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but there are still some decent ones left out there.
There's some of us indecent ones as well!
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
Derek you know I love you, but I still disagree with you. The straight equivalent is called anal sex.
There is anal sex between a man and a woman as well as between woman and woman or man and man.
The only thing that makes sex gay or straight is who it is between. Many gay men don't even have anal sex. There are many gay men that not only don't like it but they don't even believe in it (the whole frottage movement).
As swollen said many men are just curious about it. Just find the fullness enjoyable. But they wouldn't enjoy it if it was with another man. They enjoy it because of who it is happening with.
Mmm, playing you're trump card with the first line! You know how to shut me up.
I'm off to bed with my fantasies!
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Quote by megagap
This is easy. If you have asked a couple of times and he has said no. Then no means no. Its up to you now, when and if you get to live out your fantasy.
I've read and re-read this thread so many times and found the idea so ludicrous that I didn't post. You've got it in one "no means no". To try and coerce a person into doing something that they don't want is sick. If all parties aren't willing participants then the fantasy will never be realised.
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Quote by Dudealicious
Derek, if I have seen some of your posts correctly in the past you actually advocate against labels.
At the end of the day, people will call it whatever they want. Most importantly if they enjoy it, who gives a rats ass what it's called?
That's exactly what I said at the end of my post. It's all about the pleasure.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
Just stare at that picture you commented on my profile, you'll get back to your old pervy self in no time.
Tori Black is nice too, as a loud-moaner type that's a bit more implicated. She delivers a few shouts here and there, but they come across as a lot more natural than those of some other pornstars. Ashlynn Brooke would be more fun as a classy contained fuck, but Tori Black is a better dirty little slut.
Ahh, women...
http://www.sex.com/video/8181293-wet-orgasmic-fun-in-the-bathroom-with-tori-black/
OMG! You were right it worked! I'm back to "normal", I'll cancel the therapy.
I'm not taking a chance with Tori though, I might reawaken my dormant attraction towards women. I can only cope with one sex at a time! I spent a lot of my bisexual phase looking at the ground, there was too much to look at, I couldn't cope.
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Quote by Sandrita48
Next time I am gonna usee the translator coz english is not my "mother language".
People's behavior changes as the society in which they live and I thought I could learn other points of view but now I see that society doesn't change!
No we still treat ill thought, childish remarks in the same way! What did you expect when you make such an infantile statement belittling men on the "Ask The Guys" forum, a round of appause! Now run away little girl and get back to your books.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
This is my line of thinking too. No matter the sounds my partners make, it has to come across as a natural reaction to what they're experiencing. Girls who scream all the time often sound like they're doing it only to make an impression (though some girls are 'natural screamers', so to speak). It's a lot more erotic when the moans and shouts a woman makes are earned and truly represent her feelings. Men enjoy themselves just as much during sex yet don't really feel the need to 'scream', so why would women?
Generally speaking, some form of wild abandon is very hot during sex, but so is a certain degree of self-control. Screamers are a bit of a turn off in regard to the latter.
So, a moaner for me (though her moans can become quite loud at times), with a few uncontrived obscenities shouted along the way.
All of this applies to both the women I fuck with and the porn I watch.
Asa Akira is overdoing it in this video, to me. I had rougher sex than this before, and much preferred when my partners moaned/panted (sometimes loudly) and looked at me with a smile and confident eyes that implied 'bring it on' or 'fuck yeah', rather than scream like an uncontrollable nymphomaniac.
http://www.cunt8.com/gallery/asa-akira-bastardize-adventures/index.html
I much prefer this attitude from women. Ashlynn Brooke is one of my favorite actress ever, especially when it comes to looking natural and in control. Just a bit more dirty talk would have been nice.
http://cunt8.com/gallery/ashlynn-brooke-oiled-1/index.html
Well thanks for that! I clicked on your links and now I'm traumatised! I'm starting therapy tomorrow.
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Quote by Wardog
Guys let's face facts. For FEMALES this is possible for us probably NOT! HOW could you FUNCTION? I mean an erection REQUIRES a certain level of ATTRACTION.
You can hate someone and still find them attractive and I've known people that have had revenge sex. There are also couples where one partner hates the other but still have sex. I've never had sex with anyone I hated but I've had sex with people that I wasn't attracted to at all. Sometimes it was that or no sex and I was never keen on the latter.
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Quote by bluewolf12
how to kill the mood their bet he was pissed
He didn't sleep all night and came looking for me the next day. He caught up with me at lunchtime and managed to convince him nothing had been going on. He was still pissed off because she must have been dreaming about me. If they'd only known, I would rather have gone to bed with him!
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No but my name was mention at uni. My girlfriend, Ruth, and her best friend, Liz, always hung out together, I knew her boyfriend, Vance, but we only socialised if we went out together. One night Vance got in late and went to bed, Liz was asleep, he wanted sex and started to touch her pussy gently and then a bit firmer. She started to wake up, saw him and said "oh it's you". He said "who did you think it was?". She was still half asleep and said she thought it was me!!!
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
Even a finger is phallic -- like too.
Does that make it a gay act too if a man likes to have his ass fingered during a blow job or sex?
No a finger is a finger and both sexes have them. A phallus is penis shaped and only men have them. I'm not saying it maker you gay, I'm not even saying it makes you bi. All I've said is if a penis shaped object goes into a guy's ass it's simulating gay sex. There is no straight equivalent. I'm not disparaging or labelling anyone for doing it, you should do what you enjoy.
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Quote by Fuckbuddy69
I'd like to try it, never been fortunate enough to have a girl that sexuality free. Oh well... and no, it doesn't make you gay. There are plenty of straight guys getting rimmed or their asshole played with... this is just the next level up.
I didn't say it made you gay. Both sexes have tongues and fingers but only males have a penis. If a penis is in your ass it's a gay act and if a penis shaped dildo is in your ass it is simulating a gay act. It's the same if I use a fleshlite I'm simulating a straight act, but it wouldn't make me straight.
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Quote by JohnC
This is an odd question. May I ask why it is being asked?
I know men sometimes have their testicles removed because of cancer, but they can (and from what I understand most do) replace them with prosthetic testicles. So the overall look stays the same. So in today's world, why would a man not have testicles?
I've been with a guy with only one ball and no prosthetic, it was quite a shock as he hadn't told me.
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
My biggest and #1 fetish is underwear.
I can get so turned on by just seeing the waistband of a girls panties or a guys underwear when they are sitting or bend over. Making it even worse is if there is a little bit of plumber's crack too . Just that little tease.
Or if they bend over and you can see the panty or brief lines in their pants.
I am better about it now than I used to be, but (and can't believe I am admitting this) but I have been guilty in the past of going into friend's homes to use the bathroom and slipping out their underwear from the dirty clothes hamper and smelling them. Made for some wonderful jack off sessions later. LOL
This is my No 2, won't go into No 1, but only with guys. It's a turn off with women, but a tight pair of jeans on a woman is very sexy if she's got a nice ass.
With guys even a hint of waistband captures my attention. In fact I can probably tell what underwear a guy is wearing a lot of the time.
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Quote by Hardallnight
No it was something called yohimbeam, don't know how to spell it, and the surgery was my idea and it has helped. The surgeon who did it said it was probably a good thing because I had the tightest for-skin head ever seen
Yohimbe! Who the fuck prescribed that for your problem? That makes it worse, it enhances the erection! If you have no problem with getting an erection you haven't got a blood supply problem to your penis, there's no reason to prescribe Yohimbe.
It might be an over supply of prolactin. A recent trial in USA found 69% of the guys on the trial improved their orgasms and 50% actually orgasmed normally. Ask you doctor or specialist about Dostinex it inhibits Prolactin, the active drug is Cabergoline.
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Quote by cordite74
Gay is defined by the gender of a person and the gender(s) of the people that person is attracted to. Not sure why this concept is so difficult for some to grasp.
If you see it as gay that's your perception. You're mistakenly assuming that dildos are a gateway to cock. They can be but that doesn't mean that they are in all cases. It's rudimentary logic.
No, gay is not defined by gender it's defined by sex.
My point is a guy taking a cock shaped object up his ass is a gay act. If it wasn't the object wouldn't be cock shaped! The fact that a man has a pseudo penis in his anus is, to my mind, quasi gay!
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Quote by FamousLastWords
"You were straight but you became a lesbian after you had sex with a guy, right? do you have guy friends?"
so someone sent me this just a while ago. I don't know if he was trolling or not, either way it's pretty irritating. in my opinion, it's like saying, "you're black, so you play basketball, right?", but I dunno about you guys. so have you experienced this and how did you react?
My first reaction was a rye smile, then I laughed and finally felt sorry for the guy!
Oh these wonderful people, male and female, that think they can show us the error of our ways! They must think they're so fantastic in the sack that we'll be converted like St Paul on the road to Damascus.
Then it's the annoying feeling that comes to the fore that there are people still thinking like this. Do they see us as the ultimate challenge, that golden notch on the bedpost?
I think it might be nice to get some suggestions for a suitable reply, humour would be welcome but please keep the obscenities to a minimum folks.
