I have recently taken on a new sub. We met here on lush and we talked for a while. After learning I was a Master she became interested in the lifestyle. We talked and agreed to it. She has a history that sometimes makes it hard on her, making her think I'm being more than dominant. I have grown to love her both as a person and as my pet. I dominate with a firm hand and a large amount of care, but with her history it makes it hard on the firm hand part. I know she needs to be slowly eased into it and I have been extremely patient and caring and respect her needs. I just don't know how to better ease her into it. I don't want to scare her out of it but I also don't want to be too slack giving the impression ill let things slide. If anyone has some opinion, feel free to give them. Thank you in advance
