Rookie Scribe
I have a very dear friend that went through the whole thing of a fake Master and would have given up if I wasn't around. I have slowly been showing her that none of us in the lifestyle are like him and that we do not bully or make the subs/slaves feel insecure or scared. In the 2 short months since he left her she has come a very long way in knowing more about herself and what she wants. That is the one thing that a wannabe will do to someone that wants to be in the lifestyle and finds the wannabe's. They will and can hurt someone bad to the point where they almost give up on everything. I have done what I can for her to bring her out of the shell she was put in because of everything. She is happier and stronger even as she is a slave and wanting to give up full control to me but I am giving her the time she needs. That is the biggest thing that someone needs that have been hurt by a wannabe and that is time. Time to get over the pain and reestablish the trust they can have in the lifestyle.If anyone meets someone like that talk to them get them to see the truth but do not push or force them to see the truth let them see it for themselves