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freakycactus
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 38
0 miles · Durham

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do you prefer one or the other - not really, if I *had* to choose, I'd go for uncircumcised

do you have any fetishes with uncircumcised I like to play with the foreskin, it's not a fetish as such, it just seems silly to ignore it when it's there. My ex loved it when I'd tease him with my lips and tongue, I could never play with it for long, because he'd get so hard

is it a special turn on when a guy tells you or when you see that he is uncircumcised... no, it really doesn't make a difference, I'm more concerned about how well he can use it
I love sleeping naked and being snuggled up with someone. If I'm on my own then I'm happy to sleep naked unless I'm chilly, then I'll stick my pjs on smile
Yes, I've had a few people pass comment on the opening line of my profile, 'I'm here for my enjoyment, not yours. If that confuses you, please leave now.'

A few people have told me it makes me seem like a bitch, one even sent me a message asking if I allowed anyone else to enjoy themselves on here. As far as I'm concerned, it clearly did confuse them and rather than leave they felt the need to get in touch.

People who are going to nit pick over your well filled out profile, aren't worth your time and more than likely, they aren't the sort of people you'd want to be talking to anyway.
Under the right circumstances it's a yes to all of them, although, the stranger and another female would probably only happen if I was ordered to by my Dom (if I'm lucky enough to submit to one again).
I'm still being introduced to different types of spanking, during my favourite spanking so far, I was sat on his knee, curled up towards him, with my legs up on the arm of the sofa, and as he held me he spanked me. He cupped his hand in a way that made it a lot more painful than I'm used to - I had marks for over a week - I loved it.
Having another look at the *checks* 8 (8!) stories that are sat unfinished. I started them when inspiration hit, then left them to gather dust. There's some good stuff in there, I'm going to have to put my writing hat on! smile
The guy is an idiot and he needs a harsher punishment. Having said that, you can't ask, 'what is up with English men!?' based on his actions.
A couple of friends at school named my boobs after themselves, so one was called Katheryn and the other was Kirsty.

My ex's cock was always referred to as his 'little friend'.

Since then the closest I've ever come to a nickname is him saying, 'mine'.
I tend to stick with my imagination, even if I've been reading a story on here more often than not, by the end my eyes are shut and I'm imagining something different to what I was reading.

Sometimes I need someone else to help out and I will sext, cyber and if the right guy is free then there's phone sex too. Depending on how badly I need to cum I might just text, or send someone a message asking them for their help, i.e. telling me to cum, one word from them does the trick.
More than I can possibly count, although we joked once about using tally marks to count them.
A curly wurly and knowing I can go and see my boyfriend for a well needed cuddle
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I have... to both cyber and sexting. *not always though*

Then again - I write, so I'm into words and what they can do to turn someone on.

It's about the person on the other end though and what they can do to provoke my thoughts.

Cyber or sexting with some random stranger does nothing for me.


Note: I'm not looking to cyber on Lush, so guys reading this should not be rushing to friend me after reading this post. lol.



Exactly what Doll said.
On the first date I want to be wined and dined, the ravishing comes later.
Being called beautiful by someone who has never seen me naked and knows there's no chance for sex.
Joe Manganiello



Do I really need to tell you why?

On top of what you can see, he's 6' 5 *fans self* yummy!
I love anal, it's an incredibly intense pleasure and it makes you feel so very full.
I don't really turn into a different person, it depends what I'm doing and who I'm with. Generally, I get happy, instead of worrying how I look to others I just relax and enjoy myself. I love to close my eyes in the middle of a club and just move to the music, it feels as though there's no one else there and I just feel free. I can also get quite horny and I'm a bit more confident.

There used to be a bigger difference between drunk Cactus and sober Cactus than there is now, within the last year I've become more relaxed and have been enjoying myself more when I'm sober, I just giggle more when I'm drunk.
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How about an option to sign is as invisible? Being bombarded by pokes, chat requests, and online messages can be a bit overwhelming, especially if aren't feeling all that social at the moment but don't wanna be rude.


Account > settings > online status > Who can see you? Change to block all (invisible)
I don't know if it would turn me on but I would try it with the right guy if it was something he was really into. As for my reaction, I wouldn't be freaked out, I'd be calm, ask a few questions and think it over.
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a nice ass to rub my hands on and pull into me... yeah, yum!


This.
Good health for my nieces, they've been through so much already, they deserve a long healthy life.
Yes I have, I love the feeling of something in my arse. Now if I indulge in some anal play on my own, I tend to use a butt plug. It's nothing like you expect it to be and if you're just starting out use lots of lube and take it slow.
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I would take an A cup cutie over some double D breasted cow anytime.


When I was at my smallest, I was 9st 3lbs, very fit and healthy, eating all the right foods, exercising regularly and keeping myself active in general, and I was a natural 32DD. Nothing remotely cow-like about me.

I'm a little bigger than that now and even now I certainly don't resemble a cow, and I'm still a natural DD.
I'm a band apparently, you can find my music on myspace.

I did like the picture



My Lush life doesn't appear until page 2 of the results.
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I voted No. I can't see what I'd get out of it other than slightly disturbed by people visiting 20 times a day.

I can't see how it would improve my lush experience, unless I was aggressively marketing my page and wanted to see what strategies brought the most eyeballs to my page. If I ever get like that, feel free to call me a cunt.

Also I wouldn't want people to feel like they're being watched while on my profile.


Can I call you a cunt anyway?
I voted no because I can imagine it causing a lot of arguments among some. I'd check too much to see who'd been looking at mine and then overthinking it, not to mention, I don't want some people to see I've been viewing their profile. They might realise I'm secretly stalking them
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None of which you talked about is extreme. Some of his posts are just....well odd so take it with grain of salt.


Haha, I do smile If anything, I imagine, the majority of my experience so far has been fairly sedate, because he was training me and easing me into things, it's a shame we were unable to continue.