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erectus_2011
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 156

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It's not going to do any good, and if you feel that the respect for you will be enhanced in her eyes, forget it !! what's done is past, bury it deep and move ahead
Quote by aalily
Only you can know the answer to that, because after all it hasnt been her that's been cheating, she's been a free agent! I don't agree with hooking up with married men but has she ever cheated when she's been in a relationship? Have you ever suspected her of cheating on you? Do you trust her?
If you do trust her and she has done nothing to question that trust, then you are right to trust her. Talk to her about your concerns over her getting with married men but be careful to not be hurtful or accusing- I'm sure you two will work it out and wish you all the best smile

By the way, ^^^ @ erectus_2011 love is not a game. You're exactly the type that I wouldn't trust.


Dear Aalily, to trust or not is up to you , to elaborate more I would say, everything in life is a game when you closely and truly look at it,life is full of uncertianities , you don’t know what’s going to happen next moment ,there will be a surprise roll of the dice, or turn of a card that ends your turn or allows you to win it all, however, when you love someone and they love you, it doesn't matter who wins the game,there will always be a time when you have to place all your chips on the table and hope for the best, without big risks don't come big rewards, remember sometimes it's your pocket change on the line or sometimes it's your house or sometimes it's someones heart, maybe even your own, hence I suggest live the moments, keep on loving, don’t fear the future or the unknown
Dear Tom, the girl friend is is not your God, you need not doubt, you need not trust, it’s a game , don't make it so serious! but you have been told to trust your gf or to trust your bf, and because of this very teaching, distrust arises, in fact, you have been told to trust, for centuries it has been known that it is very difficult to trust your own wife, very difficult to trust your own husband, this is next to impossible

Tom, there’s no need to trust or not to trust,why bring in the question of trust? it’s just a game! play it joyfully, you making it too serious, and when you start demanding, "Be faithful to me!" you are creating a situation in which it will become impossible for the poor girl to be faithful to you, give her total freedom, then she may be faithful to you.

There is no need to demand these things i.e. trust, faith, live together joyously, make as much out of your being together as possible, rather than doing that, people create such problems, useless problems, and destroy all their joys, the gf has no obligation to be faithful to you, neither do you have any obligation to be faithful to her, you love her, she loves you, that's enough
This issue is more of psychological rather than of sensitivity, I suggest you try lick his balls, swirl your tongue around them, suck on them gently, fondle them, press your thumb in at the base of the scrotum and push against the part of his shaft that's inside him, this is about the only time this part of the shaft actually gets stimulated in any way, so the added pressure there can be new and exciting , also Use the tip of your tongue, go over the left side of the balls, up the shaft, and over the head, then do the same for the right side, another fantastic thing to do with your tongue is licking the frenulum (the super-sensitive triangular piece of skin that sits between the head and shaft) and the ridge around the head, and important reminder ! during all this please don't forget to keep on pumping , the tongue stimulation's great but if the pumping action's not there, there's far less chance we're ever gonna get there !

All the best and do share the results !
When your guy/girl is eating you out, and you orgasm, does he/she stop right away or keeps on doing the good work ? what would you prefer ??
" The entire mystery of pleasure in a woman’s body lies in the intensity of the pulsation just before the orgasm. Sometimes it is slow, one-two-three, three palpitations which then project a fiery and icy liqueur through the body. If the palpitation is feeble, muted, the pleasure is like a gentler wave. The pocket seed of ecstasy bursts with more or less energy, when it is richest it touches every portion of the body, vibrating through every nerve and cell. If the palpitation is intense, the rhythm and beat of it is slower and the pleasure more lasting. Electric flesh-arrows, a second wave of pleasure falls over the first, a third which touches every nerve end, and now the third like an electric current traversing the body. A rainbow of color strikes the eyelids. A foam of music falls over the ears. It is the gong of the orgasm. " – Anaïs Nin


What's your say ??
Lust is the lowest form of sex energy, love, the highest form, unless your lust becomes love you will be missing your goal, when lust is transformed and you enter into the city of love, you enter unattached, remember, that is their definition of love, if love has attachment in it, it is lust, if love has no attachment in it, only then is it not lust, when you are in lust you are not really thinking of the other, thinking of your beloved or lover, you are simply using the other for your own ends, and of course, attachment is bound to be there, because you would like to possess him/her, and you would like to possess him or her forever. Because tomorrow also you may need, the day after tomorrow also you may need, you need a lover and you want to possess him, remember lust is always cunning and love is always compassionate
Teacher:

Little Johnny, can you tell me the name of 3 great kings who have brought happiness and peace into people's lives?

Little Johnny answered:


Drin-king, smo-king, and fuc-king !!!!!!
I would say, I would like to have her heart, once I have it, I will be going to have all 3 choices at will !