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Quote by Liger6969
I do not mind the gap in between parts. It keeps your mind thinking and excited. Kind of like a movie trilogy. You know that another one is coming at waiting makes it better.

On the other hand a movie can stand alone.
Take this example.
A husband and his sister in law are making out and things are just starting to get steamy when his wife walks in! Then there's a 3 to 6 month wait to find out what happened. Would you lose interest?
Quote by Willtryanythingonc3
I enjoy it. I get a hard on watching it and do fantasise being part of it

Watching it? In real life or on film?
The fantasy is rarely as good as the reality but the reality is often more satisfying. If you want to make the fantasy a reality then choose carefully, try and find somebody that knows what they're doing. It's important that the first time is all about you and your pleasure.
Quote by ambidentrous


What you can't see is that it took three years to write the content I've posted here in the last month. I owe my readers another two chapters at least in one of my series and I'm afraid they're going to have to wait a while. Readers are free, of course, to comment on how the writing itself affects them, what they love or hate about my stories, and I welcome that kind of input. Criticism about the release times... not so much.

I post chapters (episodes, really) as I write them because, frankly, it's fun and I need some affirmation both to know that I'm on the right track and to know that anyone cares. You say that you won't post until you're finished, and that's fine too. I hope that readers love your story and make it worth your long wait.

I get that sinking feeling that I won't finish it and it'll all be a waste of time. That's why I'm thinking of doing some short one off stories. I can well imagine it took that long, I've been at mine for 3 months and it's only the first part. I've not even got to any nudity yet!
Quote by simarkanpur
Well i don't know if this is medically possible,but girls if it is was possible my question is.......suppose you are making out with a guy and the moment when u reach for his cock see he doesn't have a cock but there is a pussy...what would be your reaction???

Oh it's possible! Buck Angel is a trans male and famous porn star.
There's also the Mangina Man, great name!
Quote by Hardallnight
I'd have her back to my place quicker than she could imagine! Mmmm.....

You'd have to be prepared for anything!
Quote by simarkanpur
what will be your reaction if u were making out with a girl and suddenly u feel her cock(plus u didn't originally know she had a cock)

I find it strange that it's always this way round. I wonder what a girl would say if she was making out with a "guy" then discovered that "he" had a pussy?
Quote by ambidentrous
When people complain about long waits between chapters or stories I check their profiles to see if they are authors themselves. The right to complain about story frequency is earned by contributing stories to the community.
My hunch is that once a writer goes through the 10-15 hour process of actually writing a story and posting it, that writer will be much less keen to criticize anyone else's pace.

That is the most ludicrous thing that's been posted in this thread! That's like saying only authors should comment on other stories! You aim your work at readers not other authors ergo you give them the right to comment and give their opinion. You on the other hand, who's posted 5 chapters this month, have the right to ignore those comments and opinions.
Quote by megagap
Done it plenty times. I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. But never did it where children would see. Only in adult situations.

Yes I'm the same, although I wouldn't class myself as an exhibitionist. I don't want people to watch, I just don't care if they do.
I've probably had more sex in public than in private!
Quote by Willtryanythingonc3
Can you enjoy this and be straight or bi or what are people's thoughts. Also have you tried it or would like to try it?

It makes no difference whether you're male or female nor does sexual orientation.
It's simply a sexual act that some people find pleasurable and some don't. For men the glands that are stimulated can give an intense pleasure but some guys can't get over the idea of having anything in their ass.
Quote by naughtynurse


Funny I had this exact example in mind. (U just hope he finishes the GoT series before either he dies or the show has to start inventing stuff!)

Stephen king JUST published the follow up to The Shining this past year. I figure if its good enough for these incredibly successful writers to wait years before they follow up, I'm sure it's okay for an amateur likd me


He's finished it, he's editing 30,000 pages to novel size. That could take some time!
The follow up to The Shining is a perfect example as it is simply another story, do you think it could be done by just introducing the main characters and setting the scene then nothing until 3 months later? Publish chapters 1 & 2 then wait, 3 & 4 then wait and so on? That's the analogy!
Quote by sprite


for one, some of us would never publish anything with this method. for another, George RR Martin would never publish anything with the method (and HE'S a professional!).

I hardly think editing 30,000 pages for a novel is a very good analogy. The novel is a stand alone piece much like the James Bond or Matthew Bourne books. That hardly equates to a story here that ends abruptly especially when it's a lead in to the story.
This is my opinion and if yours differs, fine. I'm trying to write a story that's taking forever, I keep leaving it and coming back to it but I wouldn't submit part of it. I'll wait until I've completed it, I might even try my hand at shorter stories in between.
Quote by kornslayer1

So, it doesn't show respect for the readers, if you publish your story, on your own time, and terms?

No quite the opposite, it shows a disregard as on your own terms and in your own time.
You seemed to manage it recently, 7 parts and no lengthy delay.
Quote by MadMartigan


Agreed.

And writing in and of itself sure as shit isn't an easy thing to do.

Even the greatest writers get stoned walled and are unable to complete something they start.

We're providing our work and putting our balls (our lady bits) on the line for critics.

The fuck is there to complain about?

And your point is what exactly?
Quote by sprite


Or... we're amateur writers with families and jobs and some of us are mods who don't have a lot of time to write, so we do what we can do. it takes me a good long time to write a chapter, many of which are extremely wrong. would it be better to never put out any work at all?

My point is don't publish it until it's finished. Please look at Master Jonathon's post, that's what I'm saying. I understand that it's not a job and life comes first but why not wait to publish?
Quote by sprite


Or... we're amateur writers with families and jobs and some of us are mods who don't have a lot of time to write, so we do what we can do. it takes me a good long time to write a chapter, many of which are extremely wrong. would it be better to never put out any work at all?

My point is don't publish it until it's finished. Please look at Master Jonathon's post, that's what I'm saying. I understand that it's not a job and life comes first but why not wait to publish?
Quote by sprite


ok. once again, how is that disrespectful?

If you want respect as a writer you should respect the reader. By leaving a story up in the air for an inordinate length of time, shows that you really don't care about the people reading your story. Even more so when at the end it states part 2 to follow soon.
Read Bethalia's post.
Quote by sprite


how does that show a lack of respect for readers?

By, for example publishing part 2 three months after part 1.
I'm going to take the 5th on this one. I shocked myself and they're only the ones I remember without thinking hard. There were a lot of times I didn't even know their names let alone what country they were from!
Quote by Dancing_Doll


I'm thinking it's probably because raising the torso (or even slightly arching the back the way a cat would - only not as drastic) limits the depth of entry in this position. It's really the way you tootch your booty and how low your upper body gets. You can kind of 'cheat' this position if the guy has a large penis by tilting the pelvis at a slight upward angle.

For example: this position would *max* the depth of entry. It also gives the guy complete freedom to go as hard as he wants at a downward thrust which makes it more intense because you've got that downward momentum thing going.



If you keep your upper body higher or more level, without the downward arch and slightly tilt the pelvis (almost like you're doing a stomach crunch) it won't go as deep. Of course, don't do it too much, or he won't stay in - unless he's anaconda sized.

Not that I'm an expert either though... lol... just my experience.

Thanks, I'm no anaconda but I didn't slip out. Oh those were the days, so much easier with a guy, lol.
Quote by JasonM


Within our circle, of course. We're all VERY close friends ;)

That's fair then.
Quote by Meggsy
How do you feel about public nudity.
I am a nudist and have been for many years. At home I am normally naked within the apartment as is my flatmate gf.
I/we visit nudist beaches and generally have no problems (gay “exhibitionists” annoy us).
Family friendly “clothing optional” beaches are wonderful. Dad and the kids are right into it. Mum takes a while.
We were talking the other day to friends and they like most of us enjoy sex naked and are comfortable between the bedroom and bathroom. They are unwilling to disrobe in company, except with us it seems. They have been to and enjoyed a European “spa” where everybody male and female are naked enjoying the facilities in mixed company. Why – because they felt nobody would know or recognise them, but they were a little embarrassed at some of the sights. (Pubic hair treatment and various penis sizes)

We are curious – if you can be comfortable naked and enjoying sexual experiences together why cannot you be comfortable with others even when it is not a sexual experience. Nudists are not necessarily sex maniacs as many allude to. We don’t mean deliberately exposing yourself in public places where it is unlawful etc. More so around a private pool or at a party at a private residence etc where the age group is similar.

What are your feelings regarding nudity etc

Gay "exhibitionists"? Can you ellaborate please.
I've been to quite a few nude beaches and had no problem. I never get aroused on a straight beach, that's gross!
Quote by cordite74

Maybe 50:50 odds here. Currently 22C but it was down to almost -4C (granted, at night) about a week ago.

22C! That's my summer, lol.
Quote by JasonM
M'Lady occasionally spends an evening with one of the other men in our close circle. We're all good friends and have an agreement in our little community. So it's neither a turn-on nor a turn-off, it just is.

Do you get the same privilege with other women?
Quote by kornslayer1
Just do whatever works for you.

Doesn't that show a lack of respect for the readers. You, yourself, manage to publish parts within days of the previous one.
Quote by buttercup2u
I might get a bit annoyed, but heck, I have done it too. Not that I have meant to leave people hanging for so long, but it happens...life sometimes gets in the way...

That's why I think the story should be finished before the parts are submitted.
Quote by Dancing_Doll
The banging at the end of your vagina is your cervix. When a guy is rather large, it will hit your cervix with each thrust, and it's not a nice feeling - it does hurt. I agree with Dani, I think he needs to use more shallow thrusts in that position or try one that prevents really deep penetration.

You should also make sure you're sufficiently aroused beforehand. The general consensus is that a woman's vagina is only 3 or 4 inches long and many use this as an argument for the benefits of a smaller dick. In actuality when a woman is aroused, her cervix lifts higher into her body. Many woman can accommodate 8+ inches. If you're not totally warmed up/aroused etc though that might explain why he's hurting you with deep entry. Make sure you have at least one orgasm beforehand and also use plenty of lube. Oh... and tell him to go slow or you can also take control in this position and back yourself onto his cock while he stays stationary so you're the one controlling the depth of the thrusting.

You just need to experiment with it a bit and see what works - you don't want to be doing anything that causes you discomfort.

Now I'm no expert on this but in the dark distant past I had this problem with a girlfriend. I was never too keen on the position, I'm still not, but she was. We got round the problem by her holding the headboard thus raising her torso. It worked but do you know why?
I'd want to have sex with as many guys as possible. Uh? No change there then!
I'd want to have sex with as many guys as possible. Uh? No change there then!
Do any guys get waxed? I've done it to others but, apart from a part of my thigh and a small part on my forarm, I've never had it done to me.