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well.. its definitely about more then the dick.. and if I repeat some previous advice without giving credit where it is due.. I apologize.
But it starts with the eyes.. and some frottage is definitely going to get things going in the right direction.. eye contact through out whenever possible..
with clothes .. without clothes.. both carry a message... saying its all about you baby... or lets get playing together.. so it depends what you are trying to say.. there are benefits to both and you can always change your mind midway
the technique... well.. here opinions differ.. I prefer plenty hand action and focus on the glans.. the shaft has fewer nerve ending.. think of it as you would think of your outer lips.. fun to play with .. but time to move on.. (but visit occasionally)
swirling motions.. in and out.. fast or slow.. choose your tempo... however the muse strikes.. you cannot really do it wrong other then being too light or not pay attention to positive reinforcers... wetness, pressure and motion are required .. suction is not ... and did I mention eye contact... the thought of a pair of innocent eyes looking it me, with my cock in her mouth is simply exquisite
now I don't know about you.. but the best part of a blow job for me.. is when you reach into the front of your panties.. and touch yourself while you blow me.. cos how turned on you are totally makes or breaks a blow job.. enthusiasm in my mind trumps technique most days...
balls are really important.. touch them.. play with them.. but be very very very gentle.. they hurt easily and pain is not recommended with a standard blow job.. for me .. some back side finger play will only enhances the pleasure.. mileage will vary.. better check gently first..
deepthroat I think is a waste of time.. and watching you gag is not a turn on... I believe it is more about show then sensation.. or maybe I just never had it done right.. would love to hear from you what is your experience with it..
when I cum.. please don't stop the motions.. its nice to swallow (but not to make faces).. its ok to aim anywhere you like.. but please don't just stop and leavet me untouched while my sperm is flying.. keep it going a little longer that moment is incredible.. some are really turned on by swallowing, some by letting it squirt on the boobs or face.. for me.. eye contact... and a happy smile.. happy purring or loving murmuring will go a long way..
It can get sensitive quickly.. so be very tuned...
now you tell me how should I reciprocate?
But it starts with the eyes.. and some frottage is definitely going to get things going in the right direction.. eye contact through out whenever possible..
with clothes .. without clothes.. both carry a message... saying its all about you baby... or lets get playing together.. so it depends what you are trying to say.. there are benefits to both and you can always change your mind midway
the technique... well.. here opinions differ.. I prefer plenty hand action and focus on the glans.. the shaft has fewer nerve ending.. think of it as you would think of your outer lips.. fun to play with .. but time to move on.. (but visit occasionally)
swirling motions.. in and out.. fast or slow.. choose your tempo... however the muse strikes.. you cannot really do it wrong other then being too light or not pay attention to positive reinforcers... wetness, pressure and motion are required .. suction is not ... and did I mention eye contact... the thought of a pair of innocent eyes looking it me, with my cock in her mouth is simply exquisite
now I don't know about you.. but the best part of a blow job for me.. is when you reach into the front of your panties.. and touch yourself while you blow me.. cos how turned on you are totally makes or breaks a blow job.. enthusiasm in my mind trumps technique most days...
balls are really important.. touch them.. play with them.. but be very very very gentle.. they hurt easily and pain is not recommended with a standard blow job.. for me .. some back side finger play will only enhances the pleasure.. mileage will vary.. better check gently first..
deepthroat I think is a waste of time.. and watching you gag is not a turn on... I believe it is more about show then sensation.. or maybe I just never had it done right.. would love to hear from you what is your experience with it..
when I cum.. please don't stop the motions.. its nice to swallow (but not to make faces).. its ok to aim anywhere you like.. but please don't just stop and leavet me untouched while my sperm is flying.. keep it going a little longer that moment is incredible.. some are really turned on by swallowing, some by letting it squirt on the boobs or face.. for me.. eye contact... and a happy smile.. happy purring or loving murmuring will go a long way..
It can get sensitive quickly.. so be very tuned...
now you tell me how should I reciprocate?
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Quote by elenai1230
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I came about 2 months ago for the first time
ele..can't not be happier for u ..... that's gonna make life so much more interesting and fun..
reading all those answers from you sexy girls makes me sad to be a guy.. what a wonderful orgasmic potential u gals have..
me.. once to twice a day.. sometimes more.. but it gets harder the more I do it (until the next day).. I hate the refractory period..
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Quote by ZafiaQuote by ali2teaseuQuote by MerryAnitaQuote by DBarclay
Socks ..womens feet are always cold
LMAO. I know mine always are
My hubby gets very turned when he sees me one of his dress shirts, panties and a pair of socks. Now I know its only because of my cold feet.
That is not 'always' true Ali....turn away from DB's words of darkness and go towards the light....
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LMAO!
as long as it is not because you remind him of Tom Cruise
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hmmm I find the limit problematic.. I can see the utility to block spammers.. but then again.. once reported they are removed and the members remain with the limitation.
I would support removal of the limit or setting it higher (50) no real difference as far as spammers are concerns but will be helpful to members.
Some members do not like to “chat” so PMs can go back and forth all day and easily reach the limit.
I would support removal of the limit or setting it higher (50) no real difference as far as spammers are concerns but will be helpful to members.
Some members do not like to “chat” so PMs can go back and forth all day and easily reach the limit.
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actually, the SSRI's (prozac family) are better to retard orgasm.. and among them paxil will do it the most..
chlomipramine (anafranil) will do it too for many people.. but also is know to cause spontaneous orgasms for women while sneezing.. ;)
to check it out girls..
chlomipramine (anafranil) will do it too for many people.. but also is know to cause spontaneous orgasms for women while sneezing.. ;)
to check it out girls..
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actually, the SSRI's (prozac family) are better to retard orgasm.. and among them paxil will do it the most..
chlomipramine (anafranil) will do it too for many people.. but also is know to cause spontaneous orgasms for women while sneezing.. ;)
to check it out girls..
chlomipramine (anafranil) will do it too for many people.. but also is know to cause spontaneous orgasms for women while sneezing.. ;)
to check it out girls..
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Hmmm quite a topic to follow...
I think a lot has to do with how hurt you are... and that would mean a lot to whether you can move on from it or not..
If you are really hurt and that hurt will stick around.. You might as well cut him loose.. No use keeping traumatic reminders around..
If you truly can let go.. Then it stands another chance
I think a lot has to do with how hurt you are... and that would mean a lot to whether you can move on from it or not..
If you are really hurt and that hurt will stick around.. You might as well cut him loose.. No use keeping traumatic reminders around..
If you truly can let go.. Then it stands another chance