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Why would you say that is?
Not everyone likes it being done to them. It does nothing for me but I love rimming guys. If he wants to do it to me then ok but it does nothing for me.
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Course correction... I was not specifically (or only) talking about "selfies". I am talking ANY unsolicited porn from other members that you have not even talked to. It seems folks are focusing on "selfie" pictures and that was not the only "porn" I was talking about.
But thank you all for your posts!
With all the fake profiles I doubt if the pics are selfies.
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Course correction... I was not specifically (or only) talking about "selfies". I am talking ANY unsolicited porn from other members that you have not even talked to. It seems folks are focusing on "selfie" pictures and that was not the only "porn" I was talking about.
But thank you all for your posts!
With all the fake profiles I doubt if the pics are selfies.
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Quote by JohnC
Do you think just because you are a member of LUSH that it is "expected" that random people will send you sexually explicit pictures in PMs? Do you think that is appropriate or even "to be expected"?
Me? I think it shows complete lack of class and common sense. I think if you send people porn in a PM that you have not even talked to it shows that you are a complete jackass and don't respect others. I think this is even more so if their profile states CLEARLY that they are not interested in that type of thing and they are in a committed relationship.
What are YOUR thoughts on the matter?
Well I sat open mouthed when I read this, I was stunned. I had no idea that this went on and by the look of the replies it's not an isolated case.
So what would I do if it happened to me? I'd probably laugh and I'd wonder why they did it. However, I'm single and I've seen more than my share of genitalia in real life that a picture isn't going to impress me.
Why anybody would do it to a stranger is beyond me! It really doesn't make sense even an exhibitionist wants appreciation!
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Quote by myotherworld
My man like to receive blow jobs. I like giving them to him. The problem is he finishes quickly. Before he can start even getting me close. He says blowing gets him hard and ready. Except most of the time it gets him hard and then done. I try and encourage him to play first. We just had sex, he did anyway
So I can go WEEKS without him giving me any relief. Tell me what can do to help him understand I need release also.
A couple of suggestions that might help.
He could try a cockring or strap.
You should practice edging him, switch to licking his balls when he gets close and alternate between the two. This will take some time to get your timings spot on but when you get it right you'll both love it.
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Quote by cordite74
We're just going to disagree on this one. As I said, fantasy and reality are two entirely different things. Porn is fantasy. Anyone that can't make the distinction is the problem -- not the porn. Anyone that can only mimic what they see is the problem. Anyone deciding to overlook the related health concerns is making the decision to do so. People, not things, are ultimately responsible for their own actions. Young people of any gender and sexual orientation have to learn to deal with a world full of all sorts of influences. Hiding the influences is not a solution. It's a band-aid for one of the symptoms.
I don't understand the eastern European and established actors comment. If you think bareback porn is a bad example then the country and the actors shouldn't matter.
My problem with your post is that you seem to think that everyone, including a young kid, is as intelligent as you so obviously are! Well I know that there a lot that aren't and I also know that there are a lot of guys that will take advantage of that.
I use the example of Eastern Europeans as they were the ones that were easily lured by the thought of easy money in countries that were quite poor. Now it seems that more and more youngsters in the US and Western Europe are willing to perform bareback. Reported cases of HIV are on the increase in both areas, I for one think there's a connection and I'm not alone.
I came through the worst time, more by luck than good judgement. The same can't be said about a lot of others, including a number of my friends.
So yes I won't be changing my opinion on the matter, if you'd seen a few of your friends die of AIDS you might think differently.
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Quote by Musigal
Personally myself, I do check profiles before I chat. If it's a blank profile, then I don't answer back. Unless of course they're new to lush.
Don't you find that a lot of people delete their account and sign up again the next time just to go in the chat rooms?
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Quote by doctorlove
I have never been with a red, how would I know if I have been with a virgin? Chubby, fat, or plump is one persons opinion and the pregnant thing is TMI.
If you don't know if you have been with a virgin then you haven't.
To the op
1. Yes great sex
2. Yes careful sex
3. No no sex.
4. Yes disastrous sex
Do they really still say "chicks" in New Zealand?
Hope you have fun in the forums.
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Quote by gloryhole31
We're getting to be sexually hypocritical these days.
More women are doing more women without guilt or shame. But when men do other men there is a lot of judgment and shame.
Yes some bisexuals are gay , but not all. Maybe 50%. I sure see a lot of wedding rings through those glory holes.
Are you confusing wedding rings with cock rings?
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Quote by gloryhole31
My earliest experiences were with uncut cocks so I am biased. But I just love the way that foreskin moves back and forth. Great for hand jobs. But yes, there can be a lot of funk under that skin so that is a negative.
Hey! No funk in my junk. Gay skinnies tend to take a lot of care about that.
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Quote by WellMadeMale
Sounds like a rude thing to say to anyone you might be dating...let alone your steady girlfriend or boyfriend. If such was ever said to me, I might have reservations continuing the relationship...after all I'd hate to cramp the bitch's style.
Now I'd disagree with you there. It means that they're interested or in love with you as a person, more than what you look like.
My "type" is Latin or Med looking yet the only person I was in love with was blue-eyed, blond haired and Dutch. I really think that when you only go for your "type" it's superficial to an extent, when you go against "type" it's often more meaningful.
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There's no easy, or indeed universal, answer to this. For each post somebody will be able to give an example that's the opposite, so I can only state my own opinion through my experiences.
I have never had a bad break up and still care about exes but I've only been "in love" once. I've loved others but wasn't in love with them but my feelings for them now are the same as for friends that I've lost touch with.
The person I was in love with, about 30 yrs ago, I still love to this day. It's rare that a day goes by that I don't think about him at least once. There's a line in a song that I believe is true "no-one else can have the part of me I gave to you". When it happens you find a way to get through but you never forget.
I have never had a bad break up and still care about exes but I've only been "in love" once. I've loved others but wasn't in love with them but my feelings for them now are the same as for friends that I've lost touch with.
The person I was in love with, about 30 yrs ago, I still love to this day. It's rare that a day goes by that I don't think about him at least once. There's a line in a song that I believe is true "no-one else can have the part of me I gave to you". When it happens you find a way to get through but you never forget.
