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freakycactus
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 38
0 miles · Durham
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How can buying lingerie be so fucking complicated? It's an absolute joke! I do my measurements and your website tells me I'm a 30AA - seriously!? In shock I check the M&S site, I'm wearing one of theirs now and they tell me that I should be wearing a 34AA! What the fuck! I'm wearing a 32DD!!
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Over the years I've had a few, bitch was one but I don't mind it anymore.
What would really turn me off now is him wanting me to take control, fortunately, he doesn't.
What would really turn me off now is him wanting me to take control, fortunately, he doesn't.
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I think of my gorgeous boyfriend and the things we do together, I also think of things he and I haven't done yet but will.
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I can't decide what I feel like tonight, my last 3 songs have been
Destiny's Child - Survivor
Chimaira - Power Trip
Emile Sande - Next to Me
Destiny's Child - Survivor
Chimaira - Power Trip
Emile Sande - Next to Me
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Quote by crazydiamond
No .. I would prefer to savour one at a time personally.
For you, I'd savour!
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Quote by LittleBambi
Plus I'm a fussy eater so fuck off with trying to order me something.
Eating out is difficult enough without having to explain myself to my date and the waiter.
I'm a grown up and I'm perfectly capable of making my own decisions. If someone did this on a first date it would also be the last date.
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His hand tugging on my hair, buried deep inside me and his lips against my ear telling me I'm his.
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I was once with a guy who dressed me from head to toe in tights (pantyhose)
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Crazydiamond! It's her handiwork in my forum signature, such a lovely surprise 
And, someone very special, I think he'll be making me happy for a while
And, someone very special, I think he'll be making me happy for a while
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In reverse order:
It's complicated
In a relationship
Homewrecker
Fuck buddy
Single
It's complicated
In a relationship
Homewrecker
Fuck buddy
Single
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A couple of years ago I was living with my now ex boyfriend, he'd had a nervous breakdown and wasn't working, I was only working part time and my savings were disappearing fast. If someone would have offered then, I'd have thought about it and done it, now, I doubt I'd really think about it before accepting the offer.
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It sounds like you've got to the point where you'll be thinking about this a lot which must make it difficult to relax enough to have an orgasm.
When you've got some time, when you'll be uninterrupted, spend some time relaxing and exploring your body, teasing yourself, maybe leave the toys and just use your fingers. It might take a while, it might take a few attempts, but try it and see what happens.
When you've got some time, when you'll be uninterrupted, spend some time relaxing and exploring your body, teasing yourself, maybe leave the toys and just use your fingers. It might take a while, it might take a few attempts, but try it and see what happens.
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Thanks for this shylass, now I want a custard filled donut!
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My latest story is up and is getting some lovely feedback and I lost 1lb at weight watchers this week, just another 10.5lbs to go
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Introduce the title of your story: How a Slut Should be Treated
Genre/Category: BDSM although there are lots of other elements in it as well.
Provide the link: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/bdsm/how-a-slut-should-be-treated.aspx
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story? A friend suggested it.
2. How did you come up with these characters? They're all based on people I know and as always, the main character is based on myself.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories? There are more than two characters, there are three in this one and there's more of a build up to the main action.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece? Writing the build up, there's a big decision made at the beginning of the story, to allow someone else into this couple's sex life, there's a lot of thought, worry and anxiety even after they've made the decision and I needed to get that across to the reader.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it? Out of every story I have, this one has more of everything, more characters, more highly charged emotions and probably the dirtiest sex scene I've written so far. I'd love to write a second part, the ending has been left open to allow me to do that and to, hopefully, leave the reader wanting more.
Genre/Category: BDSM although there are lots of other elements in it as well.
Provide the link: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/bdsm/how-a-slut-should-be-treated.aspx
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story? A friend suggested it.
2. How did you come up with these characters? They're all based on people I know and as always, the main character is based on myself.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories? There are more than two characters, there are three in this one and there's more of a build up to the main action.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece? Writing the build up, there's a big decision made at the beginning of the story, to allow someone else into this couple's sex life, there's a lot of thought, worry and anxiety even after they've made the decision and I needed to get that across to the reader.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it? Out of every story I have, this one has more of everything, more characters, more highly charged emotions and probably the dirtiest sex scene I've written so far. I'd love to write a second part, the ending has been left open to allow me to do that and to, hopefully, leave the reader wanting more.
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Quote by MoonlightSerenity
I use that line a lot when talking to people, most often you either get "I'm horny" from them or a decent conversation.
I have to admit, I rarely start conversations with new people, I've noticed that the guys who use a simple opening line are the ones worth talking to
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It drives me crazy too, I don't care if someone's lying when they're calling me gorgeous (well, I do a little), but they need to have at least seen more of me than my boobs before they say it. It didn't help that I posted a story with the line, 'morning gorgeous', because afterwards that's all anyone seemed to say, if I'd have known I'd have changed it to, 'morning beautiful', lol.
I joined a dating site a couple of months ago and someone told me I have beautiful breasts, of course the picture I used on there was a very sedate one. I don't think too many people realise that compliments only work if there's a chance they're genuine.
MoonlightSerenity is right, it's a big improvement to other opening lines, however, none really beat something along the lines of, 'hey, how's it going?' - it's always best to start simple and see where it leads you.
I joined a dating site a couple of months ago and someone told me I have beautiful breasts, of course the picture I used on there was a very sedate one. I don't think too many people realise that compliments only work if there's a chance they're genuine.
MoonlightSerenity is right, it's a big improvement to other opening lines, however, none really beat something along the lines of, 'hey, how's it going?' - it's always best to start simple and see where it leads you.
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I love the idea of a group of men taking it in turns to fuck me, using every hole for their pleasure, filling me with their cum over and over again until eventually all cumming on me - how it would work in reality? I don't know.
So, my short answer is yes.
So, my short answer is yes.
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What are the qualities do you seek when looking for a new top/bottom? I need to be able to trust them, as others have said, this is the most important quality. I need to know that if I say my safe word, everything will stop. There also needs to be a connection, I met a Dom through a website, we got together and had a good time but something was missing because there wasn't that connection.
Where do you look? That's something I'm still figuring out
What DON'T you want? A bully, or someone who thinks they have what it takes to be a Dom. I also don't want to be one of many subs, I want to be the only one.
Where do you look? That's something I'm still figuring out
What DON'T you want? A bully, or someone who thinks they have what it takes to be a Dom. I also don't want to be one of many subs, I want to be the only one.