
What I give of myself is always given freely, that's not to say that I haven't made my lovers work just a little bit. I'm not easy
This thread reminds me of George Bernard Shaw when he asked a society lady if she'd sleep with him for £1.000,000 and she said yes.
He asked if she'd sleep with him for £1 and she said, no, what do you thnk I am?
He replied we've already established what you are and now we're just negotiating a price! Lol.
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Quote by thor12300
I must agree with the first post on here although with one difference my recovery rate is not that quick about 15 to 30 minutes depending on the length of the first session.
It gets longer as you get older, it's like the reaction time in a 4 x 100 relay!
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Quote by seeker4
My wife lacks an imagination, at least one for this kind of thing, so I've never done it.
Personally, though, it's something I wouldn't mind trying at least once. The idea of basically acting out a story rather than just having sex in character would be fun. Not sure I'd go with medieval fantasy, though. I'd like to do Captain Kirk seducing the alien queen (yes, body paint might be involved for the woman's costume) he's supposed to be saving or maybe a Bond-ish modern spy scenario.
If you fancy Star Wars I've a nice light sabre to play with!
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Quote by Icarus32
I've always assumed this is one of the departments where fellows with smaller gear would excel.
No no no no!
The undercarriage isn't important, it's how you prepare for landing!
If you fail to prepare then prepare to fail!
Anal isn't like anything else, it's the camel going through the eye of the needle. Prepare well and it's like Moses parting the Red Sea. You're home and hosed!