I've been here a bit and have a better grasp on this experience known as Lush. I came here to read and try writing but the chatrooms pulled me in. I didn't know how much I'd enjoy getting to know what turns people on and exploring the edges of what turns me on.

As for personal details: I'm married with kids in college. My wife does know I'm here. Since the kids left, we've been exploring polyamory and an open marriage.

We had kids young and now that they're gone, we're still young enough to explore our relationship and relationship with others. It's been a fun and not so fun experience.

My attitude here, to use the old Dan Savage idea, is to be GGG. Good, giving, and game. I'm open to most everything and will tell you if I'm not.