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eocpez2
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 34
0 miles · Ohio
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Advanced Wordsmith
Quote by sunshinehigh
Agree with both very much. I think that it's often thought as such an easy thing to be on either side of that coin but in fact its truly difficult. I mean a sun is there to please and only please what the Master wants but if the sub isn't getting daily rather minute by minute guidance when starting out then, in my opinion, the sub can feel lost and worried about how they rank in their Masters mind. So it's like in turn if they aren't getting what they need then they will feel unimportant. So it's a fine line for a Dom to teach and give and give by teaching. Of course this as always is just my take and may be on the wrong field in the game.
I was wondering if you would comment on this. and if you did, I was curious what you would say. and no, not on the wrong field in the game.
to the others, thanks for your thoughts, I agree that the love a sub has for his/her Dom/me is the most prized possession They can hold.
Advanced Wordsmith
Agree? Disagree? Opinion? These are two quotes I've come across that I find very enlightening.
To have someone give you control of their bodies and minds, to be entrusted with the responsibility to take care of them, to have someone willing to suffer for you, to forsake pride and dignity to please you... what other gift in this world can possibility equate to that? And more importantly, what makes you worthy to receive it?
The Master is an artist , His slave the clay, with the whip He will shape her , with humility He will mold her, Some will admire her, But only the Master, not even the slave, will know her true beauty, for her true beauty lies in her lover for her Master
To have someone give you control of their bodies and minds, to be entrusted with the responsibility to take care of them, to have someone willing to suffer for you, to forsake pride and dignity to please you... what other gift in this world can possibility equate to that? And more importantly, what makes you worthy to receive it?
The Master is an artist , His slave the clay, with the whip He will shape her , with humility He will mold her, Some will admire her, But only the Master, not even the slave, will know her true beauty, for her true beauty lies in her lover for her Master
Advanced Wordsmith
How do you become a chat room moderator? I had an account here for a year, left and have returned. And since coming back I've found that the chat has gotten more popular and there is more abuse going on. I'm on quite often, and sometimes there isn't a Mod around to help out when needed.
Advanced Wordsmith
I don't think I explained correctly. I'm not having an issue on knowing what I'm doing. And I'm not asking advice on how to be a master. What I'm asking is, with a sub who has had a violent past, what are some good ways to show her that I'm not that person. She wants to be fully commited. But based on her past, sometimes its hard for her to seperate thinking I'm being a master and thinking I'm just another guy who will hit her. I don't have an issue with what I need to do to be a master. I have an issue with showing her I'm not gonna be one of the guys who acts nice then turns into an abuser.